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Let's talk Sex!!! Sub or Dom??

Hello! How have you been???
 
i just like to have steamy sex with my squirting GF, not into sub/dom s&m shit.
more of a missonary sorta bro with some nasty talk thrown in
 
Living life!! Probably not as good as you lol I freaking hate your oh look @ me im in Colombia, London, Dubai threads...get your shit together woot!


Btw, you are still looking hot!

Hahahaha screw you! I missed you! I'm so glad you are back! ;) ;)

Ps I like Sub
 
i just like to have steamy sex with my squirting GF, not into sub/dom s&m shit.
more of a missonary sorta bro with some nasty talk thrown in

It doesnt really have to be s&m. Think about it...one has to be in control most if not all the time.
 
Is she putting out yet?

here and there, a major downturn from when we started first dating.
i ramped up my test intake for a few months to 400-500mgs a week...now that i'm done blasting my sex drive diminished a bit so i don't notice the fact that i get laid once/twice a week if i'm lucky.
 
here and there, a major downturn from when we started first dating.
i ramped up my test intake for a few months to 400-500mgs a week...now that i'm done blasting my sex drive diminished a bit so i don't notice the fact that i get laid once/twice a week if i'm lucky.

New relationship and you are getting it only twice a week? Why?

I mean I could understand maybe a year later....
 
It doesnt really have to be s&m. Think about it...one has to be in control most if not all the time.
i guess i associate dominance and control of sex with the one who weilds the penile...
never had a woman dominate me, i'd feel weak and unmasculine if that happened i think.
 
Do you enjoy it?

Do you ever wonder whats it like to be domineering? :-P

Out of your comfort zone....


No, not really. I've never been as submissive as I've wanted to, in the bedroom, so I've not spent much time wondering what it is like to be dom. Lol. Maybe once I get all of that out of the way...lol
 
i guess i associate dominance and control of sex with the one who weilds the penile...
never had a woman dominate me, i'd feel weak and unmasculine if that happened i think.

You are overanalyzing it, you have to let go of those thoughts. Once you free your mind you might experience things you never knew you could.

Just a thought...
 
hmmmm...

i tend to be the dom, but i've been the sub which can be ok..

especially since the books all tell us that the sub is the one in control

mix a dom/sadist and a sub/masochist in the same relationship..

then you have a partnership..

wow/ouch..
 
Dom, especially since I always end up with sub women.

It's is sexy for the woman to take charge from time to time. Princessa, if you want to call me a slut and make me do dirty things for 90 minutes or so, I could be down for that.
 
Sub for sure, but I do initiate things here and there...but even when I do, I usually don't take the dominant role after it's started.

Once and a while I do, but it's more to change things up than me liking or wanting that role.
 
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hmmmm...

i tend to be the dom, but i've been the sub which can be ok..

especially since the books all tell us that the sub is the one in control

mix a dom/sadist and a sub/masochist in the same relationship..

then you have a partnership..

wow/ouch..

lol indeed. People can desire things they don't actually want, but will compartmentalize things into places where it is safe and acceptable. If you get pleasure from pain, humiliation or domination what are you supposed to do until you've dealt with it? Lol. You invite the sadists in...that's exactly what happens.
 
lol indeed. People can desire things they don't actually want, but will compartmentalize things into places where it is safe and acceptable. If you get pleasure from pain, humiliation or domination what are you supposed to do until you've dealt with it? Lol. You invite the sadists in...that's exactly what happens.

So if the act of hurting someone brings me no pleasure, but a masochist's reaction to pain does, am I a sadist?

Like the first time a girl asked me to spank her, and I said, "yeah, sure, whatever" Then I spanked her and she winced in pain and moaned at the same time, and I got very aroused.

Does that make me a sadist or just a pervert?
 
So if the act of hurting someone brings me no pleasure, but a masochist's reaction to pain does, am I a sadist?

Like the first time a girl asked me to spank her, and I said, "yeah, sure, whatever" Then I spanked her and she winced in pain and moaned at the same time, and I got very aroused.

Does that make me a sadist or just a pervert?

Both! hahahaha. In my opinion no it does not; maybe a little but not totally. I think what you're saying is that anything goes...even pain if it serves her pleasure because her pleasure brings you pleasure.

If you said you actively like and seek out causing pain, domination, or humiliation because that is what brings YOU pleasure then you'd be a sadist. This is just what I think about this, too. I have no real valid opinion that should hold any real weight...lol.

We are all perverted and perverts to some degree. Since pervert means to lead away in my opinion when we use sex to distract from something using physical pain or domination and the pleasure we get from it, yeah we are perverts. Lol. But not a pervert where it would be outside social norms or anything.
 
Sub for sure, but I do initiate things here and there...but even when I do, I usually don't take the dominant role after it's started.

Once and a while I do, but it's more to change things up than me liking or wanting that role.

If I don't initiate, I'm submitting?
 
If I don't initiate, I'm submitting?

I would say initiating sex is a dominant action, but no, I don't think it determines who is going to play what role during the sex or relationship or whatever...obviously, because I usually take the submissive role whether I initiate or not.
 
I would say initiating sex is a dominant action, but no, I don't think it determines who is going to play what role during the sex or relationship or whatever...obviously, because I usually take the submissive role whether I initiate or not.

Yeah, I guess so.
 
not a bad thing just no good in the bedroom, imo

Lol maybe so, but maybe you haven't noticed I'm a little crazy? :) All this time I thought I was sane I had no idea... I have to understand what things mean so I don't fall off the wall and shattered to pieces. Course, I've spoken to the king myself and he promised me with his very own mouth that he and all of his horses and all of his men would put me back together, but I've been reading books, listening at doors and behind trees...

Lol, just kidding. I just think it's my personality. To me, if I know what we are actually giving each other it makes it more erotic.
 
Lol maybe so, but maybe you haven't noticed I'm a little crazy? :) All this time I thought I was sane I had no idea... I have to understand what things mean so I don't fall off the wall and shattered to pieces. Course, I've spoken to the king myself and he promised me with his very own mouth that he and all of his horses and all of his men would put me back together, but I've been reading books, listening at doors and behind trees...

Lol, just kidding. I just think it's my personality. To me, if I know what we are actually giving each other it makes it more erotic.

fuck you
 
Lol maybe so, but maybe you haven't noticed I'm a little crazy? :) All this time I thought I was sane I had no idea... I have to understand what things mean so I don't fall off the wall and shattered to pieces. Course, I've spoken to the king myself and he promised me with his very own mouth that he and all of his horses and all of his men would put me back together, but I've been reading books, listening at doors and behind trees...

Lol, just kidding. I just think it's my personality. To me, if I know what we are actually giving each other it makes it more erotic.

They say neurotics build castles in the sky and psychotics live in them.

I think Cindy cleans them.
 
So if the act of hurting someone brings me no pleasure, but a masochist's reaction to pain does, am I a sadist?

Like the first time a girl asked me to spank her, and I said, "yeah, sure, whatever" Then I spanked her and she winced in pain and moaned at the same time, and I got very aroused.

Does that make me a sadist or just a pervert?

now you are just talking rough sex..

try going puppy style and as she's about to release smack her ass hard stroke a little more and do it again, pull her head back by the hair wack her again, then let her orgasm... it will build for her and make it more intense..
 
i like girl on top...but it has more to do with the view than with any sort of submissive tendency...plus, she can grind away for a long ass time without me getting that funny feeling...where as, when i'm pounding away...meh...my time in the saddle is sometimes tenuous at best...i'm just an excitable boy!

 
I initiate plenty..but then I expect to be grabbed thrown down and soundly fucked...or dragged on top and have hands on my hips telling where to go and how fast/rhythm

EF message after i tried to give you karma for that post:
You must spread some karma around before giving the imaginable wang to the imaginable Shirlene29! You officially suck at E-flirting.
 
I guess you should have spread some karma around and not have been so cheap
 
↔SuB+DoM, different flavors needed for different situations and different ladies.
I will walk out on a dead fish lay , walkout with raging boner in hand, and never call her again
 
i like girl on top...but it has more to do with the view than with any sort of submissive tendency...plus, she can grind away for a long ass time without me getting that funny feeling


I like the view too, but that 'less intense' thing goes even further for me; I simply cannot pop with a girl on top.
 
now you are just talking rough sex..

try going puppy style and as she's about to release smack her ass hard stroke a little more and do it again, pull her head back by the hair wack her again, then let her orgasm... it will build for her and make it more intense..

I like to just force them to their knees, undo my pants, grab a handfull of hair on the back of their head, and throat fuck them.

I say sweet things like, "Get all the way down on it, bitch. Show me how much you fucking love it, slut. Suck it like the worthless, piece of shit, whore you are."

Then after I pop, I look down at them; welling up with tears, mascara all round their eyes, nose running. I shove 'em off and tell them, "You disgust me. Go take a shower.
 
I like to just force them to their knees, undo my pants, grab a handfull of hair on the back of their head, and throat fuck them.

I say sweet things like, "Get all the way down on it, bitch. Show me how much you fucking love it, slut. Suck it like the worthless, piece of shit, whore you are."

Then after I pop, I look down at them; welling up with tears, mascara all round their eyes, nose running. I shove 'em off and tell them, "You disgust me. Go take a shower.

like a boss!
 
I like to just force them to their knees, undo my pants, grab a handfull of hair on the back of their head, and throat fuck them.

I say sweet things like, "Get all the way down on it, bitch. Show me how much you fucking love it, slut. Suck it like the worthless, piece of shit, whore you are."

Then after I pop, I look down at them; welling up with tears, mascara all round their eyes, nose running. I shove 'em off and tell them, "You disgust me. Go take a shower.

Shit just got real.
 
I like to just force them to their knees, undo my pants, grab a handfull of hair on the back of their head, and throat fuck them.

I say sweet things like, "Get all the way down on it, bitch. Show me how much you fucking love it, slut. Suck it like the worthless, piece of shit, whore you are."

Then after I pop, I look down at them; welling up with tears, mascara all round their eyes, nose running. I shove 'em off and tell them, "You disgust me. Go take a shower.

nice!
 
I like to just force them to their knees, undo my pants, grab a handfull of hair on the back of their head, and throat fuck them.

I say sweet things like, "Get all the way down on it, bitch. Show me how much you fucking love it, slut. Suck it like the worthless, piece of shit, whore you are."

Then after I pop, I look down at them; welling up with tears, mascara all round their eyes, nose running. I shove 'em off and tell them, "You disgust me. Go take a shower.

Am guessing this works really well with teh trannies
 
Hmmm, very interesting insights. I have had good sex in the past with people I was not in love with. I think its just different now because, as was said, we love each other so maybe he's more "in tune" with me....he cares about so much that its not all about him when it comes to sex. He's in to pleasing me and not just himself. We also tend romantic and raunchy texts all day....so by the time the evenings hit, we've expressed our love for each other throughout the day, as well as our desire for each other. So when we're together, its like all bets are off lol!
 
I tend to guide the sexual adventures usually but have been with women that take control and next thing I know she's tossin my salad, fuck I love a chick who will do that
 
sub most of the time but not into extreme dominance on either side not that i could never pull off the whole dominatrice act anyways.
 
so what youre saying is youre ok with ass to mouth wulf?

ya i have a clean ass it doesnt bother me if a chick goes down on my ass then kisses me... I eat out girls asses all the time and kiss em

Im many things but Im not a hippo-crit :verygood::verygood:
 
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