Advaik, did she have a pussy AND a dick? Was her clit/dick the size of a normal dick or was it more like a huge clit? How long was it? Was it hard or flacid? Did it have a mushroom head of a cock? Does she pee from it? My questions are serious and just out of curiosity. I've heard of this before, but never knew someone with personal experience.
I feel awful for this girl you were with. I think you handled her nicely though. Everyone has stuff they don't like about their body even if they're normal, but to have to live with something like this...I don't think I could handle it. Isn't there some kind of surgery she could have?