Shameless bump..29 views and no comments; Not controversial enough?
Fuck off
Thanks for your input. It would be nice if you shared why you disagree?
those vids require too big of a time commitment to watch without you paraphrasing beforehand and giving your opinion so that we can decide whether it's worthwhile or not.
people sent you PMs about this thread, instead of just posting here? controversial indeed!
We have the ability to control our impulses if we are given the right tools from a young age.Can't watch the videos, computer chokes. I'm guessing it talks about the effects of child abuse and adult behavior?
Don't know if this is topical or not but there's an episode of Through the Wormhole entitled "can we eliminate evil" you might find interesting. Essentially, sociopaths can be both born and made. There are measurable differences between the brains of violent criminals (primarily in the amygdala) and "normal" people. What's interesting is that if a person with the abnormality in their brain has a "normal" childhood they don't necessarily grow up to be sociopaths.
When I raised animals there was a simple rule of thumb, you don't breed an ill tempered animal, period. You stood a good chance of getting ill tempered offspring. I witnessed this directly with hamsters, of all things. My ex and I had Russian Dwarf Hamsters of a (then) highly unusual color, making them desirable. The female was a good mother, but a total bitch. The male was sweet. Because of the unusual color we let them have pups. EVERY litter they had resulted in 50% of the offspring being biters.
Humans, having more evolved brains, can be born with the native tendency to "bite" but since we do have frontal lobes we can be "taught" what constitutes appropriate behaviorWe have the ability to control our impulses if we are given the right tools from a young age.
Nature/nurture is undoubtedly what contributes to child abuse and criminal behavior in general being a family trait. It also explains why perfectly normal families end up with kids who go completely off the rails. Maybe somebody's great-great-grandpa was a rapist and murderer and that latent gene popped up.
Can't watch the videos, computer chokes. I'm guessing it talks about the effects of child abuse and adult behavior?
Don't know if this is topical or not but there's an episode of Through the Wormhole entitled "can we eliminate evil" you might find interesting. Essentially, sociopaths can be both born and made. There are measurable differences between the brains of violent criminals (primarily in the amygdala) and "normal" people. What's interesting is that if a person with the abnormality in their brain has a "normal" childhood they don't necessarily grow up to be sociopaths.
When I raised animals there was a simple rule of thumb, you don't breed an ill tempered animal, period. You stood a good chance of getting ill tempered offspring. I witnessed this directly with hamsters, of all things. My ex and I had Russian Dwarf Hamsters of a (then) highly unusual color, making them desirable. The female was a good mother, but a total bitch. The male was sweet. Because of the unusual color we let them have pups. EVERY litter they had resulted in 50% of the offspring being biters.
Humans, having more evolved brains, can be born with the native tendency to "bite" but since we do have frontal lobes we can be "taught" what constitutes appropriate behaviorWe have the ability to control our impulses if we are given the right tools from a young age.
Nature/nurture is undoubtedly what contributes to child abuse and criminal behavior in general being a family trait. It also explains why perfectly normal families end up with kids who go completely off the rails. Maybe somebody's great-great-grandpa was a rapist and murderer and that latent gene popped up.
Fascinating to me too, I'm very familiar with that show and know the case you're speaking of. Another cool one is how doctors originally came up with the idea of lobotomies.You might be interested in seeing Most Evil from the Discovery Channel, it's an evil index research in which they evaluate murders and rate them from 1 to 22 one being self defense murder and 22 being the most twisted serial killers, Charles Whitman killed his wife AND mother, then climbed a tower and shot/killed 12 people and injured 31 yet he only scored 8, when I first saw it I was like WTF!? he should be waaaay hire, well it turns out he had a large tumor pressing against the impulse control area on the brain, also turns out he really didnt know why he was doing what he was but couldnt stop himself, he left notes and even requested his body be autopsied for findings on his behavior, fascinating, for me at least![]()
In fact, plenty of people who had horribly abusive childhoods grow up to help others even more. Watch the show I mentioned.You might be interested in seeing Most Evil from the Discovery Channel, it's an evil index research in which they evaluate murders and rate them from 1 to 22 one being self defense murder and 22 being the most twisted serial killers, Charles Whitman killed his wife AND mother, then climbed a tower and shot/killed 12 people and injured 31 yet he only scored 8, when I first saw it I was like WTF!? he should be waaaay hire, well it turns out he had a large tumor pressing against the impulse control area on the brain, also turns out he really didnt know why he was doing what he was but couldnt stop himself, he left notes and even requested his body be autopsied for findings on his behavior, fascinating, for me at least![]()
Javaguru, after all these years, you are still on EF chat and conversation. After you were exposed about being the lamest date and conversationalist by the nurse you posted a picture of. We asked her. You were a douchebag, she even joined here to refute the "HOT date" you had lol.
I cant even remember my login or password. She said you were a pathetic little man who had no friends but his dog.
Glad to see you've progressed to now think you are somehow Glenn Beck and whose sole mission in life is to educate the anonymous masses. Did your dog die or something?
What's with this digression? You were always egotistically delustional but it's really weird to see it in a time lapse sort of way. Like completely not normal to now batshit crazy not normal.
And not b/c you are a conservative, not at all. Just the fact you are still on EF chat trying to change the universe through this medium, give it up brotha
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FUUUUUCK
Hire? seriously hire instead of higher... damn it, this is a new low![]()
well thankfully no one gives a fuck about what you thinkI thought it was a slight improvement...
well thankfully no one gives a fuck about what you think![]()
Wtf? Why don't you guys like me?
At least give me some area's I can improve on...?
Can I hate?
Can i blackout again?
this thread is dead. leave it be. no one is paying attention. in the last 2 weeks, you are the only one who has posted
this thread is dead. leave it be. no one is paying attention. in the last 2 weeks, you are the only one who has posted
I love you like a Muslim brother from another mother but you were raised that way; I was trained to be an evil colonialist American during the first Gulf War, I searched the bodies of Muslim men forced to fight for Saddam, Is Islam a religion of peace or a political outcome? This is a problem, your religion has to go through a reformation just like Christianity.I highly disagree with these videos Java.
This is along the line of what I feel makes more sense:
Neuroscientists found that killers' minds have less activity in the part of their brains involved in creating a sense of "conscience" and in an area that acts as an "emergency brake" on aggressive feelings.
"The fact that there is an identifiable biological disposition suggests it's not how the child was raised. It's that they had a biological dysfunction, combined with a situation, that led to the violence."
— Andrian Raine, a clinical neuroscientist at the University of Southern California in Los Angeles who led the study.
Prove it's "dead" and nobody is paying attention; Admit it, you watched it.
The poster above me posted.
I consider myself the "forlorn hope" of intellectual diversity and discussion of how society operates; It's an old timey reference to the 18th and 19th century but you're a smart young woman.![]()
I love you like a Muslim brother from another mother but you were raised that way; I was trained to be an evil colonialist American during the first Gulf War, I searched the bodies of Muslim men forced to fight for Saddam, Is Islam a religion of peace or a political outcome? This is a problem, your religion has to go through a reformation just like Christianity.
Traz, that's called a psychotic break.
do you think some people are prone to it more than others because of how they're wired?
I wasn't relating this to religion though.
I'm merely exploring what it is that makes people demonstrate psychopathic behavior...
sure, in some cases, someone being abused and sexually assaulted as a kid, or bullied his entire life can lash back at society and develop psychopathic tendencies, etc...
However, I truly believe that there are people born that are more prone to being fucked up...some genetic anamoly, some chemical imbalance, etc...like a switch in your brain, waiting to flip, then something triggers it, and the brain releases endorphens, which in turn get mixed with momentary aggression and testosterone surge and they snap...
what are your thoughts on that?
with the balance going toward nurture.
You could snatch a perfectly "normal" child from a family and put them into an abusive environment and they would most likely emerge from their environment damaged.
wrong ... it wood be nature
agreed
again, advantage nature
fMRI studies of adult identical twins separated at birth to have highly correlated neural development
Bigpokey might be helped by watching it and seeking professional help for his rage.
lololol that would be soo funny if you were tellin me to get help for my rage and then you were actually the one that had a felony for beatin n chokin a sleepin woman lolz
lololol that would be soo funny if you were tellin me to get help for my rage and then you were actually the one that had a felony for beatin n chokin a sleepin woman lolz
lololol that would be soo funny if you were tellin me to get help for my rage and then you were actually the one that had a felony for beatin n chokin a sleepin woman lolz
Meet me at applebees traz.
You'll see.
Also, just for arguments sake, where did we learn of this chocking incident?
I think I missed the memo.
He learned it from me. You didn't miss anything.
Java why the fuck are you giving anger managment advice?
It's also funny how I ask this question in a thread started by Java and 2 minutes later, the first reply I get is from you cindy...are you stalking Java's posts / threads, etc...?? How did you see this question in Java's thread so fast....
Wtf?
It's also funny how I ask this question in a thread started by Java and 2 minutes later, the first reply I get is from you cindy...are you stalking Java's posts / threads, etc...?? How did you see this question in Java's thread so fast....
Well, I mean, let's talk about this for a second.
Is there actual evidence that Java beat up and choked and abused Cindy? I mean, that's what we're talking about here right?
All I know is there ongoing drama between a war vet with anger issues and an alcoholic drama queen.
Now just because Java has anger issues doesn't mean he beats up women. At the same time, just because Cindy is an alcoholic doesn't make her a compulsive liar.
i'm just trying to figure out what had happened for the entire board to completely take on Cindy's story over Java's. Am I the only one that saw Cindy's drunk posting? It sounded like the ramblings of a woman with a broken heart...
trolling for bans?
who?
that was an obvious troll comment. are you going to pull the ban stick out if she gets pissed and replies?
Yeah, I won't be responding to any of that except that I'm not an alcoholic. I am not an alcoholic. I rarely drink. You can say it but it doesn't make it true. There are no drunk posts I've made that "we've all seen". I have not come on this forum (or any forum) and posted at any time while I was drinking in almost two years. I also never told anyone that javaguru beat or choked me.
Looks like you did miss some things and you're filling in the gaps of information that you don't know with a lot of assumptions about me which makes me wonder if you're transferring some other woman's characteristics onto me because you don't know anything about me at all yet you're making judgments as if you do. You are the one that keeps bringing me up and I'm asking you nicely to stop. If you have something to say to me, please PM me.
I'm not making assumptions, like everybody else on EF by ASSUMING that Java beats and chokes women.
I'm asking, in public, in chat, so if you don't reply and answer my questions, then I'm bound to assume that some implications are correct.
You've said that you have problems with alcohol. You HAVE posted on here drunk. You've spread bullshit about Java, whether its true or not I don't know. I've personally asked you to stop it over and over again....you've followed Java around in posts, threads, etc...
I'm asking a legit question, trying to have a respectable debate here....it's fine to talk shit about Java in public, but when it comes to the truth about you, you want me to PM you....naaah, I'll keep it public.
I just wanna know what happened, help me understand.
Listen to me: you will not keep it public. Javaguru posted personal information about me over two years ago. I posted information about him in retaliation sometime early this year. It's over. I can not get you to understand without posting more of his personal, private information...something that can get me banned and something I'm not willing to do to defend myself anyway. I can not get you to understand, and I simply don't care if you do. It's over. It's been over. I'm not talking about it anymore. I'm not interested in making you understand anything in public. I don't care what assumptions you make about me by me not responding. I don't really care.
No, I do not follow anyone's posts around. You must be again, transferring some other person's characteristics onto me because that simply is not happening. I have not posted on this forum under the influence of alcohol in years. YEARS. It's time to let it go.
so you agree that it's time to let it go, like people have let go the shit that was posted about Java?
So it's ok for people to still discuss the personal information posted about Java but not about you?
I'm trying to understand what seems to be double standards here...sorry if I offend you, that's not my intention.
Okay, I understand that and we can talk about that.
Actually, no one has ever discussed the stuff he posted about me because of their conscience, probably. I've asked you to stop bringing ME up every time someone teases java because it seems you want to hash this thing out all over again and I cannot do that for you. You will just have to not like me as a poster and think I'm a drunk or whatever but I'm asking you to stop calling me a drunk and discrediting me when you couldn't possibly know if that was true, and well...it's not right for you to do that to me. There is a reason why people bring up that stuff, javaguru has admitted to some things on his own. I can't help that he did that. You seem to think people are just taking my word for it. That's not true. Also, you seem to think it's okay to post mean things about me that you couldn't possibly know because you think people are just taking my word when you don't really know what is going on. I'm not really sure what your problem is with me, in fact I don't think you do have a problem with me but there is some woman you do have a problem with out there, somewhere so I try my best not to take it personally. However, I am not interested digging it all back up so you'll understand what is going on, or why I actually am not that woman. Not even in private. Javaguru is a big boy and can ask people to stop if he wants but between us it's over. I am not responsible for how anyone acts other than myself.
Urgh. Listen, Traz, don't get mad just cause you know sb would dominate u arm wrastlin.
ahahahahahahaha thanks bro I needed that laugh I was having a shitty day at work
btw, is that van damn in your avi? that has got to be the gheyest shit i've seen on the interwebs....
Fuck I hate country music
Fuck I LOVE country music
Dierks Bentley?
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