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life_is_good

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My girl and a live together and she wanted to know all the chicks i banged. i felt really uncomfortable doing it but she said she wanted to know more about the relationships then the sex. She did ask every time if we fucked, she gave me head, or i ate her out. after i was done she said she didnt care but loved watching how uncomfortable i got. we were friends before we dated so i know a little about her sexual past and i hate to think about it. Were both recovering addicts and in her addiction she was a little slut (her own admission). I dont even want to know or hear her list and i told her that. Its not important at all, no guy wants to think that his chick is the town slut. Shes been clean for a while now and always says that her past was nothing she would ever want to return to. Do any of you guys get disgusted thinking about some other dude doing to your girl what you do? I know shes no virgin but i dont care to hear about it. Thanks
 
Yeah, I definitely don't ask those questions. I dont wanna know. I wonder more if I know.
 
You did the right thing. If you don't like that image in your head then don't go there; it won't do anything positive for your relationship.

P.S. She's cheating on you!
 
life_is_good said:
My girl and a live together and she wanted to know all the chicks i banged. i felt really uncomfortable doing it but she said she wanted to know more about the relationships then the sex. She did ask every time if we fucked, she gave me head, or i ate her out. after i was done she said she didnt care but loved watching how uncomfortable i got. we were friends before we dated so i know a little about her sexual past and i hate to think about it. Were both recovering addicts and in her addiction she was a little slut (her own admission). I dont even want to know or hear her list and i told her that. Its not important at all, no guy wants to think that his chick is the town slut. Shes been clean for a while now and always says that her past was nothing she would ever want to return to. Do any of you guys get disgusted thinking about some other dude doing to your girl what you do? I know shes no virgin but i dont care to hear about it. Thanks
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Whats her name I think I fucked her?
 
LOL you guys are classic...........it only crosses my mind every once in a while but not too often. I just wanted to hear from some of you guys if this was normal. OH shrimp, she doesn't like little dogs lol
 
Try and let it go man! I went down this road recently and it's been driving me insane. If you like this girl try and keep moving forward, all that shit form your past's will do nothing but hinder any future you have together.
 
Never good...for either partner. Unless she was a raging whore (I'm talking bukkake film actress here), I don't want to know. And I don't want to share my past.
 
life_is_good said:
LOL you guys are classic...........it only crosses my mind every once in a while but not too often. I just wanted to hear from some of you guys if this was normal. OH shrimp, she doesn't like little dogs lol
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I got it. Pee on her and take a movie of it.

I'll bet you that she never did that before with her ex-bfs!
 
Mine has been with 5 (I'm the 5th)Ive talked with her past BF and he also confirmed this number.I'm satisfied with that #.
 
shrimp poboy said:
Mine has been with 5 (I'm the 5th)Ive talked with her past BF and he also confirmed this number.I'm satisfied with that #.
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See that would be a problem for me. To me, a low number is even more dangerous than a high one. I guess it's all relative, but for me that's too low.
 
Is it too low because you think she's lying, or just not experienced?

I read an article a few years ago and it talked about numbers and what was "high"... I think the consensus was anything over 15 for a girl was high... anything over 30 for a guy was high.
 
Melaina said:
Is it too low because you think she's lying, or just not experienced?

I read an article a few years ago and it talked about numbers and what was "high"... I think the consensus was anything over 15 for a girl was high... anything over 30 for a guy was high.
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not lying. more like not experienced enough. hasn't satisfied her inner slut enough. i don't get how people can get married having only fucked like, 1 person. seems weird to me, but then again, I'm not exactly normal.
 
I think it's hit or miss. If your first person... or second or third... whatever... and is completely satisfying then why move on? I think it also stems from how old you are in your encounters.... one who starts to have sex at 14 is going to hit up a lot of adolescent duds before finding a good match... whereas a person who hasn't had sex until their early twenties.... will find their "sexual match" in a smaller number.
 
nydj66 said:
You did the right thing. If you don't like that image in your head then don't go there; it won't do anything positive for your relationship.

P.S. She's cheating on you!
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Exactly. My "EX" and I went to Myrtle beach one day and got into that discussion. NOT GOOD. She replied 40 like it was a low number to be proud of. I automatically assumed the truth was higher. Mine was only 6.

Why would she want details about getting head an such?????
 
my girl is a freak in the sheets, has told me a number of times that no other guy has made her cum like i do. i take my time and make sure she gets off at least once if not twice before i do or after i do. she returns the favor and its a really good relationship. our relationship is based on honesty because we have both done our fair share of dirt in past relationships and wanted this to be a completely different relationship then ever before. its working so far.
 
life_is_good said:
my girl is a freak in the sheets, has told me a number of times that no other guy has made her cum like i do. i take my time and make sure she gets off at least once if not twice before i do or after i do. she returns the favor and its a really good relationship. our relationship is based on honesty because we have both done our fair share of dirt in past relationships and wanted this to be a completely different relationship then ever before. its working so far.
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lol@you believing her.
 
Thats why you got get out and fuck more. Seriously, I can tell her past bothers you and if you can't get over it, you'll have problems later.
 
Melaina said:
I think it's hit or miss. If your first person... or second or third... whatever... and is completely satisfying then why move on? I think it also stems from how old you are in your encounters.... one who starts to have sex at 14 is going to hit up a lot of adolescent duds before finding a good match... whereas a person who hasn't had sex until their early twenties.... will find their "sexual match" in a smaller number.
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i also get weary towards those who do not have sex until their twenties.

just my personal experience here, but they tend to be less sexually liberated and more clingy.

Once again, JUST MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.
 
You are right about the clingy, I think because you've had less partners and view sex differently then someone who may have had sex with someone maybe they didn't love, or at least have a connection/attraction to.
 
bigtravis said:
Exactly. My "EX" and I went to Myrtle beach one day and got into that discussion. NOT GOOD. She replied 40 like it was a low number to be proud of. I automatically assumed the truth was higher. Mine was only 6.

Why would she want details about getting head an such?????
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she didnt want details. would just ask because i would get really uncomfortable and she thought it was funny as hell. she says its all in the past and not important just curious. When she asked if i ate her out i asked why she wanted to know and her reply was "damn lucky girl if she got to have that amazing tongue on their pussy". shes kinda dudish when it come to sex, dosent care if our friends know about or freaky fucking, its funny to watch our friends get embarrassed when we bring it up.
 
Melaina said:
You are right about the clingy, I think because you've had less partners and view sex differently then someone who may have had sex with someone maybe they didn't love, or at least have a connection/attraction to.
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i agree with you, we both viewed sex differently. she was in active addiction for almost all of it. im the first person shes slept with without involving drugs or alcohol. now that shes been clean for a while her view has changed and she hates the fact of what she did in active addiction. ive been clean for almost 8 years and my morals have changed a ton. we view sex the same now.
 
life_is_good said:
she didnt want details. would just ask because i would get really uncomfortable and she thought it was funny as hell. she says its all in the past and not important just curious. When she asked if i ate her out i asked why she wanted to know and her reply was "damn lucky girl if she got to have that amazing tongue on their pussy". shes kinda dudish when it come to sex, dosent care if our friends know about or freaky fucking, its funny to watch our friends get embarrassed when we bring it up.
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oh she's slick. lol.
 
life_is_good said:
I dont even want to know or hear her list and i told her that. Its not important at all, no guy wants to think that his chick is the town slut.
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I know how many women my husband had been with before we starting dating. Doesn't bother me. He still gets very uncomfortable though if the subject of old guys comes up when talking about my past. I went through a period of about 1 year before I met him where there were a lot of guys and he and I have learned to completely avoiding mentioning that time of my life.
 
KillahBee said:
i also get weary towards those who do not have sex until their twenties.

just my personal experience here, but they tend to be less sexually liberated and more clingy.

Once again, JUST MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.
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So true. My gf didn't start until her mid 20's and it takes an act of congress to get her to do anything remotely slutty.Makes me wanna :destroy:my brains out!!!
 
1st... she's lying.. she didn't ask you b/c it was "funny" how weirded out you were.. she asked you because she is completely insecure.

2nd... I assume you are 20-22 years old?

3rd... You say you think about it "every once in awhile"... I will promise you it will be more and more frequent and it will build more tension and hostility in your relationship than you can imagine.

4th... why are you dating a woman who is a self proclaimed slut if it bothers you? And don't fucking lie and say it doesn't because it would bother 99.5% of men

5th... end it now and go your seperate ways, I will put every cent I have to my name that this relationship will not last starting as it has..


or you can say I'm a fuck face and ignore me, hell what do I know, but I promise you all my points are dead on
 
KillahBee said:
not lying. more like not experienced enough. hasn't satisfied her inner slut enough. i don't get how people can get married having only fucked like, 1 person. seems weird to me, but then again, I'm not exactly normal.
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your 100% right .. the worst is guys that think dating a virgin is the best.. after they get the 1st sample of dick, they never the same again

its worse then a crack addiction for some
 
oh ya I forgot to add... why are you asking advice from a bunch of people that post on internet chat forums?

we are all as big of losers as you
 
lol i never wanna know...i immeadiately think of a whole bunch of random cocks up in her and nutting all over her...like if it was 20 or something i would immeaditely think of 20 guys cumming all over her immeadiately and it would gross me out. Seriously ignorance is bliss...keep the past in the past. Thats why i dont think i could ever date someone with kids. Baby's daddy coming around all the time would bug me
 
KillahBee said:
Never good...for either partner. Unless she was a raging whore (I'm talking bukkake film actress here), I don't want to know. And I don't want to share my past.
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+1

never good information to know. will drive you nuts.

except in the rare exception, like you said...that she's a raging whore. stuff like that is pretty indicative of their behavior in the future.

but to itemize? no way. besides, you'll never get a straight answer anyways
 
shrimp poboy said:
Mine has been with 5 (I'm the 5th)Ive talked with her past BF and he also confirmed this number.I'm satisfied with that #.
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She told you how many boyfriends she slept with. She's not counting random encounters because to a girl, those don't contribute toward their number.
 
If she is a slut...don't expect her to change. Dated a woman who had slept with a lot of men (and a few women) at a very young age. She was basically hollow in her heart and soul.
 
mrplunkey said:
She told you how many boyfriends she slept with. She's not counting random encounters because to a girl, those don't contribute toward their number.
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the old saying is " ask a women how many guys they fucked and she will tell u how many boyfriends she had"

maybe not true for all but some indeed
 
I went down on her and came up with a piece of corn in my mouf

I asked, "are you sick, honey?"

She responded, "no but the guy that was down there before you was" :worried:
 
the_clockwork said:
1st... she's lying.. she didn't ask you b/c it was "funny" how weirded out you were.. she asked you because she is completely insecure.

I agree with you, addits, recovering or not are insecure. shes getting better.

2nd... I assume you are 20-22 years old?

Close

3rd... You say you think about it "every once in awhile"... I will promise you it will be more and more frequent and it will build more tension and hostility in your relationship than you can imagine.

I have talked to a few close friends and they have said that i have a checkered past and so does she so why should i expect her to be perfect? is a virgin perfect? NOPE

4th... why are you dating a woman who is a self proclaimed slut if it bothers you? And don't fucking lie and say it doesn't because it would bother 99.5% of men

Shes not anymore. like i mentioned she not very proud of it but the fact is that was her past. im living for today and how we are together not how we were in our past. (getting better)

5th... end it now and go your seperate ways, I will put every cent I have to my name that this relationship will not last starting as it has..

Why end something that is so good today because of her actions before we got together? Past is the past, people change. I have done a 180 in my life.

or you can say I'm a fuck face and ignore me, hell what do I know, but I promise you all my points are dead on
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i will take your suggestion for what it it. thanks
 
I think this is where dudes and chics differ very much. She wants to know all these details, I say let the past be, even though my past is actually tamer than hers.
 
who cares.. as long as theydont have any STD's ... the more the better in my opinion. I want a girl that fucks like a pron star and they dont learn that at church.. practice makes perfect.
 
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