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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 153 |
Ive been talking to my EX GF (recent breakup) because i want her back. Anyway, she wasnt showing much sign of affection until i ignored her calls, etc. Now, she already called today(unlike her) and said "ill be around all day, call me when you get this, yada yada" Its like when I ignored her, she realizes she wants me or something? Can anyone explain this?    | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 733 |
no actually it's because i am not in town this week. don't worry it'll be back to normal once i'm back. seriously...haven't you figured out that side of women yet? they live off of being pursued and having a challenge. you presented a challenge to her: Get suspension to start calling me again and wanting me. Do yourself a favor and if you want her back, pretend she dropped off the face of the earth and started dating other chicks. she will be back like a fly on shit. ------------------  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 153 |
Once she is back like a "fly on shit", will the cycle repeat itself again? Meaning will these games of ignoring each other continue, or will the ball be in my court? | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 1639 |
shes trying to fuck with you..girls luv to tourcher guys ..its fun for them...maybe she realized that you would try forever and shes like hey maybe i should stop playing games poeace kb | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 626 |
keep ignoring her and she will still want you Im in the same situtation right now, except I have someone new now so I dont want my ex anymore ------------------ | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 2355 |
I'm in the same boat. She says she wants to date but does'nt want anything serious. She calls all the time but rarely wants to see me. It feels like I'm in a long distance relationship. I need to figure out what the hell I'm going to get her for Christmas, something nice or somthing not all that great. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 153 |
Does that mean breaking off all contact? Wouldnt that ruin things completely? After a while, she would probly just give up, so how do you balance the ignore/not ignore thing? | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 767 |
I'm in the same boat as you right now. I talk to the girl...she doesn't wnat to talk to me. I ignore her...she wants me. I think the y don't wnat to sound desparate or don't want to lead you on. That's the impression I'm getting from this girl right now. She won't say "I want you" simply for her pride's sake. She feels like she is better than that and she wants to be treated better than that. So when you you talk to her there is ne perceived threat and she can take a more dominant role. When you take the dominant role and ignore her she gets worried and does something about it...to make sure your still interested in her. Again for her pride. Just my take on it. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 219 |
The entropy within the center of a black hole is less complicated than the mind of a woman There is no explaining it brother ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 153 |
Beezers- thanks for the input. Thaibox- very well said! the question now? Do I call her, or completely ignore her? | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2355 |
I'd try ignoring her. My problem is my girl calls me all the time, just does'nt really want to see me. I'm thinking of employing the technique of keeping the calls short and sweet, like you have other things to do. When you end the call don't tell her you'll call, say something like you'll talk to her later or goodnight(if you happen to be talking to her at night). That way, she can't whine about how you said you'd call her and did'nt. I assume you told her how you feel and would like to have things the way they were, I did. Now the ball is in her court and see what she does with it. Good luck to everyone on here who said they were in the same boat. We will all get through this. lol | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 121 |
I tried explaining this earlier on another post....girls LIKE a challenge...there is nothing worse than a desperate guy...for example, Im driving down the road and pass a car w/a guy in it and he waves and goo goo ga gas, well I dont even look twice b/c that means he's DESPERATE..well then I see a guy who has confidence and KNOWS he looks good and doesnt hardly look my way, well that is the one Im going after..GET IT? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 285 |
Dont even bother playing games. Ignoring her may make her more interested in you for the challange but who needs that shit? Be yourself and you will find someone that likes you well enough for you that they wont play fucking games all the time. What would you normally do? If you wouldnt normally ingore a women, dont start now unless you dont have any respect for her and just want to hit it again. In that case play all the games you can to get some ass. Oh yeah, take some notes. Let me know if you unlock the mysteries of the female mind. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1154 |
DON'T DATE EX-GIRLFRIENDS! There are billions of hot chicks in this world why date an old one. Like the famous quote "girlfriends are like puking at a party, if you puke from drinking don't eat the puke, get a new beer" ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 153 |
Guys, she has been calling me off the hook today, apologizing and everything. She is getting a taste of her own medicine and the power is in my court. WOOO HOOO! | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 601 |
Looks like you got a gamer and youll have to play to stay in the game with her. Heres what you do. do everything less than she does regarding you. What I mean is if she calls you every other day, you call her once a week because she is calling you EOD, so why call her? If she initiates sex once a week, you initiate every two weeks (I know, that tough). If she asks you out around twice a week, you ask her out no more than once a week. You see my point, whatever she brings to the table, you bring half because you dont need her and she will constantly think you have other things going on where she will try to have more of your attention. The minute you get nice and comfortable with her and start coming to her and catering to her and shit like that, she will no longer have the challenge of pursuing you and you will be back to square one. Hope this helps. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 14 |
All chicks want you back after you break up. When they used to have every excuse not to hang out, then they show up at your door step every day. Take a word of advice: STAY AWAY! Get a chick that digs you for you...not one that only wants you when you're broke up. --Your Brother In Iron-- Thor |
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