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Fitness-gemini

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Off the fitness topic for a minute...
If you had to describe who you are to someone what would you say..
Im not talking about what you have accomplished, or where you have been...
Charector,morals,values... and do you think other people see you the same way you see yourself?

Is the glass half full or half empty?

Guess im just having one of those days!
 
Fitness-gemini said:
Off the fitness topic for a minute...
If you had to describe who you are to someone what would you say..
Im not talking about what you have accomplished, or where you have been...
Charector,morals,values... and do you think other people see you the same way you see yourself?

Is the glass half full or half empty?

Guess im just having one of those days!
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What does, "having one of those days mean?"
 
I am trustworthy, hardworking, and creative.
On a negative side, I guess stubborn. I can write people off too early, and my paragraph structure is lacking.
 
I'm a Sagittarius and I enjoy learning about neuroscience, playing the piano, and watching GLEE
 
I am glass half full, but I used to be half empty. Amazing because I have the same amount of liquid in the glass.
 
lartinos said:
What does, "having one of those days mean?"
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An off day.... full of question and interest...
Like a little kid that has to touch everything or ask a thousand questions..
i wanna see whats inside your head.... lol.. know what people think about

if that doesnt make any sense to you its ok lol it does to me.

So who are you? =)
 
Fitness-gemini said:
An off day.... full of question and interest...
Like a little kid that has to touch everything or ask a thousand questions..
i wanna see whats inside your head.... lol.. know what people think about

if that doesnt make any sense to you its ok lol it does to me.

So who are you? =)
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besides fitness, wut do you like to learn about?
 
Im the guy everyone in my life knows they can count on when shit gets rough, be it at the firehall or just buddies who need a hand. Im a father,a strong christian man,respectful and honest.
 
I'm a nihilist who believes that you are only here for a minute and your impact is more than likely going to be negligible.

You and everyone you know and give a shit about will eventually get sick and die.
 
PICK3 said:
I'm a nihilist who believes that you are only here for a minute and your impact is more than likely going to be negligible.

You and everyone you know and give a shit about will eventually get sick and die.
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Dose that include just your life or everyone else's lives too?
 
Fitness-gemini said:
An off day.... full of question and interest...
Like a little kid that has to touch everything or ask a thousand questions..
i wanna see whats inside your head.... lol.. know what people think about

if that doesnt make any sense to you its ok lol it does to me.

So who are you? =)
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I was just getting to know who you were better.
"off day" meaning that you were off from work and free be more free with your thinking? It is good that you want to get to know others, just be prepared to share yourself of course, and expect people to be rude too.
Because this board is very much like the real world, except maybe a little more honest.
 
I'm simple, I give back more then I've been given, My friends and family I will die for, Spent to many years in the Marines teaching Martial arts to who don't deserved to be taught, a great husband and dad to a son that's not mine.....Work an awesome job where I love going to work everyday, have not met my goals in life or fitness by a shit ton! But I'm me! You need a friend in Maine I'm always here no matter if I met u online or not! And really don't care what people think of me for I have my close knit group of family and freinds!
 
PICK3 said:
My life at this juncture

When I was your age I felt differently


The dreams of youth are the regrets of maturity.

~The Lord of Darkness~
Legend (1985)
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So you have made mistakes you cannot come back from.
You feel like you had your chance and you didn't really seize it or seize it properly.
Or you did and you lost it now and will never get it back.Or you seized the wrong thing and feel stuck now?
Life changes and gives people new challenges. Overcoming adversity feels great at any level and can empower a person. One step at a time.
 
lartinos said:
So you have made mistakes you cannot come back from.
You feel like you had your chance and you didn't really seize it or seize it properly.
Or you did and you lost it now and will never get it back.Or you seized the wrong thing and feel stuck now?
Life changes and gives people new challenges. Overcoming adversity feels great at any level and can empower a person. One step at a time.
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My station in life is as good as most. The way most of us measure success is truly insignificant.
 
PICK3 said:
My station in life is as good as most. The way most of us measure success is truly insignificant.
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I agree that is other people. The connections we make with other individuals means a lot. All the money and Hoes in the world doesn't make a person truly happy.
Melohh wants me to go to bed. I will check this thread in the AM. You are good enough, you smartest enough, and doggone it.. People like you Pick :)
 
Fitness-gemini said:
Off the fitness topic for a minute...
If you had to describe who you are to someone what would you say..
Im not talking about what you have accomplished, or where you have been...
Charector,morals,values... and do you think other people see you the same way you see yourself?

Is the glass half full or half empty?

Guess im just having one of those days!
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Im am honest, hard working, I have goals.... I sometimes say things that other people think are too blunt, I say what i think!
I can take negativity from others... because i see the light in myself.
I am by no means perfect and i can be very insecure..
I am a single mother of an 11 yr old girl and a 14 yr old boy....
And through all the chaos panic and disorder life on lifes terms bring to me,... or that i somehow unintentionaly create.... I love my life....
there are bad days and good... there are people in life that i feel tested by... and i am human and sometimes i fall into the world
but i am still trying to be the best person i can be.....
hate me, love me... either way Im still here and im still smiling.. even when times get tough,..
everything happens for a reason
 
lartinos said:
I was just getting to know who you were better.
"off day" meaning that you were off from work and free be more free with your thinking? It is good that you want to get to know others, just be prepared to share yourself of course, and expect people to be rude too.
Because this board is very much like the real world, except maybe a little more honest.
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I know that people will be rude... and pick me apart, Im ok with that...
You gotta take the good with the bad..
I know that i am not perfect and there will be people that wont like me,
people that dont care what i think or have to say
and people that try to bring my spirit down
("if you need my shame, to reclaim your pride")
If it makes people feel powerful to be mean or rude... then they can have that..
I just have the choice to let their opinions or comments have power over me...

and i choose ME =)
 
Im a constant pessimist and wallow in self defeat. Im an addict and feel powerless to help myself. Im an over educated, under employed, under achiever who drifts aimlessly through life. I have severe intimacy issues. I see everyone in my life that loves and cares for me as constant irritants. I always see the glass half empty.

Happy fucking new year


P.S. this thread has massive meme potential written all over it
 
superdave said:
Im a constant pessimist and wallow in self defeat. Im an addict and feel powerless to help myself. Im an over educated, under employed, under achiever who drifts aimlessly through life. I have severe intimacy issues. I see everyone in my life that loves and cares for me as constant irritants. I always see the glass half empty.

Happy fucking new year


P.S. this thread has massive meme potential written all over it
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I was always a pessimist...Until eight months ago..
When u walk through life with your walls up and eyes closed... the only one to blame in the end is self.
When i was negative... my life was a struggle...
most days were bad days.. and i was breathing... not living.
Something changed me and i have felt amazing... I looked in the mirror and saw what i have never seen before.... and that was hope..
To empower urseld you must find the strength to look at all situations without envy, insecurities, hate, and fear...
I try to find the kindness when it is there... it may be hidden under the masks one wears
or the different hats they put on
but in my eyes everyone has a soul.. weather they know it or not.. so there is light, and there is more... and they are stronger then they ever have known
they just need to find that in themselves...

Someday your veiws on the world will change..
I wish you the best of luck!

And the new year will be as good as the energy you put into it!!!!!!

"all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration — that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively. There is no such thing as death; life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves"
 
I am The Chosen One
 
I'm friendly, caring, warm and forgiving. I have a sweet, gentle feeling side but also a stubborn and strong-willed, cynical and thinking side under stress. I am intuitive and I have good insight into people, and situations. I'm creative. I perceive people's actions and my own through the lens of right and wrong. I am consistent, scheduled and orderly in most ways except certain hidden areas, like I might have a messy desk or one or two junk drawers or a messy purse ;) I'm sensitive to conflict, I cannot tolerate it, as a result I'm diplomatic and a peacemaker. I believe in constant spiritual growth, as a result I'm able to honestly express what I'm feeling and thinking, at least to myself and I've been able to overcome almost anything.

Who I am right now is a parent. Who I am will have much more impact on her than what I say or what I do. I'm trying to be more patient, and less angry. I want her to take the gentle, caring and sweet side of me, and not pick up the stubborn, strong-willed, cynical and rebellious side of me. Seems she's picked up the latter lol... I love her either way, I just want her to grow up knowing how much I love her.
 
cindylou said:
I'm friendly, caring, warm and forgiving. I have a sweet, gentle feeling side but also a stubborn and strong-willed, cynical and thinking side under stress. I am intuitive and I have good insight into people, and situations. I'm creative. I perceive people's actions and my own through the lens of right and wrong. I am consistent, scheduled and orderly in most ways except certain hidden areas, like I might have a messy desk or one or two junk drawers or a messy purse ;) I'm sensitive to conflict, I cannot tolerate it, as a result I'm diplomatic and a peacemaker. I believe in constant spiritual growth, as a result I'm able to honestly express what I'm feeling and thinking, at least to myself and I've been able to overcome almost anything.

Who I am right now is a parent. Who I am will have much more impact on her than what I say or what I do. I'm trying to be more patient, and less angry. I want her to take the gentle, caring and sweet side of me, and not pick up the stubborn, strong-willed, cynical and rebellious side of me. Seems she's picked up the latter lol... I love her either way, I just want her to grow up knowing how much I love her.
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I'd hit it.
 
cindylou said:
I'm friendly, caring, warm and forgiving. I have a sweet, gentle feeling side but also a stubborn and strong-willed, cynical and thinking side under stress. I am intuitive and I have good insight into people, and situations. I'm creative. I perceive people's actions and my own through the lens of right and wrong. I am consistent, scheduled and orderly in most ways except certain hidden areas, like I might have a messy desk or one or two junk drawers or a messy purse ;) I'm sensitive to conflict, I cannot tolerate it, as a result I'm diplomatic and a peacemaker. I believe in constant spiritual growth, as a result I'm able to honestly express what I'm feeling and thinking, at least to myself and I've been able to overcome almost anything.

Who I am right now is a parent. Who I am will have much more impact on her than what I say or what I do. I'm trying to be more patient, and less angry. I want her to take the gentle, caring and sweet side of me, and not pick up the stubborn, strong-willed, cynical and rebellious side of me. Seems she's picked up the latter lol... I love her either way, I just want her to grow up knowing how much I love her.
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forgot gullible
 
cindylou said:
I'm friendly, caring, warm and forgiving. I have a sweet, gentle feeling side but also a stubborn and strong-willed, cynical and thinking side under stress. I am intuitive and I have good insight into people, and situations. I'm creative. I perceive people's actions and my own through the lens of right and wrong. I am consistent, scheduled and orderly in most ways except certain hidden areas, like I might have a messy desk or one or two junk drawers or a messy purse ;) I'm sensitive to conflict, I cannot tolerate it, as a result I'm diplomatic and a peacemaker. I believe in constant spiritual growth, as a result I'm able to honestly express what I'm feeling and thinking, at least to myself and I've been able to overcome almost anything.

Who I am right now is a parent. Who I am will have much more impact on her than what I say or what I do. I'm trying to be more patient, and less angry. I want her to take the gentle, caring and sweet side of me, and not pick up the stubborn, strong-willed, cynical and rebellious side of me. Seems she's picked up the latter lol... I love her either way, I just want her to grow up knowing how much I love her.
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your parenting input will have negligible effects on your child's personality
 
PICK3 said:
your parenting input will have negligible effects on your child's personality
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My parenting input may not have any effect on her personality but it will have an effect on who she is...which isn't her personality. :) Especially in early childhood. I would even argue that it has an effect on her personality too.
 
cindylou said:
My parenting input may not have any effect on her personality but it will have an effect on who she is...which isn't her personality. :) Especially in early childhood. I would even argue that it has an effect on her personality too.
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i think parenting styles have affects on personality for sure. How else to explain how kids turn out after getting abused, sheltered, disciplined constantly etc
 
Excluding extremes, e.g. child abuse, identical twins separated at birth who meet decades later are remarkably similar. Paternal twins separated at birth share traits roughly correlated like picking 2 individuals from the random population. FMRI studies back this up.

Parents of moar than 1 child recognize differences in personality traits often within weeks although the family structure is unchanged.
 
PICK3 said:
Excluding extremes, e.g. child abuse, identical twins separated at birth who meet decades later are remarkably similar. Paternal twins separated at birth share traits roughly correlated like picking 2 individuals from the random population. FMRI studies back this up.

Parents of moar than 1 child recognize differences in personality traits often within weeks although the family structure is unchanged.
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Who you are has nothing to do with personality traits, you know this. Most mature people grow outside the constraints of personality traits. If that wasn't the case then all you would have to do to get to know me, and how I would respond in any given situation would be to read my MBTI. Why does someone become cynical or insecure has nothing to do with personality, it is usually life experience and usually early childhood shapes most of what is going on in our unconscious. You can tell the adult that had a cold and uncaring father that didn't teach her/him about the world, about compassion and how to face pain and suffering with courage, someone who protected him/her when they were hurt. He might have focused too much on his work, maybe he was an alcoholic, nothing too severe, but enough for the daughter or son to realize the fraud of love by an early age. It has a huge impact on who they become.
 
PICK3 said:
Excluding extremes, e.g. child abuse, identical twins separated at birth who meet decades later are remarkably similar. Paternal twins separated at birth share traits roughly correlated like picking 2 individuals from the random population. FMRI studies back this up.

Parents of moar than 1 child recognize differences in personality traits often within weeks although the family structure is unchanged.
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You tend to think in absolutes Pick, but that is rarely the case.
 
this thread is turning geigh as fuck
 
cindylou said:
Who you are has nothing to do with personality traits, you know this. Most mature people grow outside the constraints of personality traits. If that wasn't the case then all you would have to do to get to know me, and how I would respond in any given situation would be to read my MBTI. Why does someone become cynical or insecure has nothing to do with personality, it is usually life experience and usually early childhood shapes most of what is going on in our unconscious. You can tell the adult that had a cold and uncaring father that didn't teach her/him about the world, about compassion and how to face pain and suffering with courage, someone who protected him/her when they were hurt. He might have focused too much on his work, maybe he was an alcoholic, nothing too severe, but enough for the daughter or son to realize the fraud of love by an early age. It has a huge impact on who they become.
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in case of the separated identical twins there were remarkable similarities in many areas: response to stimuli, IQ, mannerisms, etc ...

again, obvious neglect or abuse will skew these results

in your example I'm sure you're familiar with someone who was raised by an alcoholic(s) and still developed into a productive caring human while their sibling(s) became a cold hearted terror.

what some consider weak or insecure is a necessity of our species. We all can't be the alpha dog.
 
lartinos said:
You tend to think in absolutes Pick, but that is rarely the case.
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In this case people who believe parenting is the biggest determinant in shaping a child are thinking in absolutes.

The latest science doesn't support that claim.
 
I don't think anyone who's had more than one child believes that children are indistinguishable lumps of putty waiting to be shaped. There's this enormous body of work on parenting that looks at the correlation of what parents do and how children turn out: parents who speak to their children have children with advanced language skills, parents who spank have children that grow up to be more violent and so on. This could be, but correlation does not prove causation.

The fact is that parents provide their children not just with an environment but also with genes. The same genes that make parents talkative could make their children more advanced in language skills. The original studies are rarely done with adopted children.

~Steven Pinker~
 
PICK3 said:
In this case people who believe parenting is the biggest determinant in shaping a child are thinking in absolutes.

The latest science doesn't support that claim.
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That is because modern science and society has discarded the concept of a soul. I believe knowledge by itself is a thin veil that attempts to cover the anguish of not knowing, the truth that we really don't know and when we purse it without trying to understand the soul we sidestep the concept of understanding itself.

To think that humanity isn't shaped by the loving, caring, understanding, and forgiveness of those around us, or the lack of that love, forgiveness and understanding especially in childhood is missing the big picture entirely, imo. But, that is that is the fundamental difference between me, someone who believes in a soul and someone that does not. :) I will take responsibility for my daughter and who she becomes and also those I come in contact with while I'm alive, even when my contact is bad, because I'm human. lol I hope to pass that to my daughter so she can experience joy and meaningful direction and purpose in life.
 
cindylou said:
That is because modern science and society has discarded the concept of a soul. I believe knowledge by itself is a thin veil that attempts to cover the anguish of not knowing, the truth that we really don't know and when we purse it without trying to understand the soul we sidestep the concept of understanding itself.

To think that humanity isn't shaped by the loving, caring, understanding, and forgiveness of those around us, or the lack of that love, forgiveness and understanding especially in childhood is missing the big picture entirely, imo. But, that is that is the fundamental difference between me, someone who believes in a soul and someone that does not. :) I will take responsibility for my daughter and who she becomes and also those I come in contact with while I'm alive, even when my contact is bad, because I'm human. lol I hope to pass that to my daughter so she can experience joy and meaningful direction and purpose in life.
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Even if you accept Pinker's ideas of parenting effect (or lack of it) on development he doesn't suggest you should take a "screw the kid" if I can't change the outcome attitude.

You should love and care for her. You want to develop a lifelong respectful relationship.
 
Me? I like learning, I'm a very curious perso who likes to know at least a little bit of everything, I'm a little obsessive and am VERY pessimistic, I guess I like to set myself up for failure because if I do and I fail I saw it coming and if I do and I dont fail then it will be a victory, my motto: "Life sucks and then you die"I'm not very big on the beauty of life concept, I havent had terrible times or poverty, actually as a kid we had it pretty damn sweet, yet to me life is a little pointless, I am in love and married and one could say happy but I'm in a constant neutral state, I'm very hyperactive and have walls around me, if people approach me I'm very social but I never put myself out there to really make friends, I'm a gigantic procrastinator and have little attachment to people
 
nangiggles said:
Me? I like learning, I'm a very curious perso who likes to know at least a little bit of everything, I'm a little obsessive and am VERY pessimistic, I guess I like to set myself up for failure because if I do and I fail I saw it coming and if I do and I dont fail then it will be a victory, my motto: "Life sucks and then you die"I'm not very big on the beauty of life concept, I havent had terrible times or poverty, actually as a kid we had it pretty damn sweet, yet to me life is a little pointless, I am in love and married and one could say happy but I'm in a constant neutral state, I'm very hyperactive and have walls around me, if people approach me I'm very social but I never put myself out there to really make friends, I'm a gigantic procrastinator and have little attachment to people
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We would get along just swimmingly robbette
 
we are all a product of our environment but also our own being...........
They have eyes to see... and hands to touch.. and minds to make decisions or come to a conclusion

As living breathing beings we all watch and learn and make choices and grow..
people in our lives are often teachers to help us grow as a soul...
 
PICK3 said:
Even if you accept Pinker's ideas of parenting effect (or lack of it) on development he doesn't suggest you should take a "screw the kid" if I can't change the outcome attitude.

You should love and care for her. You want to develop a lifelong respectful relationship.
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Right. I agree that kids are not born blank slates, each one has it's own set of personality traits. I just reject his idea that parenting, parenting styles and the family relationship or the close intimate contacts of the child has no effect on who the child becomes. I reject that entirely. lol :) My experience conflicts with that. It's not reality.
 
cindylou said:
why is that? :) There is a reason for that.
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we're actually "wired" to fit in

it's kool to say I'm my own person and I don't care wut others think

butt, we evolved from tribal societies that if you weren't accepted and were bant you didn't survive
 
PICK3 said:
we're actually "wired" to fit in

it's kool to say I'm my own person and I don't care wut others think

butt, we evolved from tribal societies that if you weren't accepted and were bant you didn't survive
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you don't know shit about dick
 
He son't dick about shit either
 
PICK3 said:
When the levees broke in New Orleans after Katrina I realized I was an optimist when I stood back and seen my city as half full
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I'm an optimist too because I believed that hellhole was half cleaned up.
 
PICK3 said:
we're actually "wired" to fit in

it's kool to say I'm my own person and I don't care wut others think

butt, we evolved from tribal societies that if you weren't accepted and were bant you didn't survive
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I believe we are "wired" to search for absolute belonging and acceptance too, outside of evolutionary struggle for survival. If we don't get that through failures of our parents or early caregivers we settle for imitations.
 
cindylou said:
I believe we are "wired" to search for absolute belonging and acceptance too, outside of evolutionary struggle for survival. If we don't get that through failures of our parents or early caregivers we settle for imitations.
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when I tried to breast feed as an infant my mom told me she only liked me as a friend :(
 
WE ARE ALL BORN LIKE THIS.......... AND OUT TAUGHT MIND TAKES OVER!!!!

Intuition is often considered the ability to synthesize and deduce from all of our accumulated unconscious experiences. Therefore, we "know" much more than we realize. It is also through the perception of our (other) five senses, which, allows us to "tune in" to our intuition. Those who pay attention, can find intuition a useful tool in their lives.
 
Fitness-gemini said:
WE ARE ALL BORN LIKE THIS.......... AND OUT TAUGHT MIND TAKES OVER!!!!

Intuition is often considered the ability to synthesize and deduce from all of our accumulated unconscious experiences. Therefore, we "know" much more than we realize. It is also through the perception of our (other) five senses, which, allows us to "tune in" to our intuition. Those who pay attention, can find intuition a useful tool in their lives.
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sweet copy & paste...


Intuition, Gut Feeling, Intuitive, Sixth Sense, Psychic Awareness, Tuning In, Insight, The Third Eye at Peacefulmind.com
 
superdave said:
Im a constant pessimist and wallow in self defeat. Im an addict and feel powerless to help myself. Im an over educated, under employed, under achiever who drifts aimlessly through life. I have severe intimacy issues. I see everyone in my life that loves and cares for me as constant irritants. I always see the glass half empty.

Happy fucking new year


P.S. this thread has massive meme potential written all over it
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wurd


Fitness-gemini said:
And the new year will be as good as the energy you put into it!!!!!!
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the new year will suck kayla bear balls too

don't expect dick from life and you won't be disappointed



just sayin'
 
Fitness-gemini said:
we are all a product of our environment but also our own being...........
They have eyes to see... and hands to touch.. and minds to make decisions or come to a conclusion

As living breathing beings we all watch and learn and make choices and grow..
people in our lives are often teachers to help us grow as a soul...
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and yet it's not just parenting and peers that help us learn and develop, it's a bio-psycho-social process, people forget about the key importance in the biological component, someone may be a gloomy negative person and maybe they just have a neurochemical imbalance that has caused them to be like that, so if they took say antidepressants then their personality can dramatically change for good, hell I have adhd and even though I'd love to have medication to assist me with the ability to stay still and focus on a single task I'm also concerned about how it will affect me from a cognitive standpoint, my thought process, my memory, my likes and dislikes, tolerance levels, etc all that will be influenced for better or for worse... :worried:


PICK3 said:
my intuition tells me I'd need a wide angle lens to take pics of my cawk
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You need a camera with a panoramic/stitching image feature
evil%5B1%5D.gif


superdave said:
Step up your game, its time to kill this shit.
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eat that shit!!!!
 
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