I told my old lady cos I didn't wanna feel like a common drug addict sneaking around behind her back. Plus how can you hide spending that much money?
So I told her and now she picks up pins for me
But like woody said you will have to educate her as I did. Keep your temper in check and once she is thoroughly educated about aas stop talking about it!
Do not let her think it is the number 1 thing in your life! Women hate to think that there is anything that is more important to you than them.
I think we are much better off for it now. 1 example would be that before she knew she didn't mind asking me to miss a workout for this or that ( which I hate). Now that she knows I have expensive gear in me she would never do that. Plus she loves the constant sex.
Just my experience for you, good luck.