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Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 604 |
Well, I was reading the post on girls who like skinny guys. I don't know if this is gonna get moved to the Chat, but I would rather it stay here so the same people can read it. From my observation, I've been able to see why girls act the way they do. I'm not gonna say that girls are stupid, but I do know that too many of them lack enough intelligence to realize why they act the way they act. A lot of girls like guys who treat them nice. They don't usually care too much about what the guy actually looks like. That's why you will see solid broads with fat ass guys, or skinny guys. These guys talked to these chicks, and were nice to them and stuff, so instinctively they assume this is the guy for them. Now there's girls with more self confidence, usually these girls are smarter. Then there's girls with very little confidence, and these are the ones who are most likely to settle for a sub-standard guy. All girls need to feel loved by a guy, that's just their instinct. The ones who lack self confidence, and intelligence will settle for almost anything, because they feel they can't get any better and something is better than nothing. The smarter ones (very few unfortunately) will be more picky about who they end up with. As far as bodybuilders, I think the problem is that girls are intimidated by the big guys, and for them that's a big thing. They want to feel safe and protected. Usually a bodybuilder will look too intimidating to them, so they prefer a skinny guy who doesn't look intimidating. Personally I think that once you prove to a girl her fears are unjustified, she won't care if you're big or not. ------------------
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Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 689 |
I think chicks like 200-220 with abs. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 84 |
Look, are we talking about being a skinny rail or are we talking about looking like a guy in a Calvin Klein underwear ad. Take a guy like Jean Fraude Van Damit. He is by no means a huge guy, however he does have a great build. In my opinion this is what women love as far as builds go. Assuming you have a great personality and treat women nicely a slim cut physique is in. If you look at most of the BB's in magazines there girlfriends look like Bev Francis. I have seen very few large BB's with model looking women. Bottom line as long as your in shape and treat ladies with respect and your face doesnt look like a slice of pizza, the girls will follow!!!! | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 145 |
Totally disagree! Beutifull girls are with skinny or ugly guys because they have low self esteem!!! I am sorry to be curt but BULLSHIT!!! I will tell you my story to help prove my point! Myself by pretty much everybodies standards am skinny 5'8 165 i am deffinitley a good looking guy but just not brad pritt. I have always been known to be associated(romantically) with very attractive women. I have recieved many compliments. I am not trying to toot my horn or sound conceded becuase i am not. I always treat women with respect(when deserved of course). I believe that women are more attracted to attutude,behaviour etc.. than looks. Men are attracted physically women are stimulated mentally. You show confidence they wonder why??? Now my most recent ex-girlfriend is currently in trinidad on assignment as a swimsuit model, she is not stupid she actually volunteers for United Nations and will be going to Law Scholl next year. She in my eyes and i'm sure by many others was a total package(trust me when she left it was the only time i've been hurt) and she was not with me because my arms or what not. Would you want to be with a women becuase she likes your pec's. How can you build a relationship around that...very thin one at that. Perhaps the "prettier ones are more attracted to the skinny ones since the big ones are more interested in themselves. This is not a flame but a difference in point of view. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 84 |
Thats my point exactly. You dont have to be a BB to attract pretty ladies. I will tell you with certainty that a guy who takes care of himself is very attractive to women. Guys who dont give a shit about there physiques are generally fucking head cases. Why would a women want to be with a guy who is out of shape? What does that say about his personality. I dont give ashit how funny or nice you are if you take 2 guys, both with great characteristics and one looks like John Candy and the other like Marky Mark and a similar body, Who do you think is gonna get the girl. Lets be realistic!!! | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 501 |
Bootyshaker, I totally agree with you. It's all in your attitude. You know, I had a friend awhile back who was involved in an accident where he lost his entire right arm. He was just a "normal" guy, bout 5'8" and 170ish. He wasn't that attractive (of course I don't really judge guys) judging by what normally seems to attract females. Anyway, we were part of a group of friends that hung out on the weekends and did the normal guy things. This guy would simply amaze me. We would go out to a restaurant, or a club or whatever, and of course we would all gawk over what was available at the time. We would all pick one out that we would love to talk to, but none of us had the balls to go up to her and talk to her. Well, this guy would just walk right up to any girl he saw and start talking to them. He had a great personality and despite his handicap, he ALWAYS left with somebody. He always had a girlfriend and always had girls that wanted to be with him. He carried himself with great confidence, not arrogance mind you. There is a huge difference in being confident and being stuck on yourself. So, if this average looking guy with one arm could get that many girls, and they were little hotties, then I have to conclude that it must be something having to do with personality and attitude. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 120 |
I think what we are all agreeing on is that guys think guys are studs when theyre huge,big,and bad but girls just like someone who is "cute". To wit most guys would love to look like a NFL linebacker while most girls will say they think they look gross or too big. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 222 |
So I have been working out all these years for nothing, thanks for blowing my dream (I'm 245 @ 6 feet). I know what you guys mean, do you know how many girls go home alone after a club, it's unreal and they all went there for the same reason guys go there. I'm happy go lucky but I always have a hard time to pick up but one day I was at the mall with 3 of my buddies and for a joke I went up to a girl in a store that was selling makeup, her back as facing me, so I went up to her and I said "do you sell makeup for guys" she looked at me all stunned and she started laughing and she said "no we don't yet" so I started laughing and I said "OK I'll check next week" so I left but while I was leaving my buddies told me she kept looking at me like she was waiting for me to turn around but I didn't, they told me I could have picked her up easily because she looked interested when she kept looking. So it's when you're happy go lucky and don't care (well you know what I mean) that girls get comfortable around you and it's easier to approach them. | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 16 |
Haze, I agree totally with you bro. If guys, myself included would just have the balls to approach girls and talk to them, without the fear of rejection, we would pick up so many more chics. Girls want someone that is going to treat them right, thats the bottom line. Just my opinion. Gorb | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 182 |
generally the women that take care of themselves (women who work out and are athletic, not women who eat a couple of heads of lettuce a day), generally prefer the bigger guys. They put alot of hard work and effort into their physiques, and they appreciate guys who do the same. Skinny, bony brauds will probably go more for the skinny "pretty boy", it's called matching hypothesis in psyche terms. And I have seen alot of BB's with absolutely stunning looking women, maybe not the upper eschelon freaks like coleman, but look at Milo's wife. She'll make you cry at 50 paces. So there's definitely a limit to what women will find attractive. But if you're decently lean, you should be able to pack on a decent amount of mass before you get "too big". My Gf is an ex lightweight division BB who competed in a couple of Miss Ohio's, the best she did was come in third one year, and she can't stand small skinny guys. Hell, at 5'10 and 150, she teaches aerobics and still does some light weights-so she does have some of that old mass retained, she's bigger than alot of my friends and probably stronger than a couple of em. She can walk around with my 240 pnd ass almost with ease. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 737 |
Just lift for you and only you and good things will happen. Nobody should be doing this for the chicks. The confidence I have built from my bodybuilding is what gets me the ladies...not the body itself. You build a body, you build confidence. Ladies love a confident man...period. A mans' sex drive is physical. A womans is emotional. You could be a skinny little fuck, but if you exude self respect the ladies will respect you for that. Same goes for the muscle monsters. I think tthe sport of bodybuilding is pushing size too much these days. But I still beleive in pushing your physique to the limit and then beyond. This will get you rather large but more emphasis can be put on symetry and definition. Chicks like the muscle, but they like the mind more. ------------------ | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 279 |
Bodybuild for yourself, who gives a fuck what girls think, ------------------ "Don't Hate the GAME Hate the FAME" -me | ||
Cool Novice Posts: 33 |
From my personal experience, which will probably be the best here for all comparisons. I have been with my girl now for 1yr and 9mths. I have always been an average to extremly good looking guy(all depends on the girls taste). Now 2yrs ago I had to goto a new school, this is where I met the best looking girl in the school. By far one of the best I have ever seen in person. At the time she was with this so called "all star" wide reciever who supposebly made the canadien football team. So obvesioualy by reading the above statements there not together anymore. And at that time I was skinny as a rail. Prettymuch still am, stared bulk training, now and going on juice in February. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 64 |
Shit bro. i would do this to those skinny lovein girls.....take off my shirt and flex yeah thats right flex the hardcore 217 pounds 5% bodyfat(well i might be at 8% right know but still)and tell them iam 230 pound because thats what everbody thinks and step on them and tell them this.......... P.S. GAME OVER!!!! | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 604 |
I agree that if you are very confident, and approach a girl, 9 times out of 10 she will most likely fall for you. I know one thing, I wouldn't be flexing anything at any girl I'm interested in if I want a chance with her. If it's a bitch that thinks she's too good for me, that's a whole different story... ------------------
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Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 53 |
You are all wrong, women are stupid not to mention they are all pigs. But back to your question, Women like skinny guys because they feel that they can CONTROL them easier than a Muscle head. Those of you who are over 25 who are on the boards, should know exactly what I mean. mk | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 346 |
Women also feel the better looking the guy and the better the body..the more he is going to get approached by other women..and that he's gonna cheat more.. so they feel more comfortable with the skinny guys cause other girls won't want them..at least that's what a few female friends have said I still can't figure women out.. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 88 |
The truth is its not skinny or enormous it's the overall shape of someones body. A lot of you powerlifters have round bodies and just big undefined arms what have you. Where as some guys are built more solid and less bulky and therefore are more attractive. Yeah youre right girls would prefer muscular over a skinny guy but it all depends on how the guy is built im saying. And a girl would go for 6'4 225 over 5'6 245 or whatever that can bench twice as much. She doesnt care. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 104 |
To that skinny guy who's chick is modelling swimwear in Trinidad, you better watch out because she might be getting it up the hoop by some big bodybuilder surfer dude. I'm just kidding Triple H | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 283 |
If you want loads of girls, the only sure fire way I know is to be either the lead guitarist or vocalist in a band, my neighbor is a great guitarist, always been in a band, and has probably been with over 200 women in his life. A couple every weekend he had a gig | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 169 |
Women have differnt tastes and attractions as do we! i mean some guys like fatter women and some like rails. There is no real reason behind it but a lot of the time you cant explain why you feelthat way about someone it just happens. I think women are unpredicable and whatever happens happens. Body and looks are just a plus! thats my 2 cents. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1118 |
the way i figure it, is that when a chik checks me out she's thinking- do i realy wanna be under those 120kg. i mean most girls are just so much smaller than me and it seems like having sex with the everge girl may endanger her life. sory about my spelling- but i think i'm gonna call it a night. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 604 |
HAH HAH bstrong, your post cracked me up!! ------------------
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Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 241 |
I'm by no means a big guy (but working on it). I'm lean with nice definition. Both men and women give me compliments on my physique. You can't make generalizations. It's whatever floats your boat. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 935 |
skinny and fat people both suck | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 53 |
X-mans comment added to my post was right on. I do believe women think the better looking the guy(MASSIVE) the more he might cheat. Also one last thing, women also look at muscleheads and say to them selves "God, he must spend all of his time working on his body, I doubt he would have any time left over for me." That is what a couple of girls have told me. mk | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 241 |
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Be supportive of anyone who's trying to improve upon whatever nature gave them. Try to make people feel good about themselves instead of heaping abuse on them. | ||
Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 315 |
Whatever MAY, Anyone can get big and ripped. It is just the amount of work they put into it. I hat it when people say it's my genes, BULLSHIT. Any Fat or Skinny person can get muscular. They just choose not to put forth a valid effort. People are fooling themselves with being contempt with their bodies, They just need an excuse to not work for it. "Oh I'm fat cause I have bad genes, Meanwhile both my parents are average and not Obese like me."
It's pretty bad when America is the Fattest country in the world per capita. Look at these 12 year olds that are pushing 300lbs. That is just sick. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 241 |
Kool-Aid, You're a fucking idiot.
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Moderator Posts: 2425 |
y'all play nice... we have a 15 year old nephew who's 5'9" and about 250 pounds of fat..he has bigger titties than my sister.. god bless his fat little heart. | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 241 |
He started it! | ||
Amateur Bodybuilder Posts: 222 |
I still say girls are stupid. They don't want a man; they want another girl with a dick. | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 869 |
i think just being nice is the way it should be ,it is in some cases,for my current situation i have been hanging out with this girl lately we are good friends and she compliments me on the improvements ive made in the last year and she trys to make me jealous by telling me about guys she likes,but its cool,and now to get to the point im nice thats why she likes me,i caught her staring at my johnson on one occasion,sorry for the ramble but nice guys win 90% of the time ------------------ http://pub33.ezboard.com/bburnboy check this board out its just gettin started [This message has been edited by The Canadian Oak (edited December 10, 2000).] | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 1389 |
My chick likes 240-250 with abs, she's watching a movie in the other room. Wait I'll ask. . .answers yes. She's hates skinny boys. ------------------ | ||
Elite Bodybuilder Posts: 604 |
HAH HAH HAH!!! Anyone can get big and ripped!!! HAH HAH HAH what a crock of bullshit!!!! Technically yes, everyone can add a good amount of muscle mass, and lose bodyfat, but not by a stretch does that mean they can get "big & ripped". This really does depend on genetics. For example, my genetics want me to be fat, I can put on muscle relatively easy, but it's extremely difficult for me to lose fat, and the only way I can maintain even 8% bodyfat is to watch my diet with a magnifying glass. For others it's extremely easy to lose bodyfat, but they couldn't put a lb of mass if their life depended on it. As all things everything is relative. Also don't forget that even with pharmaceutical help (Anabolics, Fat burners, etc.) some people will not respond to, or very little. like me, I only seem to respond to high androgens, I wish it wasn't that way because I'd like to avoid sides, but as it is with genetics, you can't always have everything right... ------------------
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Pro Bodybuilder Posts: 547 |
The key is combining a lean and muscular body regardless of size.....with a confident demeanor, and a cool sense of humor. This is the unbeatable trio that will be sure to win the girl's heart. Your body is just one part of the equation......you don't have to be huge.....just look good. The rest of the package is what rolls off your tongue. delts ------------------ | ||
Novice Posts: 6 |
bstrong--what makes ya think she's wondering if she wants to be UNDER that 120 kg..Maybe she's thinking how she'd like to ride that 120 KG!! |
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