read this...I'm totally fukd in the head...

So this girl I've been seeing hasn't seemed like she wants to hang out as much lately. I tried to have a talk over the weekend to find answers. All she gave was wishy-washy ones. Remember she just got out of a long term relationship, so when the words "I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship right now, I still love him" came out of her mouth, I gave her her belongings and dumped her right there.

I learned from the last one not to waste my time and be a sopping wet vagina.

So this morning I sent an email to her older hot sister reading:

"So, since you are single now when are you and I gonna go out? I've seen the way you look at me when I'm around and I can tell there's some attraction there. To be honest, you were the real reason I wanted to come to Beth's ballgames. You are definitely my type of female. I seriously doubt Sarah would even care...she's still desperately hung up on that Dave guy."

alien amp pharm said:

So this girl I've been seeing hasn't seemed like she wants to hang out as much lately. I tried to have a talk over the weekend to find answers. All she gave was wishy-washy ones. Remember she just got out of a long term relationship, so when the words "I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship right now, I still love him" came out of her mouth, I gave her her belongings and dumped her right there.

I learned from the last one not to waste my time and be a sopping wet vagina.

So this morning I sent an email to her older hot sister reading:

"So, since you are single now when are you and I gonna go out? I've seen the way you look at me when I'm around and I can tell there's some attraction there. To be honest, you were the real reason I wanted to come to Beth's ballgames. You are definitely my type of female. I seriously doubt Sarah would even care...she's still desperately hung up on that Dave guy."

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That reeks of desperation

Frisky said:

That reeks of desperation

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What! Really?

Crap. I honestly could not care less about the breakup. I sure hope it doesn't look like I do. I swear I can't win.

Frisky said:

That reeks of desperation

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alien amp pharm said:

What! Really?

Crap. I honestly could not care less about the breakup. I sure hope it doesn't look like I do. I swear I can't win.

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Sister... hmmmmm

first off.. if the older sister does go out with you.. it will be problems between her and her sis... no matter if she cares or not. I'd never do that to my Sister its just not right.. blood.. water.. eh Yea you know.

Secondly Yep... is gonna look like its a 'Pay Back' to the X, no matter how you put it. This is how chicks think. A girl could do this to a guy and he wouldn't give a flying F**k.. but a girl... whoa whole other world here. This will be a huge issue even though she's still "in love" with her X she will NOT like it if her sister goes out with you. And then the family... wait till mom finds out.. Dats YO ass.. LOL

Just move on sweets... Its the best thing to do. Trust me...

you know, theres an unwritten girl rule that is followed about 80% of the time (bloody women) that says "thou shalt not bang thy girlfriends ex boyfriends", which is kind of like another unwritten girl rule, which is followed 95% of the time, which says "thou shalt not bang thy sisters ex boyfriend, lest thy hurt your sisters feelings" even if the sister dumped the guy on his arse in a really terrible way

SO you just stuck your neck out for the sister to reject you (and she will) while pissing off your ex (and she will be) and undermining your relationship with her (you have) and power-slamming your chances of getting back with this girl, even as a booty call, in the coming months (and she will be insecure and wanting something...wait...would have been, but wont anymore) aaaaaaaaand potentially looking like youre a douche, who is jsut wanting to bang her sister to get back at her (and you do)

...maybe, this time, looking like a SWV would ahve been the way to go..

Her sister told a friend of mine how hot I am, how she wishes she would have just waited to set me up (because she's single now) etc. So I know the sister WANTS me, it's just a matter of 'will the other girl care or not?'.

However like you said she will say no because of the sister/date the same guy thing you guys mentioned. I'm expecting that, I just thought it'd be a fun thing to do.

Tried one sister now gonna try the other.

You're a glutton for punishment.

Walk away man. Just get out of the whole situation. What good could possibly come of it? Get laid? There is so much snatty out there, you just need to broaden your horizons. The drama of the girl and her ex was a pain, why throw the sister in as well? You'll do what you will, post it, and out of some strange, morbid curiosity, I'll read it.

alien amp pharm said:

So this morning I sent an email to her older hot sister reading:

"So, since you are single now when are you and I gonna go out? I've seen the way you look at me when I'm around and I can tell there's some attraction there. To be honest, you were the real reason I wanted to come to Beth's ballgames. You are definitely my type of female. I seriously doubt Sarah would even care...she's still desperately hung up on that Dave guy."

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Why do you rely so much on emails and other forms of online flirting? This would have been far better if you had talked to her face to face, mentioned how bummed out you were about her sister but you understand that she still has issues with her ex, and then just casually asked the sis out, maybe mention how you are now single too? Something like this could be pulled off face to face where expressions and body language can dull the obvious desperation, but online (with no emotional feedback) it just seems pathetic and it won't work. She now has time to think about it and formulate a response, where as in person she would be more pressured to make an on the spot decision, which greatly improves your odds of a YES if she is interested.