3some ?

[Metal Gear]

I agree...

talking and doing it are 2 different things. Me and my girl started out as fuck buddies and then got serious so she kind of accepted me for how I was before we were serious. You just have to set the ground rules beforehand.

 

[SoCAmuscle]

letssss say 2 people have a history together...then they break up but MAY get back together again one day.

NOW.. the third party enters... so this ex-couple (now freinds) wants to have a 3some with another person.... my question is ....could this be a potential disaster??

im thinking what if "person 3" lol... crosses some sort of boundary (like what if she kisses the guy "too passionately" or WHATEVER it may be.... OR feelings get involved somehow b/w the ex-couple. would u tell this third person not to do it?? anyone have experience with this?? the third persons objective is to have a shit load of fun WITHOUT interferring with their potential future together as a couple. keep in mind that the third person has been told by the other two thats its all good...everyone is comfortable.... there will be no hard feelings at all.

what to do what to do?!?!
thx sexaholics!

This will be a disaster! Mark my words...

 

[SteelWeaver]

KB - go for it. Just go for it. Hell, what have you got to lose? You're young and beautiful - just go have fun!

You only live once, you know.

 

[SteelWeaver]

But a few ground rules/action monitors, set while you're all still sober and dry, wouldn't go astray.

 

[Formula]

A 3 some is best done with people you don't know and don't give a shit about. NO B/F or G/F needs to be involved it'll just fuck up your relationship.

 

[Raina]

I think that would have the potential to get messy. The only 3somes I've had were with all girls. It was SO great. We were all best friends. We'd get manicures done, borrow each others' clothes, and fuck around. I'm not sure if anything is much more heavenly than being with 2 women. It's funny but none of us got jealous about the others hooking up with guys-- but if another girl came into the picture, we would get pretty catty.

I couldn't handle having a 3some with my bf and someone else. I know myself well enough to know that I'd flip out if someone touched him. I've always told him that I didn't care if he messed around with guys but that mostly pisses him off because he wouldn't do that (I think that's kind of closed minded but it's his call). If I was single I would be up for a male/female 3some but only if the other couple I weren't close. It would have to be me as person #3 because I couldn't handle sharing my bf. I suppose it's not an issue though as I'm single and don't cheat.

If you think that there's any chance that things will get messy emotionally and you'll end up hurt or somehow damaging a relationship that means something to you, it's not worth it IMO. Friendships and romantic relationships hold infinitely more value to me than any sexual adventure ever will....though those adventures can be damn fun....

 

[KBgrl]

Steel. thx baby!! you KNOW i would wait for u but i dont know how long i can wait sexy ..... we WILL have our day im sure

Raina... how are u doll?? i havent talked to u in a while honey. drop me a PM when u get a minute and let me know how ur doing with "everything"
p.s thx for the adivce!

 

[Hengst]

threesomes are tricky and loaded with potential land mines. I found they only work if all three partners do NOT have any emotional ties to each other.......sex as sport. The moment one partner has "feelings" for another, regardless of what is said prior, then the whole experience can be hurtful to some one. And that, my friend, is not the goal.

 

[PhiKap_09]

i guess it depends on how the couple feel about allowing another party to enter their circle. if the couple plans to get back together in the future, they may want to consider if they will be comfortable w/doing it and if this would bring them closer to one another or make them happy.

 

[w8lfter]

KB hunny all I gotta say is .....MEEOOWWW! ...if things don't pan out for ya'll, you know you can always join us