3some ?

[KBgrl]

letssss say 2 people have a history together...then they break up but MAY get back together again one day.

NOW.. the third party enters... so this ex-couple (now freinds) wants to have a 3some with another person.... my question is ....could this be a potential disaster??

im thinking what if "person 3" lol... crosses some sort of boundary (like what if she kisses the guy "too passionately" or WHATEVER it may be.... OR feelings get involved somehow b/w the ex-couple. would u tell this third person not to do it?? anyone have experience with this?? the third persons objective is to have a shit load of fun WITHOUT interferring with their potential future together as a couple. keep in mind that the third person has been told by the other two thats its all good...everyone is comfortable.... there will be no hard feelings at all.

what to do what to do?!?!
thx sexaholics!

 

[wyst]

KBGirl, you dawg!

LOL

I'd have to say, it's a sticky situation. It certainly could be a disaster. But on the other hand, you might just want to take them at their word. It just depends on how much risk you're willing to take. I'd take it slow and let them make the first move. Since you're all out in the open, maybe tell them that?

Wyst

 

[KBgrl]

who said we were talking about me wyst..

thx !! i know...it could get "sticky" .... well the two people have already informed the third person that they want this to happen!! making the first move is really not the issue....its going to be more like this huge event rather than "unsure" evening. thing is... person numero 3 doesnt want to ruin a freindship OR their potential future as a couple. fuckin people gotta make shit so complicated, lol.

 

[KBgrl]

it could all turn out great or really akward!?!?!?

ok sooo people who have been there and done that speak up!

 

[wyst]

Me! The couple broke up. I was the third person. I ended up going out with the first person for about a year. The second person was really mad, obviously, but the whole thing had been her idea in the first place. It turned out that the first person had serious issues about her relationship with the second person. She, it turns out, was one of those people who can't break up with someone until they have a new person lined up. As you can imagine, history repeats itself ad nauseum, and she hooked up with someone else before we broke up. It was messy. But it was also my first serious relationship with another woman, and I got to experience a hell of a lot in a really short time. First 3some, first bi-experience etc. I don't regret it now, but it was pretty intense and crazy for a while...

Wyst

 

[KBgrl]

OUCH!! thx for input baby!

something to think i about i guess...

hey... it was fun when it happened i bet eh!?!?

 

[tripleV]

GO FOR IT GIRL!!!!!!!!!!

 

[KBgrl]

KB, if you have to ask yer prolly not ready for it. YOU have to be able to handle the outcome........so basically you make it a disaster or not.

BTW-me n azia are goin to colorado in 1 days for a lil shindig of the same sort.

hey pauly whats up kid!?!? im just looking out for all the parties here.... dont wont to ruin a friendship and shit ya know.... its not like i dont give a shit... im close with one of the peeps involved . maybe it would be different if nobody knew each other or gave a shit about each other ya know. !?!? hummm..

hey...have a good time and take good care of my baby azia!

 

[wyst]

OUCH!! thx for input baby!

something to think i about i guess...

hey... it was fun when it happened i bet eh!?!?

it was fun and I don't regret it at all. I learned a lot. But I'm not sure I'd do it again, given the opportunity. But hey, for people who can make it work, that's cool with me!

 

[Metal Gear]

letssss say 2 people have a history together...then they break up but MAY get back together again one day.

NOW.. the third party enters... so this ex-couple (now freinds) wants to have a 3some with another person.... my question is ....could this be a potential disaster??

im thinking what if "person 3" lol... crosses some sort of boundary (like what if she kisses the guy "too passionately" or WHATEVER it may be.... OR feelings get involved somehow b/w the ex-couple. would u tell this third person not to do it?? anyone have experience with this?? the third persons objective is to have a shit load of fun WITHOUT interferring with their potential future together as a couple. keep in mind that the third person has been told by the other two thats its all good...everyone is comfortable.... there will be no hard feelings at all.

what to do what to do?!?!
thx sexaholics!

You got to make sure to tell your mate that there will be no emotions involved. Eventhough sometimes it might look like it, it just out of passion. Make him feel comfortable by being with her first and then the other person should get involved into it slowly so he get a first shot at you. Believe me I have plenty of experience when it comes to 3some. Check out my post about 3somes in ths forum.