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Amateur Bodybuilder 
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Ok..moments ago..my mom starts bitching at me about eating so much. Its funny because she says "when you have a weight problem, then your going to wish you hadnt ate so much." That really pisses me off coming from someone who is 5"4 180 pounds and makes her daily visit to McDonalds and eats 1 time a day then bitches about not having energy or being able to do anything. She sits on the couch all day and doesn't do shit around the house therefore it looks like crap. My dad..well he used to toss me around like a 2$ hooker and manhandle me..not until i got bigger then him he doesnt touch me. My brother..lets see..he used to laugh at me when i first started lifting..beat my ass all the time..stronger then and make fun of me all the time..now its the other way around. I could brake him 500 pieces and beat the shit out of him. He seemed to stop saying shit to me after about a year and half of lifting when i became twice his size..now hes alittle 5"5 115 pound bitch. My sister..well she just bitches about how i eat all her food. Does anyone else get this shit? It just drives me more and makes me work harder because when i reach my goals(225@8%), im going to be the one laughing in there face when they die of a heart attack from the shit they eat. I cook ALL my food, clean my own dishes, etc etc..and its funny how they bring me shit home from fast food every night and try and get me to eat that. Fuck..sorry for the long post..just pissed off now ------------------     | ||
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Moderator 
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Slacker, forgive me for this, but you are only feeding the Tennessee steretotype. Hang in there bro. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 509 |
I THINK YOUR MOM JUST WANTS U TO HOG IT IN HER FOR A WHILE. YOU AND YOUR DAD CAN MAKE A DAISY CHAIN, WHILE YOUR SISTER SHOVES A HOT POCKER IN HER WISTLE, FOR ALL I CARE. GO PISS AND MOAN SOMEWHERE ELSE JUNIOR. UNLESS U HAVE SOMETHING GOOD TO SAY ABOUT ME, DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL! ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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You're lucky you have a house to live in, even if it's not a castle. Most people in the world do not. You're lucky your family includes you when they get "take out", a lot people are starving. You're lucky you have enough food to feed your appetite. Most people in the world do not. Your dad doesn't "manhandle" (I'm sure you mean spanking) you any more because you're growing up and he's treating you like a man. You're lucky you have the type of relationship with your brother that you guys can joke around with each other. You're lucky your parents taught you how to cook and how to clean up after yourself, that will serve you well when you get your own place. Since when is it acceptable to bad mouth your family. Friends come and go. It'll be your family who'll be there when you need them and you can always count on them to look out for your best interests without expecting anything in return. You don't have to brag about your family, but you don't have to bad mouth them. Grow up and count your blessings. [This message has been edited by May1010 (edited December 20, 2000).] | ||
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Moderator
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May would you say the same thing about my family as well?? | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
Johnny- Your situation was a lot different (but I only heard one side of your story too). What this guy is complaining about is ridiculous though.
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Freak 
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Damn May, worry about yourself buddy. Some people always have it worse, and some have it better. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
Frackal, Yeah, I agree with you that some people have it worse and some have it better than some. It sounds to me that you should be telling Slacker this and therefore should feel lucky for the family he has. | ||
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Guru
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May it's obvious that slack lives in a violent home, why are you giving him shit for standing up for himself and trying to better his lot in life. Is a roof over your head really that fucking important when your father is beating the living shit out of you? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 115 |
Don't feel too bad slack3r, I asked my dad for a $7,000 loan, and he hung up on his only son. (later said I don't deserve it) I did a statewide property search on my dad (internet) and found he had 6 million in assets. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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At least you have a family, both my parents passed away when I was 12. Miss them both a lot | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
El dick whip- nevermind, its not worth typing May- No my dad quit spanking me years ago..I can only recall a few times and i was like 6-7, when i got in trouble or something he would just grab me by my hair or throw me around and its been about a year and a half since he even thought about touching me..Hell..i can do anything because he knows he cant do shit to me. And my brother..well we get along better now cause he knows not to piss me off now. The post wasnt about putting them down..it was about THEM putting me down. They ALWAYS find something wrong with whatever I do. I wrestled..my mom would always tell me bullshit about how her friends son got hurt..etc..or how her friends son is in a full body cast because of squatting wrong(dumbass)..every fucking thing I do she has to find something bad about and says I dont need to do it and she always blames weight lifting on my grades and other things. I cant fucking take it anymore. They call me stupid shit and other names and say ill never goto college or become anything in this world. ------------------ | ||
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Slack, Ok I got my Tennessee joke off.....but seriously...it's not a nice situation. May1010 has a nasty habit of trying to tell people "how it is" whe he's just as out of touch with things as the next guy. Why, after all, slacker, should you care about "someone might be worse off"? You're only here to live one life....and what he is telling you is to feel better about yourself because it could always be worse. So you can more or less disregard his comments, unless you want to move to Bangladesh and feel worse. On to your family: Bro - look - see if this makes sense. Maybe this will help. People's outward actions/expressions are simply a mirror to what is inside them. Whenever your parents tell you that you "can't this or can't that, or you won't become this..." they are just expressing their resentment for their own non-achievement in life. They are subconsciously trying to keep you down at their level, because if you "succeed" then they won't know how to relate to you. But they DO know how to relate to failures (themselves) and so they want you to become one.....they won't admit it, but they feel it deep down and so they act in such a way to express it without saying that. The situation is pretty simple: Do you want to go to college and follow your dreams and live your life to its fullest? Or do you want to be dragged down by people who don't know how to rise up? There is no "pretty" answer. it's a tough situation, and it will require toughness on your part to overcome it. | ||
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Guru
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matt just said what i was gonna say, just better... | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
Matt, May I respectfully request that you refrain from telling board members that I'm "out of touch". Slack3r is a 16 year old kid whining about crap. I'd like BikiniMom to weigh in on this.
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Amateur Bodybuilder
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May..no offence but your not the one to be telling me im a whiny little kid. I read your post on "how you got where you are" and yea..your life has been worse then mine, so far. I just wish people had half the balls in real life as they do on the internet. ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
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Slacker, Consider May1010's words also. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
quote: Not only are you whiney, but you're also stupid. I didn't post to that thread! Re-read the thread. ... and this wasn't a posting about who's life was/is worse than someone elses. It was about a snot-nosed ungrateful little punk with a computer who needs to grow up. Don't fuck with me. I'll be your worst nightmare.
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
Guess it was Johnny or someone? I thought it was you but didnt check to make sure. My worst nightmare? Why dont you go tell 5 year old kids that..im scared. Why dont you not post on threads if your only going to make fun of the person? Asshole. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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quote: There's a difference between making fun of someone and telling someone they're out of line. Did you get your feelings hurt? Can you imagine how your parents, brother, and sister would feel if they knew what you wrote about them? You should be proud of your family. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
Can you imagine how much I dont care? Everyday I just come that much closer as to telling them how I feel..not like its going to matter. A week later theyll be back to the same ole normal..assholes. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
Then you don't deserve them. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
Well..obviously you didnt read the post well enough. IM not the one making fun of them all the time and bitching at them. THEY dont deserve me is what you should of responded with. I didn't come on here saying "I TREAT MY FAMILY LIKE SHIT! THEY DO ALL THESE THINGS FOR ME AND IM JUST A BIG DICKHEAD!" Its the other way around smart one. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 115 |
Strong feelings get twisted and some end up "hurting the one they love"
[This message has been edited by ion (edited December 20, 2000).] | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
Wow..your just one small cock lovin bitch May. Im stopping here cause im tired of arguing with you. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
You aren't going anywhere bitch. Get your ass back here! I'm not through with you punk! Come back! Come back! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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YALL COME BACK NOW YA HERE | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
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Slack3r: I know how you feel man. My mom does the same thing to me. I am the only kid left at home and she wants to treat me like a dog. She does take me to the gym and things like that since I do not drive yet. (Will have liscense tomorrow, hopefully). Your family sounds like they have no ambition and it sounds like they dont want to believe in you. My mom is the same way but I don't worry about it because she isn't what I call successful. I have a lot of confidence in myself and I belive I can become whatever I want to be. That sounds cheesy but its true. Try to avoid thier negative comments, do what you can. I've seen your pics I wish I was your size but I will be soon. May1010 normally your posts are good and worth reading but not on this thread. You don't know what the hell you are talking about. [This message has been edited by garza (edited December 20, 2000).] | ||
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Moderator
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Slack, Do what you've gotta do. May....I don't know about you. Maybe you can't handle your d-bol. Maybe you have issues and can't deal with others telling you they don't care about your opinion. control issues? or maybe you're just bored and trying to amuse yourself. | ||
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quote: My experience found this not to be true. I depend on myself. If you don't expect anything from anyone then you won't be disappointed. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
Johnny..I know I might retract this in a couple of years when I head out to college..but seriously..im very independent and take care of myself just fine. I love everyday when the whole house is just me and the animals. I can make my own food, clean the house, and be alone and not bothered constantly. I really dont know whats the problem with May, but hes reversing the whole situation. Thanks garze and matt. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice 
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Hon, everyone's family is a pain in the ass at some time. Sometimes they take turns, sometimes they do it collectively. But the reality is that you can't pick your family. You can leave, suck it up and adapt, ignore it, change for yourself or for them..whatever...but they will be your family regardless of what you do. Some people belittle others because of their own issues, some are ignorant and have no idea how their behaviour and attitude affects others. I certainly will not minimize how wrong it is to be abused-by anyone-but you speak a lot about bitching about food, messy house..while these may be large issues for you, to others, they may seem minor. Some people have no choice to grow up fast due to family circumstances. At your age, battles with parents are not uncommon. Look out and take care of yourself if you think no one else will. | ||
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OK, I've avoided this thread. I honestly didn't even click on it because I assumed from the title that it was about someone saying some really mean things (regardless of how true they may or may not be) about their family. But since May asked me to take a look, I have obliged. Normally I don't get involved in issues like this because I don't believe that my words or opinions will help in any way. But, I'll give it the old college try. Slacker I understand May's anger because honestly when I read your original post I got a little pissed too. Not because I didn't believe that you were accurately depicting your home life, but that you would speak so disrespectfully about them - REGARDLESS of how insensitive or mean they may be towards you and your achievements or goals in life. It sounds as if you are getting caught up in their negativity and instead of crawling out of the hole will continue to perpetuate the hate - NOTHING GOOD CAN EVER COME OF PERPETUATING HATE! I understand your frustration because I had MANY NEGATIVE familial experiences growing up and continue to have them (sadly) to this day, but I choose to try and turn these negative experiences into something useful and positive. Son (I can say that because I am old enough to be your mother.) you have to try and rise above the negativity and evolve into something better. What better way to "show them" than by succeeding?...going to and graduating college is FAR MORE IMPORTANT than 19" arms! (Had to say that as a parent.) It's OK to bitch and moan - WE ALL DO IT! However, honestly - THINK about how it would feel if you did have NO ONE to think about your welfare AT ALL! They may be inept at expressing how they feel for you, but that doesn't excuse speaking of them in such a disrespectful fashion. True May might have been harsh in his critisicms and he DOESN'T live in your house, but from the picture you painted I don't think the way you spoke of your family puts you in a good light either. Now May - you place nice with the young boys here! Retract your claws like a good kitty. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
SMACK! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
WHANK! | ||
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Moderator
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
I do not know..may is trying to play cock smack with me but im not up for that. | ||
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Moderator
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So we've all kissed and made up then? I love it when things work out!  You boys go play nice now! *June Cleaver-like voice* ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
Slack3r,
You got in trouble with BikiniMom. HA HA HA! (Imagine me pointing my finger at you!)
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
Got in trouble? okaay..whatever u say big guy. ------------------ | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1618 |
May1010, you are wrong on this one, and that's that 'cause Frackal said so. BOOM BOOOM!! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 533 |
Frackal, Back off or BikiniMom might just open up a can of whoop ass on you too! POW! May1010 |
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