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Is it wrong for a 30 year old to Date a 20 year old
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redshirt27se
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Why is that so wrong? If two people make each other happy it should be of no concern to anyone else.
javaguru
Banned
Why do you consider it wrong?
I've dated women older and younger than myself and I couldn't make a sweeping statement about whether it was right or wrong. My ex-Gf Mel is ten years younger than me and the only wiminz I considered marrying since my divorce. She had been married and divorced...she knows something about relationships and I've dated a woman my age that has never been married or engaged..that was a red flag for me.
I've dated women older and younger than myself and I couldn't make a sweeping statement about whether it was right or wrong. My ex-Gf Mel is ten years younger than me and the only wiminz I considered marrying since my divorce. She had been married and divorced...she knows something about relationships and I've dated a woman my age that has never been married or engaged..that was a red flag for me.
needtogetarmy
CEO of Project Mayhem
Omega,
I love ya bro. Wake the fuck up.
When I was in my early 20's I 'dated' (it was a FWB situation) woman (WOMAN - you know who you are! No makeup, no BS, pure woman) in her 50's. It was the best sex I have ever had. She stimulated nerve endings (and psychological places) I never knew existed, she knew what a MAN wanted, she completed me.
Age is not a factor.
Body is not a factor.
Hair color is not a factor.
Rippling abs is not a factor.
What matters?!?!?! The connection. Feel that. Touch that. Let that emanate throughout your body. Age matters not.
Lo
I love ya bro. Wake the fuck up.
When I was in my early 20's I 'dated' (it was a FWB situation) woman (WOMAN - you know who you are! No makeup, no BS, pure woman) in her 50's. It was the best sex I have ever had. She stimulated nerve endings (and psychological places) I never knew existed, she knew what a MAN wanted, she completed me.
Age is not a factor.
Body is not a factor.
Hair color is not a factor.
Rippling abs is not a factor.
What matters?!?!?! The connection. Feel that. Touch that. Let that emanate throughout your body. Age matters not.
Lo
hmmmm never heard that one before not sure i agree
maybe Dads just Love their Daughters bro
javaguru
Banned
redshirt27se
New member
lol @ cindy getting two posts directed at her before even making a post.
Cindy I are E friends who have been talking for a bit.....
totally platonic relationship
and I mean that
redshirt27se
New member
thanks for clearing that up.
javaguru
Banned
I'm not implying otherwise...Fathers do love and want to protect their daughters, that's my point, but daughters use that to their advantage...to get new cars and ridiculous b-day party's. I can attest to the fact the things teenage girls care about are stupid but they know how to manipulate men. So, when a thirty year old guy thinks he has game...he's taking her shopping while she's hooking up with guys she has something in common with...
javaguru
Banned
No you don't
Replace "I know" with "I suspect..."
I don't remember posting about my Dad on here for you to be able to suspect anything about our relationship or what he called me in the past or how he treats me now but okay, whatever you say if that classifies my personality as a princess
canadianhitman
Well-known member
Age is just a number...I say if it's legal, have at it.
javaguru
Banned
Am I wrong? I'll apologize if I characterized your relationship with your father wrongly. It isn't a bad thing...fathers have a special relationship with their daughters...they want them to avoid men like me.
Maybe some EF fathers with daughters can chime in....You can PM me and I'll apologize publicly but I've been 100% correct in my dating relationships.
Not at all. Age is a number. I used to plow through girls in their early 20's for years when i was 30-32. I didn't have much in common with them other than I thought they were hot. They were all still in to the club scene, not my style, but i gladly hammered it home for them . It took an older (26) yo to settle me down.
. It took an older (26) yo to settle me down.
mrplunkey
New member
Not a problem at all.
My GF (wife really, everything but marriage certificate) was 20 (but days from 21) when we met, I was 38. We've been together for over four years now.
I don't understand...sorry
you know very well Im not interested in a 20 year old
lol I thought maybe you ran into someone last night or something..
I hope to be dating 20 year olds well into my 80's.
b0und ()
lolol
Equality of information means never using any sort of 'competitive mental advantage" to get what you want.
You Disclose your motives, and share why you have interest , then the people can make an informed decision.
I know of many guys that will manipulate a situation to get a girl cus they want her.............sooooo bad........ be it for just pleasure or because they want them to themselves and will do whatever it takes to get them....
it wreaks of dishonesty to me.
for me id rather not use any sort of "tools" to get an advantage.
Unfortunately when you don't use any tools you get less exposure.......
I seem to get a connection with someone about once every 3-4 years where I don't have to do that........ so Ive been sorta fine with my exposure even though its rare "numerically" speaking.
anyway guys I make thread like this to make discussion
thnkyou for participating
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Equality of information means never using any sort of 'competitive mental advantage" to get what you want.
You Disclose your motives, and share why you have interest , then the people can make an informed decision.
I know of many guys that will manipulate a situation to get a girl cus they want her.............sooooo bad........ be it for just pleasure or because they actually like them and will do whatever it takes to get them....
it wreaks of dishonesty to me.
for me id rather not use any sort of "tools" to get an advantage.
Unfortunately when you don't use any tools you get less exposure.......
I seem to get a connection with someone about once every 3-4 years where I dot have to do that........ so Ive been fine with my exposure lol
anyway guys I make thread like this to make discussion
thnkyou for participating
seems legit. I gotta go to church now lol ttyl
L
lartinos
Guest
You callin' me out Omega?
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lartinos
Guest
Just checking, lol.
No. I was 38 and dated a girl who just turned 20. Her dad was head of the federal narcotics task force also. We got along fine. She'll grow outta you though. Mine did.
May I ask how that happened( like how did you see that) and why?
Because shes 20 and everything in her life is only temporary , including men she dates no matter if he was 20 also. Women havent fully formed their long term preferences at that age yet. Just ask Glad lol
calveless wonder
New member
nothing wrong with it obviously
but personally, girls are too clueless at 20 to tolerate. can't do it.
even girls that are 22-23 can get annoying real quick
but personally, girls are too clueless at 20 to tolerate. can't do it.
even girls that are 22-23 can get annoying real quick
I had an idea before hand yes. And yes the 25 thing is a scientific fact.
yeah its something like that for me, But its about me "tolerating them or their minds" I personally can deal with alot of games and try to ride it out if I think they mean well.
for me I just know that id be wasting their time, since they probably are not serious like me..
Did it still hurt you?
Yes. I did actually love her. She married this other guy. But she still knows my dicks bigger than his is.
ahahhahahaahaahahahahaha
My parents were about ten years apart. They got together when my mom turned 20. They had a wonderful marriage. When my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer, he faught it with everything he had. He told me he had lived his life and would be at peace with death, but he could not stand the thought of being without her. My father was not a romantic, but that had to have been the most beautiful thing I ever heard him say.
I didn't read everybody's response - but I think age is just a number, do what makes you happy, assuming that the girl is mature enough to date an older man.
yea thats good. I still say its bigger AND thicker than his is.
mrplunkey
New member
i've been dating a 19yr old girl, graduated HS in 2010
kinda fun, sex is sick, but definetly will not work out long term.
certainly taking precautions not to glad myself
Glad myself = permanent new EF term.
i've been dating a 19yr old girl, graduated HS in 2010
kinda fun, sex is sick, but definetly will not work out long term.
certainly taking precautions not to glad myself
I think this is the first usage of Glads name as a verb rob.
what else do you call a life changing event that forever fucks you in the ass?
mrplunkey
New member
Marriage?
i love the new term
+1 I love it...lol
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