This exactly like my friends wives. Sugarplum, Where you married before? If so, did your desire go down, or just find your caught up in day to day activities, or sex drive constant all the way through. (You don't have to answer if too personal)
I have read that married woman replace their sexuality w/kids/new house/job/etc. Even lesbians in a long term relationship stop having sex. Sex becomes a less important thing in the relationship.????