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 How to lose the innocent act in bed?
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Cool Novice 
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I am a fairly quiet girl in and out of the bedroom. I would like to be more spontaneous and uninhibited in bed (classy, not trashy), but I am afraid of freaking out my boyfriend of 7 months. I think he would be totally in to it, but this would be quite a change for me. What can I do so I won't shock him?     | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 28 |
well shockin him could be a good thing, he may be wanting and looking for that, all men are  Break out the leather and lace and get some handcuffs and blindfold, (hehe). If you are quiet and shy, just let yourself go.....what is your fantasy? Try new things, get some toys and oils and play around a bit. Be confident and comfortable with yourself first, and then go all out, go a litte crazy!! Im sure he won't mind nor be mad that you are not as quiet etc. | ||
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Novice 
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I am exactly the same way, but I have gotten a little better, especially last night, and it was fun too. I think I freaked my boyfriend out about ten seconds, and then it was great. I don't know how spontaneous your boyfriend is, but last night I told my boyfriend to get up in front of me and take his clothes off while I had some music playing. It was great. I loved every minute of it too. Just take your time and have fun. | ||
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Novice
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I found talking dirty does something to guys. Just whisper in his ear at THE MOST inappropriate times...ie at a family meal w/his parents sitting across the table, "I just wanna PHUCK YOUR BRAINS OUT" and then continue the dinner conversation about the weather like nothing is going on makes for EXTREMELY AMAZING foreplay!  ------------------ [This message has been edited by bikinimommy (edited November 20, 2000).] | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 43 |
Ladies..for your man's sake.....talk dirty I cant imagine a man not wanting that.....my chic recently started doing that....I love it. she used to not say much...but recently I told her we could have better sex if she told me EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS and HOW SHE WANTS IT!!! Communicate......thats all | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 31 |
New@-I was thinking about using honey, if I couldn't get anything else. Have you ever tried it? Talking dirty will be easy because I don't need any "supplies". I will try these out later this week. The tiger is on the prowl!! Thanks | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 568 |
Some chick i was fuckin' told me "to fuck her cunt and called me and filthy scumbag" I dropped my load right in her.... ------------------
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Novice
Posts: 9 |
sweet pea 2 words "talk dirty" trust me it works. also while in bed play a little game where no one makes any move into foreplay without the other person telling SPECICALLY what he or she wants done,,, for instance, but you can say dirtiter thing s than this :-) say "I want you to lick my "<blank>" etc.. but no hinting or using silly names for private psrts, just get nasty! but each one of u has to say or demand word for word what you want done next. Flavored oils work good also.. i went nuts looking for ones with no carbs lol but found them, all types of flavors and they get hot when u blow on them and damn thay taste good. Godd luck. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 31 |
I am noticing a pattern here...This is going to be a shock because I don't ever talk dirty. I don't know if I can go down the Captain's road just yet. That might be a little too much at first. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1116 |
Sweet Pea - don't worry about it! I'm working on the very thing right now. I'm aggressive physically but have trouble verbalizing...don't be surprised if the first time you er - make a demand - if your bf doesn't say "what did you say?" and you have to repeat yourself without giggling! Seriously tho' - when you are fooling around and something pops into your brain that you specifically want TELL him. You will love the results and thats been the easiest place for me to start. Or even when you are NOT fooling around as Bmom so wisely suggested. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 28 |
Honey is ok but it is sticky and messy, go to an adult bookstore and get some flavored oils and some toys Bring him home an assortment of stuff, and you can use the toys when he isnt around!!! So that is an added bonus! Also if you are a little timid about going into an adult bookstore, use whip cream or chocolate syrup! Be creative. Just lick him all over girl | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 1694 |
Damn, Captain, didn't think you ever left the "Cat" Board. But then, this is a very close chat board topic ------------------ Lobo | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 430 |
Pea and Sky - I am offering to give up my body for the sake of perfecting your skills. I know this is a tremendous sacrifice on my part, but that is just the kind of guy I am... Really. ------------------ The moral? It doesn't matter whether you are a lion or a gazelle, when the sun comes up - you had better be running. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 430 |
No, really... Seriously. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 489 |
WarLobo: Youll notice Ive restrained myself from speaking on this topic. I hope you appreciate the effort!!! ------------------ |
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posted November 19, 2000 09:02 PM
