help, wife getting jelous

[walliwalibus]

OK, so I have done a lot of reading. Even participated in some threads. But now I need help. I weighed in here at beginning at 285 being 5'11" and from the job I had I did have some muscle. Always had wide shoulders (thanks to my father). My wife says I have larger breast than she. My arms are now tight and muscular, legs are huge and muscular, but I have fat breasteses, and my belly still big but that will burn off with the cardio I do. What to do about my freaked out tits............... it sounds funny but seriously it depresses me. Can anyone guide me in right direction?

 

[thebadguy54]

keep workin bro... weights, deit, cardio and persistence!

"There is no substitute for persistence! It cannot be supplanted by any other quality! Remember this in the beginning and it will hearten you when the going may seem difficult and slow.
Those who have cultivated the habit of persistence seem to enjoy insurance against failure. No matter how many times they are defeated, they finally arrive up near the top of the ladder. Sometimes it appears there is a hidden guide whose duty is to test people through all sorts of discouraging experiences. Those who pick themselves up after defeat and keep on trying. The hidden guide lets no one enjoy great achievement without passing the persistence test. Those who can't take it simply do not make the grade..
Those who can "take it" are bountifully rewarded for their persistence. They receive, as their compensation, whatever goal they are pursuing."

Now stop crying and get to work!

 

[tehkevroy]

lol ive took some pro hormone and got tits im 18years old bigest mistake ive made in my life :S but i guess ill just try to get a bigger chest and they will disapear

 

[J_Merkm]

This may be what is known as Progestine Gynocemastia (dont quote me on the spelling) its similar to the gyno juicers can experience, and if im not mistaken what i have read says it forms due to imbalanced extrogen and testosterone levels thought puberty, and that may be why you have Boobs...i myself have had it since i was much younger and its actually a gland forming under the nipple. i will do some more research on treatment, and diagnosis! i do know its removable but its a cosmetic surgery, so IF that is what you have you may have to shell out some bread.

On the other hand it may just be excess fat stores, you'll know for sure if you start to cut your chest and notice striation and still have droop under the nipple.
-J_Merkm
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www.biomexfitness.com

 

[xrsist]

lol ive took some pro hormone and got tits im 18years old bigest mistake ive made in my life :S but i guess ill just try to get a bigger chest and they will disapear

this is a prime example to study the shit out of what your looking at putting into your body

 

[skacorica]

this is a prime example to study the shit out of what your looking at putting into your body

I find it difficult to believe a small amount of prohormone could produce large gyno. Its more likely bodyfat and/or gyno caused by puberty. I have some slight gyno caused by puberty....in my case it is genetic (brother same problem) but in many cases there is way to predict.

But yes, its not good to experiment with putting just anything into your body.

 

[walliwalibus]

I think in my case I am jumping the gun, and need to work it out. Today is lift day and I keeping positive. Here is a interesting note though:

Ever since I started lift weights and doing my cardio, protein, creatine, and all the stuff I haven't taken my paxil nor the clonzepam..... Kinda cool. And everyone asks why I'm so happy. I believe weight issues on my body played a major role. Not that I have lost weight, but replaced a lot of fat so far with Muscle. OK, time to go, I hear them calling me and drawling me closer to that protein shake and water and weights...........

Thanks guys, inspiration is always good and this site is full of good peeps.


Walli T Wallibus

 

[xrsist]

do cardio after weights also mate

 

[walliwalibus]

I didn't think of that. I keep staggering days. I did a little warm up and cool down, but that was it. I gonna do it, thanks man. That might be the trickery to this titty prob.

Walli

 

[xrsist]

your diet will be the main contributor

 

[beach_bum_dude]

^^^^^^remember, eating clean will never make you look nasty!!!!!!

 

[MsBeverlyHills]

howabout buying your wifey some implants! that should get her over her tit envy

 

[rnch]

ah yes..."feminine logic" IS a contradiction of terms! can you imagine a guy getting jealous because his drinking buddy/best friend is putting on some quality muscle mass?


jeeeez....

 

[Tatyana]

ah yes..."feminine logic" IS a contradiction of terms! can you imagine a guy getting jealous because his drinking buddy/best friend is putting on some quality muscle mass?


jeeeez....

I think she was being funny.

What are you saying, that lads never get jealous? Jeeeeeeeeeeez


Wallibus - have you had any bloodwork done for your hormones?

 

[SaiBoT]

I think she was being funny.

What are you saying, that lads never get jealous? Jeeeeeeeeeeez


Wallibus - have you had any bloodwork done for your hormones?

+1 My guess is also that he has is hormonal balance all fcuked up.

Anyway lower chest fat is very stuborn. No carbs before bed please, increase your protein, do early morning cardio on a empty stomach for a while(8weeks)5x a week. Then switch it for high intensity interval training on non workout and non consecutive days.

Care to post your diet mate?

By the way... no matter how better you get, there is always someone willing to point the finger at you and saying you don't worth shit, people's judgement is very harsh sometimes. Just get over it, don't go back to antidepressants. The ones who criticize you aren't good enough to endure what it takes to look and feel good.

 

[rnch]

I think she was being funny.

What are you saying, that lads never get jealous? Jeeeeeeeeeeez


Wallibus - have you had any bloodwork done for your hormones?

if/when i notice a buddy of mine pumping up and adding muscle mass, it motivates me to work harder in the gym to improve myslef to look like him...i don't be hatin' on him because he's looking good.

geting jealous would be an immature, self centerd, emotional reacation...AKA a feminine reaction.....

 

[Tatyana]

if/when i notice a buddy of mine pumping up and adding muscle mass, it motivates me to work harder in the gym to improve myslef to look like him...i don't be hatin' on him because he's looking good.

geting jealous would be an immature, self centerd, emotional reacation...AKA a feminine reaction.....

I have the funny feeling that your views on women isn't really serving you.

Have you studied any psychology?

Have you heard of bias scanning before?

Shifting the context can really change how the world occurs to you, and it can be such a joy and amazing brain candy.

Up to you though.

If you want to believe that women are jealous, insecure, immature and self-centered, carry on.

It is having an impact on you though.