facial hair

I'm interested in growing more facial hair so I can look older everyone thinks I'm like 15 years old but I'm actually like in my twenties there are a couple options there's something called a starter beard growth kit and there's another products also that come in supplement form called ironbeard...

a female friend of mine took steroids and she got a lot of body and facial hair she also said that her clitoris got enlarged and it became weird to have sex especially if the guy had a tiny package can you tell me what she did wrong so I can avoid the same mistakes as her