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Monster

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posted December 12, 2000 02:08 PM

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Aside from family and close friends, would you rather have people respect you or fear you?

Personally, I have always perfered people to fear me first and foremost.
If you respect someone Youll still screw them over if you have to ("I hate to do this to him, but I have no choice").
But someone you FEAR... you may take the screwing over yourself because you know he'll beat the snot out of you!

So good friends and family aside, I dont care what people might think of me, so Id rather have them in perpetual fear that I may crush the life from their weak little bodies, as opposed to having them say "Y'know, he's a hell of a guy!"

Whaddya think? Respect or Fear?

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JohnnyO

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posted December 12, 2000 02:13 PM

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so what does "The Prince" say?


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The Ghost

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posted December 12, 2000 02:14 PM

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Respect definately. When people fear you, they never act true to you. They will decieve you all because they are afraid of the consquences. Also, they will form legions with other people because as an individual they will fear you, but as a group they will not. I don't like the thought of people ganging up on me. I'd rather have respect and not worry about all of that.


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showtime2000

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posted December 12, 2000 02:15 PM

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my concience tells me respect
my ego tells me fear


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kat

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posted December 12, 2000 02:46 PM

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ditto showtime....though I find it damn funny when Im told Im intimidating...LOL


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Bignick12345

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posted December 12, 2000 02:48 PM

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Showtime is right on the money

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madbomber31

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posted December 12, 2000 02:50 PM

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KAT, INTIMIDATING IN THE LOOKS DEPARTMENT I CAN UNDERSTAND... THATS A GUYS WAY OF SAYING, YOUR ATTRACTIVE AND I DONT KNOW IF I AM GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU... IF YOU INTIMIDATE ANYONE ELSE ITS THAT FUCKIN BASEBALL BAT YOU CARRY WITH YOU SO OFTEN.


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kat

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posted December 12, 2000 03:09 PM

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Oh, I never intimidate men...they just laugh at me....its the girls..some of whom are much taller and outweigh me by quite a bit...

Thats the humourous part.


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Future One

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posted December 12, 2000 03:37 PM

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I would have to say a little of both, but not completely one or the other...

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BigTruck

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posted December 12, 2000 03:43 PM

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The two are intertwined --

There are elements of fear in respect...

And respect in fear...

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Rex

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posted December 12, 2000 04:03 PM

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Depends, but the 2 are almost one in the same.
-When I'm playing hockey I want them to fear going 1-1 w/ me. I want them to be afraid of coming across the blue line. But I figure if they're afraid of that then they're showing me respect because they realize I can and will knock the shit out of them on personal demand.

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Pamela

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posted December 12, 2000 04:34 PM

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I like the Respect!

But at work one of the guys told me
that most of the men there was scared of me!!

What's up with that? I'm a small lady about 5'4 and I weigh about 125!!


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The Canadian Oak

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posted December 12, 2000 04:37 PM

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50/50 on this one i would like both
respect for being a good guy and fear for people knowing if they screw me ill break there knees

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madbomber31

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posted December 12, 2000 04:38 PM

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MAYBE THEY THINK YOUR A PSYCHO BITCH...


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el ass-o wipe-o

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posted December 12, 2000 06:42 PM

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i'd rather have respect cause no matter how tuff and bad u think u r, there is always someone close by who can kick your ass like there's no tomorow.
anyone who wants people to fear them is just an ego maniac and easily delt with if need be.
i know plenty off pure maniacs that are great people, who i respect not fear. there the one's if shit goes bad who u look too, not the guys who think there bad asses with something to prove.
once your mind passes the development off an 18 year old boy, getting pissed everynight at the local club, with a bar tighty on and trying to pick fights with everyone looking at u, you'll see what i mean.
just my 2cents.

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JohnnyO

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posted December 12, 2000 06:54 PM

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"Upon this a question arises: whether it be better to be loved than feared or feared than loved? It may be answered that one should wish to be both, but, because it is difficult to unite them in one person, is much safer to be feared than loved, when, of the two, either must be dispensed with. Because this is to be asserted in general of men, that they are ungrateful, fickle, false, cowardly, covetous, and as long as you succeed they are yours entirely; they will offer you their blood, property, life and children, as is said above, when the need is far distant; but when it approaches they turn against you"

THE PRINCE by Nicolo Machiavelli


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Monster

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posted December 12, 2000 10:49 PM

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Ah JohnnyO, once again you read my mind! The Prince is one of the finest works of literature ever! I read it when I was young, and have kept it near me ever since! My friend has it as required reading for his psychology class, its a very deep look into the minds of man, and even though it was written so long ago, its still as accurate as it was then.

Did you ever read Machiavelli's The devil who took a bride? Its a classic! It really puts marriage into perspective

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roidog420

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posted December 12, 2000 11:57 PM

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You macho men have been watching too many Soprano episodes. "I would rather be feared than respected" wooooooooooooooooo!!! Whatever John Notti!


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YAKUZA

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posted December 13, 2000 12:39 AM

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Roidog, you'd be surprised at what there is out there. We live what, 5 miles apart? I work for the real deal, not some sopranos wannabe's. As far as John Gotti, A very good friend of mine in the family (who also lives very close by) is cousins with him. You'd be surprised at who your neighbors may or may not be, or who some of the people on this board might possibly be. I'm sure 99% of them bullshit about who they are, but you just never know. Of course this is not a flame or insult, but just letting you know that you never know who's out there.


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Pamela

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posted December 13, 2000 05:46 AM

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Mad!

You seems like a very unhappy person!!


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WODIN

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posted December 13, 2000 08:20 AM

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I respect that you all fear me! I fear that you all won't respect me though...

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kat

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posted December 13, 2000 08:31 AM

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See now, Yazuka scares me.

Nutin worse than a bad tempered Italian with a big family....


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