DIVISION said:
I got that same treatment from my ex, but you gotta question the validity of such a statement. Women almost always have alterior motives when they do what they do; so don't take everything at face value. You start to treat a woman like you would a man and you've got problems. My ex is 22, and only after things are over (at least relationship-wise) does she understand how much better I treated her than other guys before and since. To me, there's no going back......once I break off with a woman, there's not much chance of me wanting to be with her again.
DIV
Man i Just woke up this morning and i have an email from her, wishing me safe trip telling me how much she loves me and values me ect AND the one that is sort of disturbing is the ECard she sent to me, same thing full of Love and Kisses and statements implying i always have her Love and she is not looking anywhere else regardless if i want her or not because no one will ever compare to me ect. Its easy to believe it when she says thee kinds of things because she hadn't dated or even slept with anyone in over 2 years before i started seeing her, she has never had a man treat her right in any way so maybe thats why she is having such a hard time letting go. I have considered trying to maintain a friendship with her but even my Sister has warned me she isn't the type i could ever have Just a friendship with.
There is alot of great things about this Girl and she is very talented (artist) and she is awesome in bed, extreamly georgeous can can be a real sweetheart when she wants to but thats just it hr moods change like the wind and not normal female moodiness to the extreme, you know one of those where no matter what you say or do you always do something that sets them off.
She has a problem letting go of her own past along with the fact she has so many triggers, deaing with her sometimes is like playing twister in a mine field! One thing she doesnt seem to get is im out of the fixing broke women business. Even though i have allowed some women in my life to drag me through shit i have always lived by "always go forward never go back" so ounce i get pushed to that point of no longer playing for keeps IM DONE.
This one im breaking up with is 34, the girl im going to meet in June is 22 things are progressing nicely and i do not need the distraction of someone refusing to let go.
I can honestly say EVERY women i have been with in my life after things where over and regardless who called thing off have all tried to get me back.
One thing thats amazing to me is the girl im breaking it off with, now i'm wondering where was all this sweetness when we where together, seems a Lttle too late now.