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Sometimes being decent looking and somewhat in shape sucks ass

Burning_Inside

Burning_Inside

Elite Mentor
I'm the type of guy that loves the freak chicks. ya know, dyed hair and shit. I met up with this one girl online on match.com. She's 18, petite, freaky, cute in my opinon. We have all of the same interests and outlooks on life. Same music and religious values. Tons of shit in common.

However, she's obviously not feeling me because I'm 6'3" 180 and tan and I workout, and have normal hair and no tats or piercings. Chicks like these always want guys who look like they spent a year in chemotherapy. It seriously pisses me off.

Why would a girl NOT want someone who looks like I do (I'm not pulling an HI here or anything, I'm not saying I'm Mr. Alpha Male Omega or anything) as opposed to that kind of guy?

I understand everyone's got their own preference, but shit, come on. I mean hell I'D do any sort of chick i get along with and who is good looking no matter what she dresses like. Then again I'm a guy, and women aren't logical so....Guess I answered my own question.
 
I know exactly what you mean. Strangely enough, a lot of girls go for the Perr Farrell type of guy, and thats ok. I've been there believe me. It boils down to one thing though, competition. Why compete with the Perry Farrels? You are better off starting out with girls who appreciate your type. Your odds of success are so much greater. Im 6-6 for example. I never approach girls who are too much under 5-9, 5-10 for example. Why bother competing with short guys? Taller girls have 90% less guys who are eligible for them based on height. So thats where I play, where my odds are best. Tall girls are my personal blackjack, or craps, you gamblers will know what Im talking about. Why bother with keno and or the slots, know what I mean?
 
I guess it is kind of the reverse of taking home a totally weird ass, gothic, tattoo, peirced up, Wiccan worshipping, vampire home to mom and Dad.
If she is that much into her self-image and lifestyle, then she would be embarrased to be seen with you-a normal guy. Remember she is young too, she more than likely doesn't realize that she is going to grow out of that look and want a normal guy in the end.....
 
Burning_Inside said:
I'm the type of guy that loves the freak chicks. ya know, dyed hair and shit. I met up with this one girl online on match.com. She's 18, petite, freaky, cute in my opinon. We have all of the same interests and outlooks on life. Same music and religious values. Tons of shit in common.

However, she's obviously not feeling me because I'm 6'3" 180 and tan and I workout, and have normal hair and no tats or piercings. Chicks like these always want guys who look like they spent a year in chemotherapy. It seriously pisses me off.

Why would a girl NOT want someone who looks like I do (I'm not pulling an HI here or anything, I'm not saying I'm Mr. Alpha Male Omega or anything) as opposed to that kind of guy?

I understand everyone's got their own preference, but shit, come on. I mean hell I'D do any sort of chick i get along with and who is good looking no matter what she dresses like. Then again I'm a guy, and women aren't logical so....Guess I answered my own question.
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My buddy just got divorced and has been meeting women left and right off of match.com Most are psychos though, in other words, typical women.
 
Godzila said:
I guess it is kind of the reverse of taking home a totally weird ass, gothic, tattoo, peirced up, Wiccan worshipping, vampire home to mom and Dad.
If she is that much into her self-image and lifestyle, then she would be embarrased to be seen with you-a normal guy. Remember she is young too, she more than likely doesn't realize that she is going to grow out of that look and want a normal guy in the end.....
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then when she grows out of the look, she will also most likely be a different person on the inside also, meaning I most likely wouldn't even be interested in her new self anyway.
 
Bro if she's not feeling you then she is not worth your while. You can't make someone be attracted to you.

However, with that being said I do know what you are saying though. Men in general are MUCH less picky when choosing a woman based on physical characteristics.

I can find the attractiveness in pretty much all women. No I'm not desperate (btw I have a girl already). Women, on the other hand, are more likely to have a mental list of preferences for certain haircolour, height, physical structure, etc etc etc and the list goes on and on.
 
Burning_Inside said:
I'm the type of guy that loves the freak chicks. ya know, dyed hair and shit. I met up with this one girl online on match.com. She's 18, petite, freaky, cute in my opinon. We have all of the same interests and outlooks on life. Same music and religious values. Tons of shit in common.

However, she's obviously not feeling me because I'm 6'3" 180 and tan and I workout, and have normal hair and no tats or piercings. Chicks like these always want guys who look like they spent a year in chemotherapy. It seriously pisses me off.

Why would a girl NOT want someone who looks like I do (I'm not pulling an HI here or anything, I'm not saying I'm Mr. Alpha Male Omega or anything) as opposed to that kind of guy?

I understand everyone's got their own preference, but shit, come on. I mean hell I'D do any sort of chick i get along with and who is good looking no matter what she dresses like. Then again I'm a guy, and women aren't logical so....Guess I answered my own question.
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Were we separated at birth? I'm the same fn guy. With the exception of being 6'3.
 
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From Zero said:


Were we separated at birth? I'm the same fn guy. With the exception of being 6'3.
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Well then i guess not, beings that being 6'3" makes me about 100000000000008986785783547xaaaai times better than you.
 
As people have said, it's all in the eye of the beholder. Women are far more picky than men. Also their masters at deceit and manipulation, it is proven to me over and over again. My friends have told me that their wives think I'm an 8 to an 81/2. Some women think I'm ugly. Some don't like big muscles, some don't like body hair, some only like preppy types, and on and on and on.
 
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biteme said:


My buddy just got divorced and has been meeting women left and right off of match.com Most are psychos though, in other words, typical women.
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Went through match.com, adultfriendfinder.com, and matchdoctor.com, among others, during a loser phase (although much of my life could be viewed as such lol).

Whatever is wrong with me makes me seem like God compared to the level of psychotic behavior exhibited by the females on those sites.

You guys have NO idea. Whatever you've seen, I've dealt with worse. Not bragging in some sick manner. Warning realistically.
 
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Imakarum_Mirabilis said:


Went through match.com, adultfriendfinder.com, and matchdoctor.com, among others, during a loser phase (although much of my life could be viewed as such lol).

Whatever is wrong with me makes me seem like God compared to the level of psychotic behavior exhibited by the females on those sites.

You guys have NO idea. Whatever you've seen, I've dealt with worse. Not bragging in some sick manner. Warning realistically.
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Oh trust me ive dealt with worse.. u have no idea how fucked up some of these pyschos on the internet are.. i mean case in point.. bikinimom... nuff said


but Burning Inside.. come to NY... fucking my area is full of "juice head groupie sluts" , the phrase that I have coined. Goto the hamptons in the summer, if you are under 200lbs you are either gay or and out of towner just visiting.(not putting u down by any means but just showing you what type of guys are here and the girls who love them) Sure there are plenty of girls who just say im too big.. end of story... but most girls in NY love muscles, sometimes it is too easy.. just wear a fuckin tank top out one day on a Saturday in NY and you will see. These 2 girls that I am seeing are about 105lbs each, and im like 240lbs, NY girls love that shit. And at the same time I have dated girls that are 165lbs and muscle, they like it too...

exactly where do u live bro that you are faced with these type of girls??

PS stay AWAY from interent girls... for God's sake..
 
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NY Muscle said:


exactly where do u live bro that you are faced with these type of girls??

PS stay AWAY from interent girls... for God's sake..
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I live around the Scranton area of PA.

I'll tell you tho'... Internet girls...Girls you meet out in public... they're all fucked up.

I was just in a play like 2 months ago. I met this nice girl there. Figured ok, finally a girl with some substance, ya know she's into more than just clubbin' and cruisin around, etc. She's about an 8.5 in every category you can think of to define a girl.

Except for the fact Jesus can speak through her in tongues.

It just doesn't matter where i meet girls anymore. I'm just going to settle on the fact that until im much older, all I will be dealing with are highly, or slightly messed up females.
 
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Burning_Inside said:



It just doesn't matter where i meet girls anymore. I'm just going to settle on the fact that until im much older, all I will be dealing with are highly, or slightly messed up females.
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Depending on your age and the age of the type of girl youd like to be with, there are only a few options... there are 3 type of girls


the young ones (18-23)... shockingly they are the most "normal" ones, but they are young and they are not ready to settle down just yet.

the 24-29 yr olds which is broken up into 2 categories.

the single ones who are still single in the upper range 28/29 most likey has soem serious fucking issues to still be single at that age.

the single ones who have a kid or kids... which is also broken up into 2 categories.. the ones who are scorned and hate all men mostly because of their ex and pretty much fucks up and relationship she gets into because of her ex and the fact that the girl puts up a wall so its hard to get close to her... .....then there are the single moms 28/29/30 who are just "normal" so to say, but have a child, and the child keeps the girl home most of the time so shes not out partying and popping drugs like the rest of the crack addicts and the child gives the girl a sense of resonsibility. this, sadly isnt the most attractive package because of the child, but in the long run shes probably the best option because girls like her grow up real fast and know what responsibility is and have removed themselves from all their single friends of the same age who have no kids and still party their assess off and slepp all damn day long.

and then there are the 30+ girls, fun as hell in bed but at the same time if they are still single then why?head cases maybe? not sure. and if they have kids they most likely at that age were married already and dont want to get married again, they are fun to chill with but there is no long term potential there.

you need to find out from these girls you date how many long term relationships they had and the ones that tell you they had say a 3-4 yr relationship with a guy and havent had another serious relationship since then, STAY FAR AWAY from that type... because soemthing happened and something keeps her from being able to have another long term relationship.

There is no secret to this, but there are some small things to look for that should tell you to 100% avoid the girl, but even after avoiding those types, there is still shit that can happen with any girl you date.

Most girls on here will probably say that all these descriptions can in some way be applied to the single guys as well, but thats not true sorry. Women are usually the ones who carry the baggage or have been fucked in the head because of some asshole guy she dated. I mean sure tons of guys are just straight up assholes and players but the girls are no better.

Trial and error bro is what u need, that or meet a hot chic at church lol or meet a hot girl at a club one nite, you know the type of girl who says "this is the 1st time I have been out in months, I dont go clubbing a lot" that is the ONLY type of girl that you'd want to meet at a club, the rest are club chics, and thats all they are.
 
it's too bad she's too immature to realize a good thing when she's got it - like buttplug said, she's 18.

does anyone really know what they want at 18?
 
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NY Muscle said:



Oh trust me ive dealt with worse.. u have no idea how fucked up some of these pyschos on the internet are.. i mean case in point.. bikinimom... nuff said

...


PS stay AWAY from interent girls... for God's sake..
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I agree with you about Bikinimom.

However, what I have dealt with makes her seem sane. Typing that just made my skin crawl.
 
Bikinimom is funny. She pm'd me saying she was dancing in NJ and I should come see her months back. Yeah ok. Go out of my way to see a middle aged dancer when I got hot dancers right here.
 
Mackavelli said:
Bikinimom is funny. She pm'd me saying she was dancing in NJ and I should come see her months back. Yeah ok. Go out of my way to see a middle aged dancer when I got hot dancers right here.
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lol same here bro, she even gave mer her #, i think 732 was the area code or some shit.

oh gotta love internet broads.


:D :D
 
Imakarum_Mirabilis said:
Damn, that is pathetic. Still, not as bad as I've had to go through.
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Man I could tell you some stories, I had to get the cops involved with one pyscho stalker..
 
Damn, that is pathetic. Still, not as bad as I've had to go through.
 
yeah so anyway i get around to asking this chick what her deal is with me. She said she isn't into me "like that", but she likes hanging out with me.

So then I ask what the main deal is..Age or looks? She said it's age. (I'm 26) Do I act it? No. Look it? No. Everyone at this play I did last month thought I was 21 at the most until I told them. She prefers to stick with guys her own age.

So this girl just told me around the beginning of the conversation that she's not looking for anything serious. So I brought that up and asked her what my age has to do with anything if she's not looking for anything serious. If she likes hanging out with me, then..? Hello? She replied with "nevermind", to which I replied with nevermind indeed. O well c ya, lol.

O well ig uess it all had nothing much to do with the title of this thread..Well, not completely anyway, I'm posititve it had a little to do with it.
 
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Bro you cannot blame her for wanting to be w/someone her own age. Regardless of how youthfull you think you appear from 18 to 26 is big to some people. If you were 36 and her 28 it would be much different. Some girls like older and some don't face it. But she could have just been trying to be nice because you kept pressing the issue and she didn't want to tell you she was not into you physically...move on...
 
Mackavelli said:
Bro you cannot blame her for wanting to be w/someone her own age. Regardless of how youthfull you think you appear from 18 to 26 is big to some people. If you were 36 and her 28 it would be much different. Some girls like older and some don't face it. But she could have just been trying to be nice because you kept pressing the issue and she didn't want to tell you she was not into you physically...move on...
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I've already packed and relocated. I don't waste time anymore.
 
ok...heres the deal, the only women who don't want a guy who is in good looking shape are those who are insecure. If she thinks your better looking than she is, she also believes that you can pick up any girl you want. Her own crazy insecurity is just the first thing to rear it's head...run. By the way, this post is coming from a girl
 
Burning_Inside said:
I'm the type of guy that loves the freak chicks. ya know, dyed hair and shit. I met up with this one girl online on match.com. She's 18, petite, freaky, cute in my opinon. We have all of the same interests and outlooks on life. Same music and religious values. Tons of shit in common.

However, she's obviously not feeling me because I'm 6'3" 180 and tan and I workout, and have normal hair and no tats or piercings. Chicks like these always want guys who look like they spent a year in chemotherapy. It seriously pisses me off.

Why would a girl NOT want someone who looks like I do (I'm not pulling an HI here or anything, I'm not saying I'm Mr. Alpha Male Omega or anything) as opposed to that kind of guy?

I understand everyone's got their own preference, but shit, come on. I mean hell I'D do any sort of chick i get along with and who is good looking no matter what she dresses like. Then again I'm a guy, and women aren't logical so....Guess I answered my own question.
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Just a thought but maybe what makes her not interested in you is the same thing that makes you not interested in "vanilla" girls.

You have your preferences for "freak girls"... Why can't a girl prefer a "freak guy"?

That being said, if you do find one you want to put the effort into, maybe make sure she knows you won't be boring in the sack.

Just some thoughts. As previously established, I don't know crap about relationships ;p
 
Cutiebolic said:
Just a thought but maybe what makes her not interested in you is the same thing that makes you not interested in "vanilla" girls.

You have your preferences for "freak girls"... Why can't a girl prefer a "freak guy"?

That being said, if you do find one you want to put the effort into, maybe make sure she knows you won't be boring in the sack.

Just some thoughts. As previously established, I don't know crap about relationships ;p
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you do realize this thread is from 2003 and burning inside is long gone
 
justamissfit said:
ok...heres the deal, the only women who don't want a guy who is in good looking shape are those who are insecure. If she thinks your better looking than she is, she also believes that you can pick up any girl you want. Her own crazy insecurity is just the first thing to rear it's head...run. By the way, this post is coming from a girl
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Miss Fit is that you :qt:
 
binö said:
nice t and a in your profile, but the wedding ring is a boner killer.
jus sayin
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Thanks. Have more progress to make but on the right track, I think.

Not a wedding ring...lol. Took the pic in a mirror -- that's my right hand. Somehow you missed my annoying previous "I suck at relationships" posts.
 
Just like you labelled her a "freak" based on her looks and assumed things about her personality, many people stereotype body builder types to be less intelligent, less sensitive, more angry, less sophisticated, etc. It isn't right, but it is a fact of life. You will have people make snap judgments about you based upon your appearance. Also, i think you may only give a shit about her because she is playing hard to get.
 
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