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 Ladies...what are some of your opinions on a guy that roids?
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1409 |
I have juiced before, and my last cycle was just finishing up when I met my current girlfriend. I don't get any side effects that are noticable so that is not the problem. I want to hit another cycle and she is against it. I don't know what she would do if I did and she found out. I actually did a short 4 week low dose test cycle in May and she did not know. I told her later and she was all mad. She did not seem to mind the sex every day, or twice a night though. So I am sitting on enough for my next cycle and wondering what to do. Opinions...?     | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 71 |
You guys need to communicate! You need to sit her down and explain to her what you are about. You need to let her know this is something you are doing and want to do. Explain to her how you feel about it etc. If she truly cares for you she should accept it and support you. What if you do not even know this girl a year from now and you gave up something you were doing for YOU. You have to decide what it is worth to you. Going behind her back without telling her is going to make her mad, be upfront and tell her what you plan to do. But dont compromise your goals and plans for yourself for some chick! You need to find someone who is into what you are into  | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1409 |
She works out, she just does not understnad my motivation for all this. She thinks I am "big enough", but that is my choice, not hers. I don't want to be the next Mr. O, but I would like to compete. This is such a touchy subject with her. I talk about gear to her, but I don't exactly say I am going to do it again, I think she would flip. | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 2032 |
Tell her to hit the road baby, sure she likes the sex action, all the good stuff roids do fer yah. Communication, Yah RIGHT. You communicate and your cut off - you know what I'm talking about.... All she wants to do is control the situation without any concideration for you, or your goals. Just like a women too. Or just flat out lie and deny. Works everytime. Say, "I love you to much, if you don't want me to do them, then, for you sweety, starting the year 2001 I quit. And we can start out fresh!" BINGO, Your In Big Guy - Grand slam and monster dunk. Hell, bet you even get a hummer or two! So what yah think? Can I call it? Or can I call it! Lobo OUT! | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 889 |
If I only had dollar for everytime I heard this. Rationally explain to her how they work and why you do them. If she fails to she the logic and gives you an ultimatum, well then you walk. You'll be better off without some control freak girlfriend who wants to control every aspect of your existence. IG | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 34 |
Mine never wanted me to start trying them due to the exagerations in the news and whatnot. Now she is asking me for some info so she can do some, that's why I'm asking..hehe | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1409 |
War Lobo, LOL! Yeah, I wonder if I bail on her if technically I am trading roids for her? She knows how they work from my preaching but she is still not coming around to the idea. One of my friends who she really likes juices a lot and she thinks he is one of the nicest people she knows, go figure! | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2324 |
I am checking the basement for pods! What did you do with the Sheriff who is soooooo sensitive towards women's needs!  HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA! But I have to agree with Lobo. If she doesn't even want to get educated, then what else is she going to "forbid" you to do? DO NOT FLAT OUT LIE, THOUGH. Then that will guarantee your breakup when she busts you. Just be honest and let the chips fall where they may. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 71 |
well...I'd accept your juicin habits  | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 2032 |
I was sort of being a sarcastic smart ass (yes, I know, hard for you all to believe )But also, there was a tad bit of truth. And I think you picked it up marvelously well MP5. Of course do not lie, never works. Never has and never will - especially if you plan on building something together. ------------------ Lobo | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1409 |
Thanks for the input! | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 31 |
Well MP, I don't think it is a big deal if you are educated. I could see someone being against it having typical things in mind that you see on after school specials that tell teens not to use. But, the lying thing (even though it seems necessary) is not worth it. Either she accepts it or she can choose to go, but the choice is hers right, so be up front. It is not the easiest way to go when you don't want the person to go, but I don't think she will. Try it. I would appreciate the honesty myself, that way I feel it is up to me weather I would stay or go just because of a few 'supplements'. It is YOUR body, YOUR choices, just make good ones Fox ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 161 |
After counselling my girl about it and educating her as to the differences and side effects, she started administering my juice for me! That was a year or so ago, now she has 2 cycles under her belt, and is ready to start a third. ...bd | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 31 |
Well MP, I don't think it is a big deal if you are educated. I could see someone being against it having typical things in mind that you see on after school specials that tell teens not to use. But, the lying thing (even though it seems necessary) is not worth it. Either she accepts it or she can choose to go, but the choice is hers right, so be up front. It is not the easiest way to go when you don't want the person to go, but I don't think she will. Try it. I would appreciate the honesty myself, that way I feel it is up to me weather I would stay or go just because of a few 'supplements'. It is YOUR body, YOUR choices, just make good ones Fox ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 59 |
MP5, Why is she so aginst you roiding? Just curious. It sounds like she is not misinformed, it sounds like a control issue at this point. I agree with the other women, just tell her the truth. Tell her that although you know how she feels andunderstand it. That youhave decided to do another cycle beginning XXXX. If she flips out and gives you an ultimatum then your better off. Roids today, Who knows what tomorrow. No one should have that power over anyone they love. It is your body and YOU need to be happy with yourself. Just my .02 ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 41 |
MP- When I first met my hubby I knew that he juiced and i had no problem with it. A person has to be open minded in order to accept it. I know that you can lecture her into accepting it and she might..but what happens when you guys get in an argument and she blows up and says fine..I'll call the cops and tell them you have roids at home and where you stash them. I've seen this happen to a friend of ours. His girlfriend is constantly threatening that she'll call the cops as soon as they have an argument or something. So now..he's even a bit afraid of leaving her. Now, think about that. I am not telling you that you shouldn't be with her for that but just make sure you always know what could happen. That's just my .02 | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1409 |
The problem is that she used to be a pothead, and she quit. I am not wanting to date a chick who is into drugs and she knows this. Yet she feels that if I can roid she can hit the weed again. And I won't date a girl who is into rec. drugs. If she wanted to do a mild cycle I would not really care, but doing other drugs is out of the question so I am in a catch22 with this one. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 41 |
MP5- you brought up a good point about the catch22 but ROIDS are not a MIND enhancing drug!! Why do people bash roids as being so bad? If they are so bad then why do they try to cure or help aids patients with them? Personally I think society worries a bit too much about people who do roids then they should. The biggest thing that is a misconseption is that all people will experience roid rage...which is total BS!! | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 9 |
My fiance is allowed to do any type of cycle he wants as long as it isnt too harsh on the hair, and the male stuff. I know he is responsible enough to choose his juice wisely, and honestly, i love the outcomes! It's all about doing it the smart way. Good luck!!! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 361 |
Do you have any other female friends that juice? If so, then try getting her to hang out with them every once and awhile. I have found that most females will have a change of heart when they are talked to by another of their sex (same for men to an extent). Talk to her about it like the others stated here/above. Communication is important, do not lie. If she doesn't seem to understand where you are coming from, the you have to make a decision on whether things will work between the two of you. I guess you could try showing her studies on their affects, etc... www.medibolics.com |
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posted December 29, 2000 05:36 PM