lOL, dude, thanks for the hit...
Dude, I'm retarded, took me a full week to get the sub system down.
Alexander, you know a name signifies the incoming personality...
That said, I want U to raise your tyke/champ, on the principles, of growth mindset vs fixed...
It's a book by carol dweck, on praising kids, the right way, so they grow not running from change, and protecting the self esteem, but rather understand working through process of change....
here is the link:
http://www.mindsetonline.com/