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So I just had lunch with one of my best friends, and she pretty much told me that when she gets married in December, she and her fiance plan on entering in to a "Christian Domestic Discipline" relationship a.k.a. she and her fiance have agreed that he may physically punish her when she does something wrong (but she may not punish him back).

I mean if that works for them, good for them, but I'm supposed to be a bridesmaid in said wedding in support of a marriage type I don't actually support.

Discuss.







(And I already know I'm going to get a few of you telling me that's how it should be)
 
jnevin said:
Does she just like to be spanked, smacked around, etc?
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I mean, we've been friends for years and I've never picked up on any maladjustment.

Getting rough sexually is one thing, saying it's ok for your husband to hit you if you do something wrong is another. WTF :confused:
 
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AFeedz said:
Getting rough sexually is one thing, saying it's ok for your husband to hit you if you do something wrong is another. WTF :confused:
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lol!!! like he needs her permission!
 
AFeedz said:
So I just had lunch with one of my best friends, and she pretty much told me that when she gets married in December, she and her fiance plan on entering in to a "Christian Domestic Discipline" relationship a.k.a. she and her fiance have agreed that he may physically punish her when she does something wrong (but she may not punish him back).

I mean if that works for them, good for them, but I'm supposed to be a bridesmaid in said wedding in support of a marriage type I don't actually support.

Discuss.



(And I already know I'm going to get a few of you telling me that's how it should be)
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who determines the punishment level based on the actions?
I thought only the maid of honor was responsible for supporting/helping the marriage and bridesmaids were just friends.
 
AFeedz said:
I mean, we've been friends for years and I've never picked up on any maladjustment.

Getting rough sexually is one thing, saying it's ok for your husband to hit you if you do something wrong is another. WTF :confused:
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Honestly Feedz I am appalled. There is NOTHING christian about that. Nothing. Oh yeah and one more thing...there's nothing funny about it either. Any man who puts his hands on a woman should be horsewhipped!!
 
nangiggles said:
who determines the punishment level based on the actions?
I thought only the maid of honor was responsible for supporting/helping the marriage and bridesmaids were just friends.
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He does. He'd determine both what constituted 'misbehavior' and what actions would be taken to correct it.

And I think everybody in a wedding party and all the guests are there to support a marriage, otherwise they wouldn't show up at all...regardless, I was the maid of honor til her sister got all upset that she wasn't, so her mom and I have still been planning stuff as if I were.
 
Redrocker13 said:
Honestly Feedz I am appalled. There is NOTHING christian about that. Nothing. Oh yeah and one more thing...there's nothing funny about it either. Any man who puts his hands on a woman should be horsewhipped!!
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Agreed. I don't think a man should ever put his hands on a woman as punishment. I don't understand why she's agreed to such a thing. She tried to explain it away for probably 30 minutes and by then I was still thinking "WTF?"
 
In the bible women were to SERVE their husbands or face consequences. Also if your kids didnt act right you would take them to the town elders to be stoned...The bible times were great!
 
Smurfy said:
why do they call it Christian Domestic Discipline? Did they find this shit in the Bible or something?
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I didn't really ask. Apparently there's a group of people who do this (I've since googled it), and they quote scripture as saying women are supposed to obey their husbands. It says nothing about physical punishment though. This group says it's the successful way to teach women not to disobey for reasons completely unbeknownst to me.
 
I think your friend is an all out idiot. I Think this CDD bullshit is absolutely LOL'able. Bunch of crazy fucking religious nuts.
 
I 100% supoprt this! Jesus is prolly PISSED that women get to VOTE and have jobs outside of the house! Women were made to stay home and serve their husbands!
 
"Not just any man is fit to lead in a Domestic Discipline household. For instance, if you’re a man of considerable ego, insecurity or temper then this lifestyle may not be for you. If you are not do not respect your wife as mandated in the book of Ephesians 5: 23-30, then this lifestyle is definitely not for you.

Finally, a husband who enters a DD relationship must be willing to talk to his wife not just about discipline, but about her need to be spanked, what spanking does for her and how she needs it to occur to feel safe, secure, cherished and led. He also needs to be prepared to talk about the sexual aspects of spanking. This is often a touchy subject for Christian couples in DD, because the eroticism of spanking may make them feel kinky and sinful. But a woman’s bottom, I believe, was created not only as an enticement to men but as a target for his hand when she disobeys."

from Learning to Spank by Brent
 
Redrocker13 said:
Honestly Feedz I am appalled. There is NOTHING christian about that. Nothing. Oh yeah and one more thing...there's nothing funny about it either. Any man who puts his hands on a woman should be horsewhipped!!
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agreed

but that is what happens when you are brainwashed with religion and a book
 
bigpokey said:
"Not just any man is fit to lead in a Domestic Discipline household. For instance, if you’re a man of considerable ego, insecurity or temper then this lifestyle may not be for you. If you are not do not respect your wife as mandated in the book of Ephesians 5: 23-30, then this lifestyle is definitely not for you.

Finally, a husband who enters a DD relationship must be willing to talk to his wife not just about discipline, but about her need to be spanked, what spanking does for her and how she needs it to occur to feel safe, secure, cherished and led. He also needs to be prepared to talk about the sexual aspects of spanking. This is often a touchy subject for Christian couples in DD, because the eroticism of spanking may make them feel kinky and sinful. But a woman’s bottom, I believe, was created not only as an enticement to men but as a target for his hand when she disobeys."

from Learning to Spank by Brent
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^ SEE, GUYS?! It exists. Some crazies, I tell you.

Yeah, I read that bullshit site when I got home and started researching the hell out of this stupid fvcking idea.

Anyways, maybe I don't even want to be friends with this girl anymore. lol
 
bigpokey said:
"Not just any man is fit to lead in a Domestic Discipline household. For instance, if you’re a man of considerable ego, insecurity or temper then this lifestyle may not be for you. If you are not do not respect your wife as mandated in the book of Ephesians 5: 23-30, then this lifestyle is definitely not for you.

Finally, a husband who enters a DD relationship must be willing to talk to his wife not just about discipline, but about her need to be spanked, what spanking does for her and how she needs it to occur to feel safe, secure, cherished and led. He also needs to be prepared to talk about the sexual aspects of spanking. This is often a touchy subject for Christian couples in DD, because the eroticism of spanking may make them feel kinky and sinful. But a woman’s bottom, I believe, was created not only as an enticement to men but as a target for his hand when she disobeys."

from Learning to Spank by Brent
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have to admit...I'm aroused!
 
stevesmi said:
agreed

but that is what happens when you are brainwashed with religion and a book
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I could see the brainwashing can happen

But I don't think you can use the bible to find scripture. Christ said you are to love your wife as Christ loves the church.

Well I don't see Jesus bitch slapping the church when they disobey.
 
EarthRider said:
I could see the brainwashing can happen

But I don't think you can use the bible to find scripture. Christ said you are to love your wife as Christ loves the church.

Well I don't see Jesus bitch slapping the church when they disobey.
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I'm not bible scholar but i do recall there is something in there allowing you to hit your wife or something like that.

the dude Afeedz is talking about is a preacher or whatever, they do not believe in vaginal sex either. just anal

this is an example of why there are so many Ponzi Schemes originating from churches, people will believe anything when they are brainwashed on a weekly basis.
 
nangiggles said:
is it exclusively spanking? or like flat out slaps, kicks, falcon punches?
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lol @ falcon punches

I have no idea, to be honest. She didn't even say spankings, she just said he could physically punish her, but from what I've read online most of it seems to be spanking. I've read a couple stories about slaps across the face, I've read nothing about kicks or punches though.

I read one soon after I got home about this woman who had a habit her husband apparently did not like. And he hit her across the ass with a belt like 15 times or something (ouch), then gave her "reminder" punishments for the next 2 weeks, even when she wasn't continuing whatever habit it was. So by the end of this woman's story she was all "I'm so happy he punished me for it, because I'm a better wife to him now" nonsense.
 
stevesmi said:
I'm not bible scholar but i do recall there is something in there allowing you to hit your wife or something like that.

the dude Afeedz is talking about is a preacher or whatever, they do not believe in vaginal sex either. just anal

this is an example of why there are so many Ponzi Schemes originating from churches, people will believe anything when they are brainwashed on a weekly basis.
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well I use to Youth Pastor and I have studied the scripture a lot, and I have never read or heard anybody teach on hitting your wife. I have never even heard a denomination that would teach this.

WTF, no vag sex, how do these people even find anybody that would follow them. If someone told me to be a part of there religion and not have sex with my wife, I would bitch slap them out of my house
 
stevesmi said:
I'm not bible scholar but i do recall there is something in there allowing you to hit your wife or something like that.

the dude Afeedz is talking about is a preacher or whatever, they do not believe in vaginal sex either. just anal

this is an example of why there are so many Ponzi Schemes originating from churches, people will believe anything when they are brainwashed on a weekly basis.
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You don't know who or what you're talking about here. That's not the case at all.


...& also, there's nothing in the Bible that says you can hit your wife. But before we get in to that type of religious argument, this thread isn't about the Bible, it's about my stupid friend. lol I don't care what her reasons are, I care that she's fine with this.
 
Any normal self-respecting woman should be all about doing whatever her husband wants...whats the point of a guy getting married if hes not getting a servant to do his wishes? duh!
 
AFeedz said:
You don't know who or what you're talking about here. That's not the case at all.


...& also, there's nothing in the Bible that says you can hit your wife. But before we get in to that type of religious argument, this thread isn't about the Bible, it's about my stupid friend. lol I don't care what her reasons are, I care that she's fine with this.
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oh okay forget it then.. thought you were talking about someone else.

will bow out of the thread now and take my ball and go home :(
 
AFeedz said:
So I just had lunch with one of my best friends, and she pretty much told me that when she gets married in December, she and her fiance plan on entering in to a "Christian Domestic Discipline" relationship a.k.a. she and her fiance have agreed that he may physically punish her when she does something wrong (but she may not punish him back).

I mean if that works for them, good for them, but I'm supposed to be a bridesmaid in said wedding in support of a marriage type I don't actually support.

Discuss.







(And I already know I'm going to get a few of you telling me that's how it should be)
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Oh my GOD! WTF I've never heard of that before? Discipline? What the FUCK
 
Annie, I'm going to ignore all the posts from people that don't know what the bible says and just give you my opinion on the bridesmaid part.

I think you should still be a bridesmaid.

Did they determine this was how they were going to live after or before the engagement?
 
I've noticed quite a few Christian men secretly hate women. WTF is this stuff...I'm disturbed by this. I've never heard of it.
 
cindylou said:
Annie, I'm going to ignore all the posts from people that don't know what the bible says and just give you my opinion on the bridesmaid part.

I think you should still be a bridesmaid.

Did they determine this was how they were going to live after or before the engagement?
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Yeah, they're living this way after marriage. It'd be hard now seeing as they aren't living together.

She's been my best friend for a while now so it def comes as a shock. She's never said/acted like this before. I was speechless.
 
So the girl wants to please her man, let her live her life and make the man happy while he beats her! Maybe he likes his women black and blue but his family wants him to marry a white chick...Interracial still isnt accepted everywhere....just saying....
 
Is she a very meek and submissive person to begin with? It might work if she never rocks the boat. Ever. On the other hand, if she gets a few beatings and then begins to harbour resentment, this could go sour.
I couldn't support this kind of arrangement myself as I have first-hand experience with physical punishment from an ex, so I couldn't and wouldn't participate as a bridesmaid. It goes against my own beliefs that people should not hit their loved ones for any reason.
 
How can she be an authority figure to her kids if the dad disciplines her too? Do they even want kids...?
 
DJLegacy2k1 said:
In the bible women were to SERVE their husbands or face consequences. Also if your kids didnt act right you would take them to the town elders to be stoned...The bible times were great!
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In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. Ephesians 5 plz read it before being retarded
 
I'm a Christian and I dint know anyone who practices this or teaches it. Everything I have read says the man should have the final say but that the man and women should be as one equal. The should be treated with love and respect.
 
nangiggles said:
How can she be an authority figure to her kids if the dad disciplines her too? Do they even want kids...?
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She can't wait to have kids. I don't know how it would work. Maybe he wouldn't punish her in front of the children? I honestly have no idea. I didn't ask that.
 
misguided03 said:
I'm a Christian and I dint know anyone who practices this or teaches it. Everything I have read says the man should have the final say but that the man and women should be as one equal. The should be treated with love and respect.
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ummmm point being also if the woman doesnt do nething shes not supposed to do then there is no need to worry. If she soley lives to please her husband then there shouldnt be any issues. If she goes out and cheats on him, well, she might get beat with a belt...just saying...
 
AFeedz said:
Yeah, they're living this way after marriage. It'd be hard now seeing as they aren't living together.

She's been my best friend for a while now so it def comes as a shock. She's never said/acted like this before. I was speechless.
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Yeah, I figured they were not living together but I'm just wondering how he talked her into this...did he bring it up after the engagement or did she go into the engagement knowing this was the kind of husband he wanted to be? I'm just trying to figure out how a woman could come to the conclusion to marry a man that wants to discipline her and treat her like a child.

I mean, most people don't even spank older children, just younger ones. So she would be beneath a teenager.
 
I found some info on them ... They are not backed by any church it is a small group that has taken a translation I'm not sure which they are using and then they pulled bits and pieces without the full paragraph to support their bullshit. I really hope your friend rethinks this because it sounds like the husband is trying to lay the ground work for domestic abuse which regardless of what you believe is illegal.
 
miplank said:
a lil ass whoopin' never hurt nobody
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Define "lil"
the strap with a belt
open hand slap on face
scratching
twisting nose around
boxing ears
closed fist punch on body/face
beating on body with an object
kicking
choking
slashing with sharp object

Which are OK?
 
So who gets to beat the husbands ass when he screws up? I'll volunteer.

There is absolutely nothing in scripture that I am aware of that even remotely would condone this behaviour. Are her parents aware of any of this?? I can't imagine tolerating this as a dad.
 
AFeedz said:
He does. He'd determine both what constituted 'misbehavior' and what actions would be taken to correct it.

And I think everybody in a wedding party and all the guests are there to support a marriage, otherwise they wouldn't show up at all...regardless, I was the maid of honor til her sister got all upset that she wasn't, so her mom and I have still been planning stuff as if I were.
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i just dont get why they have a special name for it, and why they advertised it to everyone at the wedding.

was it on the e-vite?

i wonder what her parents are thinking about the whole thing...

i would be down to beat my wife in private, for fucking up, but i would feel scummy advertising it to the entire wedding party. i would def beat her ass if she told anyone about our CDD
 
stevesmi said:
I'm not bible scholar but i do recall there is something in there allowing you to hit your wife or something like that.

the dude Afeedz is talking about is a preacher or whatever, they do not believe in vaginal sex either. just anal

this is an example of why there are so many Ponzi Schemes originating from churches, people will believe anything when they are brainwashed on a weekly basis.
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lol so on the wedding invitation it talked about their CDD and how he is gonna fuck her in the ass and beat her and suff?
 
I don't know this guy but he sounds very manipulative. He's convinced her (by twisiting the scripture) to agree to her own abuse. He sounds scary.

Or, it is a bunch of Christians trying to justify their sexual fetish.

Part of me thinks it's a sexual fetish thing because of certain terms they use. For example, consenual, and "over the knee"
 
Sub-Zero said:
is she a hoe? is he allowed to fuck her during the physical punishment?
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No not at all. This guy is only the 2nd guy she's ever bee with. And I assume he can't fuck her during punishments, but I wouldn't know. I assume adding pleasure would undermine the point.
 
From the website:

"there is not much difference in paddling a rebellious teenager or her difficult mother"

I'm getting angry :mad:
 
i think that if he is a true smart kind moral man then this could work, because women are animals that need to be lead.

however if he was so pure he wouldnt need physical punishment to control his herd. his mere presence (and sheepdog) would be enough
 
cindylou said:
I don't know this guy but he sounds very manipulative. He's convinced her (by twisiting the scripture) to agree to her own abuse. He sounds scary.
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sounds like a lot of xtian pastors.
 
lol

For uncooperative wives, the calf of the lower leg on the same side as the spanking hand can then be used to pin the back of the calf of the wife. Usually pinning one leg is adequate to prevent the other from swinging wildly. Pinning a rebellious wife's inside leg also prevents assuming a mulish *ironing board* position - with the legs extended - since it is almost impossible to do with one leg. As the spanking withers any rebellion, the woman's legs will naturally relax as her resistance fades and she accepts her fate.
 
“We both know Big Stick ain't comin',” came the lurid gruff reply. Hank hurried his steps and didn't trouble to keep his paces silent. He wanted them to know as soon as possible that help was on it's way. “We done tol' you if'n you come around here again, we'd know it was cuz you wanted to have a good time with us'ns. Now you's here and we aim to give you that good time, girlie.” Horace Scug seemed to lift his dirty head up, like a beast smelling the wind. “That you, Clovis? What you makin' that racket fer? We caught us a female and I aim to be first, since was me treed her.”
 
cindylou said:
lol

For uncooperative wives, the calf of the lower leg on the same side as the spanking hand can then be used to pin the back of the calf of the wife. Usually pinning one leg is adequate to prevent the other from swinging wildly. Pinning a rebellious wife's inside leg also prevents assuming a mulish *ironing board* position - with the legs extended - since it is almost impossible to do with one leg. As the spanking withers any rebellion, the woman's legs will naturally relax as her resistance fades and she accepts her fate.
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LOL @ accepting fate, screw that...

I wonder if he can discipline her while pregnant.... :confused:
 
Although best employed with the wife stripped from the waist down, pants and panties at the knee or ankle do not necessarily preclude using the above position since it holds the wife's knees against the husband's leg.

Remember to stay in control at all times so her faith in you is not rattled. Her reaction after the lashing will let you know if this punishment works for her. She should be genuinely remorseful, tearful, and sore, but have an overwhelming desire to please you.

I'm getting turned on :confused:
 
Sub-Zero said:
i think that if he is a true smart kind moral man then this could work, because women are animals that need to be lead.

however if he was so pure he wouldnt need physical punishment to control his herd. his mere presence (and sheepdog) would be enough
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True! Just look at Cesar Milan (the dog whisperer).
 
cindylou said:
Although best employed with the wife stripped from the waist down, pants and panties at the knee or ankle do not necessarily preclude using the above position since it holds the wife's knees against the husband's leg.

Remember to stay in control at all times so her faith in you is not rattled. Her reaction after the lashing will let you know if this punishment works for her. She should be genuinely remorseful, tearful, and sore, but have an overwhelming desire to please you.

I'm getting turned on :confused:
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I've BEEN turned on since the beginning of this thread!
 
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After a sufficient warm up you will be able to spank her with great intensity and a longer period of time, hence enforcing a proper punishment and the tears that are sure to flow….

If you spank with fast, hard swats you will cause her to cry, that is true, but you have failed to take into account what is truly needed. She needs and desires to submit to you and your decisions as her HOH, and by taking time to slow down the spanking and thoroughly punishing her she will find solace and be happier.
 
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