what is the one thing that attracts you most to your spouse or someone you had a long relationship with in the past excluding looks. For me it would have to be that she is the most "nuturing" person.
He's not my spouse, but the #1 thing that attracts me to him is the fact that he appreciates me. Kindness and good deeds are not wasted on him, which only makes me want to be sweeter.
I can’t narrow it down to one thing. I also don’t think you should be able to. My wife is my best friend she is everything I ever wanted in a lover and a friend.
If there had to be one thing above the rest I would say it’s the fact that she loves me as completely as I love her.