Sounds like a typical brainwashed, politically correct automaton to me bro.
I almost think it's our right to crack on fat people, even though we don't know their personal story, when I see some fat piece of shit eating 6000 calories with an xlarge diet at KFC I don't feel bad for them.

There isn't much you can say to help her create a better self image. If you respect her and accept her for who she is you have done your part. She has to come to this realization on her own.

No, its been building up in her for a long time. She just never told me, or bitched me out. She is not interested in anyone else, nor am I. Just take my word for it--this is true love. By the way, we are both 22.

Second, boy aren't you arrogant, you juice, get a little bigger and that water retention goes straight to your head and you instantly start comparisions to people based on body size. You may be bigger, but I have a 9 inch dick and no acne on my back. What do you think the girls like better?

Third, why are you worrying about what to do at this point? She dumped you dude! You should have been thinking what to do a couple of months ago. You are looking for a cure when you should have been practicing prevention.

Now seriously, I think the only thing you can do right now is take some time to think about you, about her, about you and her. What is more important this girl or a better body? One is going to have to be let go or minimized drastically. You want to marry this girl or else you wouldn't have been talking about it this soon. Do you want this girl to marry someone who at least is doing a hobby that requires breaking laws and having a felony possession and use of certain compounds? Do you want her to marry someone who - in her eyes - has already begun to change. She may not feel as though she knows you as well as she thought.

Call her, talk on the phone and just ask to see her at a cafe or coffee shop and do nothing but talk. Tell her that this is where she stands with you, and where you want her to stand, and what you are willing to do get her there. But if you don't already know these answers, you better not go in there and try to wing it.

AS FOR WHO YOU ARE: YOUR "INTO" LIFTING, WITH THAT GOES BODY IMAGE. OF COURSE YOUR GOING TO LOOK AT PEOPLE AND SAY "SHE IS TOO FAT, TOO THIN, NICE TITS, SAGGY ASS, ETC.."
ITS WHO YOU ARE, SHE DOESNT LIKE THAT, THEREFOR SHE DOESNT LIKE WHO YOU ARE...

You have to realize that you guys think FAT as being 5'4 and 130-140lbs, for a girl/woman and really that is not, depending on how the person is built. This is why over 1/2 of the young teens today are all trying to be as skinny as Ally McBeal. That is rediculious!

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Originally posted by MP5:
Do you really want to date a girl who is a fucking head case? Yeah, it is your sole mission in life to build her self-esteem. Fuck it, you are better off now.

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She's not a head case..she's probably just sick of his modest hidden vainity, so much that he makes fun of everyone who doesn't look as good as him.....people like that annoy me as well...sure I like to make fun of a hefer now and again behind there back...just as any good person does...but to do it all teh time...thats just rude

Plus if the guy your with makes you feel "unpretty"...something is not only wrong in her head...but his treatment as well.

lol... <just kidding>

2nd time will help.

I dont make comments like that all the time.

She looks at my improvments, and she gets depressed that she isnt making those improvments, hence she wants to try clen.

She wants me, her friends tell me that, her roomates(whom Im good friends with) tell me that.

I think she needs time to think things over, maybe we can start out as friends again. I can stop what ive been doing and maybe things will be better...