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Picking up guys-A girl's guide
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seikialice88
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Thanks you for the post.
x2, i can look at a girls eyes and see if its even worth talking to her or not.....
but how you approach someone all depends where you are, what your doing, etc etc
if im with a few guys at the bar and were standing around and theres a click of girls close by its easy, just kinda stand by them and begin to talk/comment a bit. Pick out the one you want and try to strike up conversation without looking like your trying to pick her up.
or if you have to walk up to a group of chicks with a buddy you guys need a game plan. Honestly, i would discuss it will him before approaching.....your not plaining out a ton but you wana know whats hes going to do after you say "hi".
Ive just walked up and asked whats your name before....hit and miss
on the beach or area where your not wearing too much clothing its ez for us fit guys cuz the girls are already looking our way. ( i use to be a fitness model so i have no problem what so ever)
biggest thing, dont try too hard.....remember the kid in high school that tried way to hard to be cool?? yeah it was totallly evident?? you want to look like your just a bit interestd. Like you ve got other options if person X doesnt bite. How you carry yourself makes a big difference.
VitaminBrad
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Smile!!
A nice smile is ur ticket into any conversation
A nice smile is ur ticket into any conversation
thelocal
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Have good posture. Smile. Be friendly..umm I'm sure you know this already but ud ur talking to a Guy you really like make sure to do flirtatios contact, hitting the arm,shoulder .stuff like that ..and most important HAVE FUN.no omw wants to be with a boring person, so have fun,let that vibe grow
NO PAIN NO GLORY!
NO PAIN NO GLORY!
LOL times have changed so much. Now even ladies got to have game and thats just even more of the dating bullshit in life. There were times when you just smiled at each other and let nature take its course but now it appears to be all about game and silly games.....
As a guy if she smiles at me and is decent/ courteous to me, well we are gonna go out. Its that simple but then again Im an old fuck too.
Good luck Ebs. Really gurl I cant see for any reason in the world why you would have any trouble getting any guy you set your sights on.
Goo luck suga!
As a guy if she smiles at me and is decent/ courteous to me, well we are gonna go out. Its that simple but then again Im an old fuck too.
Good luck Ebs. Really gurl I cant see for any reason in the world why you would have any trouble getting any guy you set your sights on.
Goo luck suga!
So blessed that I have found the woman that I will grow old with, I.would not want to be dating at all in this day and age, too complicated and to have to weed through many to find compatibility would be painful and spendy (meaning dinner dates, stuff like that). I guess that is why people post on sites like match.com to get set up, because God forbid you get set up by your friends these days. I'm with you Zed, glad I don't have to play the dating games...and yes I too am an old fuck lol, but still move like I'm in my 20's
!!!Sorry, I normally wouldn't post in here but seen Zed took a turn down this path and had to see where he was going lol!!!
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Headholio
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A lot of men are shy little cowards. Here's a lesson from my observations at a couple of strip clubs. Men will sit alone and not have the guts to walk up to a stripper and ask for a dance or to buy her a drink or just to talk. Those girls are sitting there just for the purpose of giving dances and talking etc. That's their friggin job! And some guys still won't have the guts to approach them. So they wait until the stripper comes up to them, and then the guys just light up, all happy and trying to act cool now that they have a girl talking to them.
I think the moral of that story for women, is that if you want to meet a man, just talk to him. A guy might look stuck up or disinterested, but really he's just shy. 99% of the time the guy will be happy you approached him.
It's a much more casual scene when the woman approaches anyway. Women who are forward just seem friendly. Guys who are forward are automatically assumed to be after the poontang.
I think the moral of that story for women, is that if you want to meet a man, just talk to him. A guy might look stuck up or disinterested, but really he's just shy. 99% of the time the guy will be happy you approached him.
It's a much more casual scene when the woman approaches anyway. Women who are forward just seem friendly. Guys who are forward are automatically assumed to be after the poontang.
training700
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^^ Gotta agree with that
Hey MA good to see you in here. I dont come here often but I saw the post by my gurl Ebsy and wanted to see what was up.
The dating scene is so far removed from what it was and what IMO it should be. It was good when you just walked up to her or him and just talked. None of the nonsense that it all is now.
The dating scene is so far removed from what it was and what IMO it should be. It was good when you just walked up to her or him and just talked. None of the nonsense that it all is now.
Well....heh...The most effective line used on me was years ago by a sultry, dark skinned, Native American girl by the name of Mona...**sigh**
I went to the bar after work to drink. I was a Software Engineer so I was in blue jeans and a leather jacket. The bar was filled with "suits" and at the very end sat Mona. I paid her no mind as all the "suits" were vying for her attention.
Next thing I know, she saddles up to the stool next to me and introduces herself. We exchange pleasantries. I buy her a drink or two and then she says...
Mona: "You know what I'd really like to do right now?"
Me: "No...What?"
Mona: "I really wanna fuck you right now."
Me: "Ummm...OK"
Very effective. LOL!
*ebony*
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underattack
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The only girls that can intrest me are those who dress really well, aint to drunk. Is out with friends, not flirting with other guys, And sends a smile across the bar.. After that she can say almost anything 
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maccy
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100% agree a lot of guys wuss out n can't talk to girls so if a girl wants a guy keep looking at him and smile once you have he's attention wave him over n he's all yours.
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jeremyng25
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If the girl is decent looking most men don't give a fuck what you say...the fuck is this? Lol is this for real?
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TravFlex91
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To be honest I want her to show an interest in me ASAP. Preferably my beautifully sculpted body.
Or just be like.. Hey, I'm looking for dick, you available soon?
That works
Or just be like.. Hey, I'm looking for dick, you available soon?
That works
