Its about as wrong as being not gay, I mean not even an issue good friend. However, mainstream culture hasn't quite evolved to total understanding and respect. Hence, -Misnomer-.
I really didn't have a solid point as I dig on both U and Lart, I guess just appreciating the dynamic manner in which both U, him and Me do not fit stereotypical patterns, that may be based on some partial correspondence, however, one thing I've learned as a newb or re minded, is that I dig on his and your unique dynamic that are both paradoxical.
Okay, lecture over, dude I"m having a quiet holidays, here in Lake Las Vegas, and thats fine with me, I'm stayin away from the strip on New Years, fucking they are shutting down Las Vegas Blvd, and I dig on more smaller intimate parties, and not the 6th circle of hell type events. Just me though, hope U are having an tranquil holiday as well good bro.