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Am I the only one here that suffers from stress/anxiety/depression?

I'm having an awful over analyzing week. Pretty sure I might get dumped soon and I cant stop neuroticizing about it.
 
I don't know. Last week he ignored my texts for 2 Straight days, this week he declined to see me multiple times. Maybe I've become spoiled in seeing/talking to him frequently idk. He has a lot on his plate. 2 full time jobs, a nasty divorce and a toddler part time.

Not sure if I'm just being dramatic. Would help if I knew were I stand with him. FML
 
nangiggles said:
I don't know. Last week he ignored my texts for 2 Straight days, this week he declined to see me multiple times. Maybe I've become spoiled in seeing/talking to him frequently idk. He has a lot on his plate. 2 full time jobs, a nasty divorce and a toddler part time.

Not sure if I'm just being dramatic. Would help if I knew were I stand with him. FML
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He's not into you.


You're welcome.
 
Then again he came over my place 2 nights ago but realized I had company. I can't stop thinking about this shit. To feed my neurosis I checked his Tinder last week after the snub and I realized he's still active. That can't be good
 
If you had a rhythm and now its different then you aren't being dramatic. I don't think a change in pattern is cool if there's no explanation.
 
nangiggles said:
I don't care about being alone, but after 6 months of dating I have developed some mild feelings. Stupid feelings :mad:
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6 months? Did you get mad? I'd be pissed if after 6 months 2 days went by no response to my texts. Him being busy this week is okay but no response to texts? I'd have sent something shitty by the morning of the second day.
 
nangiggles said:
I don't care about being alone, but after 6 months of dating I have developed some mild feelings. Stupid feelings :mad:
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Yeah you do.


You don't want to admit it, and that's cool, but it's true. That's what took you so long to leave your husband and even then you didn't until you had someone lined up already.


You're wasting your time anyways. This guy is clearly not into you and you know it (based off your own posts). He's not even divorced yet, already ignoring you, still active on Tinder, he has a toddler when you don't even really seem to like kids and have expressed openly zero interest in ever having them. It's hard enough to raise someone else's kids, I can't even imagine attempting it when you yourself don't have your own.


I could be wrong, but I'm not.
 
miplank said:
Yeah you do.


You don't want to admit it, and that's cool, but it's true. That's what took you so long to leave your husband and even then you didn't until you had someone lined up already.


You're wasting your time anyways. This guy is clearly not into you and you know it (based off your own posts). He's not even divorced yet, already ignoring you, still active on Tinder, he has a toddler when you don't even really seem to like kids and have expressed openly zero interest in ever having them. It's hard enough to raise someone else's kids, I can't even imagine attempting it when you yourself don't have your own.


I could be wrong, but I'm not.
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I was single for several months before I met him. I like kids, I work with them. I've been out with him and his daughter.

He has mediation next month, he's not divorced due to custody issues.

Tinder thing I have no answer for, we never talked about being exclusive :whatever: I keep obsessing about everything yet making excuses for it at the same time.

Other than the last 2 weeks we were great. Making plans to go to CA in October, talking about Christmas, etc. No fucking clue what's up. Hoping it's just been an odd week. It was a really bad week with visitation for him :whatever:
 
nangiggles said:
I was single for several months before I met him. I like kids, I work with them. I've been out with him and his daughter.

He has mediation next month, he's not divorced due to custody issues.

Tinder thing I have no answer for, we never talked about being exclusive :whatever: I keep obsessing about everything yet making excuses for it at the same time.

Other than the last 2 weeks we were great. Making plans to go to CA in October, talking about Christmas, etc. No fucking clue what's up. Hoping it's just been an odd week. It was a really bad week with visitation for him :whatever:
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yeah, whatever. There was a guy before you left your husband and right after.


Either way, you went from one banana to the next.
 
miplank said:
You have no business being around that kid yet either.



Just sayin'
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I've actually helped him increase his visitation with his daughter. Also she is very young, doesn't even talk. I'd never allow significant bonding with an older child.
 
umm..no.


I don't care how long it's been. She doesn't even know if they're fucking exclusive.


Kid shouldn't be anywhere in the picture at this point.



I could be wrong, but I'm not.
 
nangiggles said:
I've actually helped him increase his visitation with his daughter. Also she is very young, doesn't even talk. I'd never allow significant bonding with an older child.
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significant bonding? How do you measure that?


When does bonding occur to you?



please respond.
 
nangiggles said:
I've actually helped him increase his visitation with his daughter. Also she is very young, doesn't even talk. I'd never allow significant bonding with an older child.
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increase visitation? is his wife being an uber bitch and not letting him see his own kid?
 
Nan the kindle version of that book is pretty good and its only 9 bucks. glance through it, it has advice for all the stages of divorce
 
cindylou said:
increase visitation? is his wife being an uber bitch and not letting him see his own kid?
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Yes, she blocks visits claiming the daughter is napping. I've helped him be a bit more diplomatic and communicative with her. He even has over nights now. I'm not gonna say it's because of me of course but I've been supportive.
 
nangiggles said:
Yes, she blocks visits claiming the daughter is napping. I've helped him be a bit more diplomatic and communicative with her. He even has over nights now. I'm not gonna say it's because of me of course but I've been supportive.
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"he even has her over nights now"


This does not compute to me. Since when does a Man have to ask to have his child?


We don't.


Tell him to grab his balls and stand up for his rights and take what's his.
 
miplank said:
Still means nothing to me.



If it carried any clout it wouldn't pay for shit and you wouldn't multiple jobs.


It's like bragging that you're a CNA.
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Salaries in Florida suck. Also I could quit my weekend job but don't want to. I didn't do shit all night last night :P
 
miplank said:
umm..no.


I don't care how long it's been. She doesn't even know if they're fucking exclusive.


Kid shouldn't be anywhere in the picture at this point.



I could be wrong, but I'm not.
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Now I know where I stand. Shit just got defined. I hate having that kind of conversation, so awkward.
 
What happened? Did you initiate the conversation? Did it go well or not so well? You sound like it didn't go how you wanted it to?
 
cindylou said:
What happened? Did you initiate the conversation? Did it go well or not so well? You sound like it didn't go how you wanted it to?
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It went well, seems we were exclusive and I didn't even know LOL. It was awkward because I'm a non-confrontational person, I don't like bringing things up, I feel awkward doing so. Seems all is fine and well :)
 
nangiggles said:
It went well, seems we were exclusive and I didn't even know LOL. It was awkward because I'm a non-confrontational person, I don't like bringing things up, I feel awkward doing so. Seems all is fine and well :)
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Congrats?!?
 
caligirl85 said:
Congrats?!?
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Sort of. I don't want to be dating someone this long without knowing if its exclusive but I don't want to be considered his gf because he's still married. Married men don't have girlfriends they have mistresses, but that's my own issue/views
 
PICK3 said:
olololololoololol!

just kiddin'

glad you're in love
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I'm not, can't. I've drawn a line in the sand that I refuse to cross until he is fully divorced. I like him, want to spend time together, I have feelings for him but I've been pretty good at not getting too emotionally attached yet.
 
nangiggles said:
Sort of. I don't want to be dating someone this long without knowing if its exclusive but I don't want to be considered his gf because he's still married. Married men don't have girlfriends they have mistresses, but that's my own issue/views
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I understand! [emoji1]
 
nangiggles said:
I'm not, can't. I've drawn a line in the sand that I refuse to cross until he is fully divorced. I like him, want to spend time together, I have feelings for him but I've been pretty good at not getting too emotionally attached yet.
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you've been pretty good @ dick
 
The exclusiveness is more for a health related stance. I don't wanna be blowing a guy that sleeps around. Also I've been asked out a lot recentlyband had declined despite not knowing where we stood. If he didn't want to be exclusive that's fine and I'd know how to handle myself
 
Mitch wasn't divorced when we met and I was emotionally attached before all that, pry wasn't the best idea in hindsight but your gut will tell you if he's emotionally available or not
 
I didn't say I wasn't emotionally attached, of course I am. But I don't love him, that's were I've been trying to block out feelings.
 
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