Why is it that I don't have the balls to...

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fyxgel

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• Apr 16, 2004

• #1

Why is it that I dont have the balls, just to tell a friend thats a girl, that she looks pretty?

This seems extremely hard to do.
Whats wrong with me?

 

Lestat

MVP

EF VIP

• Apr 16, 2004

• #2

you're gay?

 

Paulo

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• Apr 16, 2004

• #3

fyxgel said:

Whats wrong with me?

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let me get back to you on that one...

 

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wtlftr

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• Apr 16, 2004

• #4

if it at the work place maybe you are avoiding a sexual harassment charge. If just friends not at work, you are just chicken.

 

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Gambino

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• Apr 16, 2004

• #5

cause you're afraid of getting dissed...your afraid she'll laugh at you. Just compliement her on what she is wearing, how her hair looks. Say something like "damn, your hair sure looks good." Don't come across as desperate or horny...don't ask me why I keep responding to your threads, I have giving you sound advice, yet you never so much as even aknowledge my attempt at help. I'm not a playa, but I do alright, wtf don't you listen?

 

juve

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• Apr 16, 2004

• #6

fyxgel said:

Why is it that I dont have the balls, just to tell a friend thats a girl, that she looks pretty?

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why would you want to do something like this? read wtlftr's post, I think he rightly alludes to something - namely: you tell her, she's gonna get freaked, and back down, if not more

the right words should come in the right situations, just bumping into a bizzo and be like 'damn, you pretty' gonna startle most people

complement on small SMALL things of wardrobe, over all appearance - but don't stretch it

oh, yea, and got some male friends instead - mkay?

 

Bobber

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• Apr 16, 2004

• #7

Bro...who doesn't like being complimented. Unless you are some creepy slime ball I am sure she will like it. Just keep the compliment in context to yalls relationship.

 

Bobber

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• Apr 16, 2004

• #8

Gambino said:

Don't come across as desperate or horny...QUOTE]


Whats wrong with comming across as horny?

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fyxgel

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• Apr 16, 2004

• #9

wtlftr said:

if it at the work place maybe you are avoiding a sexual harassment charge. If just friends not at work, you are just chicken.

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they are friends at college. like girls that I see in passing, in my dorm, that i kinda know.

 

fistfullofsteel

Well-known member

• Apr 16, 2004

• #10

you're afraid that, "They're all going to laugh at you, they're all going to laugh at you, they're all going to laugh at you!"