I agree on all counts
especially on if I trust someone even if its a fairly mild thing..if they betray me they're done
my really personal shit I don't tend to share online...including FB ..kids arent that smart about it so they get hurt..they don't realize yet how cruel people can be
Ive learned through trial and error...hell when I first joined elite I was pretty guarded and was never someone who gave out my phone number or address to people..and assumed people would think my screen name was made up because its absurd

.Mitch kinda fucked a lot of that up...BUT quite a few people here have my phone number , know my address and a smaller group (one really) knows my life story inside and out and knows my emotions pretty well ..eerily well really
if any one of those people betrayed small confidences...I'm like you...I write them off and make note they're not to be trusted
if the one betrayed me I'd leave elite or I'd wage war until I was banned...I'm not sure which
IDK what point Im trying to make other than...I think society has gotten very tangled up with teh internets and its a lot more shades of grey now than it used to be
and I also think its hurt real live human connections because everyone is so plugged in and treats it as their reality