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Suspension

Amateur Bodybuilder

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Registered: Nov 2000

posted November 15, 2000 10:51 PM

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Hey bro's, due to my AS use, my girl and I are on the rocks. We both love each other. What are some things I can say, or do to make things better between us?
Any bro's with experience please respond.


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LivinLarger

Amateur Bodybuilder

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From:Grand Rapids MI
Registered: Apr 2000

posted November 15, 2000 10:57 PM

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Geeze, thats a tough one, just lost mine cuz of the sauce.
What's important to you, it's up to you to either convince her or loose her, or not do it.


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d1734

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posted November 15, 2000 11:41 PM

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i would tell her to fuck off. if they cant accept it, especially after an explanation, then they aren't worth it. tell the bitch to get lost.


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Beezers

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posted November 16, 2000 12:10 AM

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Bro, just try and educate her. Displace the myths that have been implanted into her head by society. Maybe if she got actively involved, understood what you were doing and had a say in some things, like how much you can spend, gave you your shots, she would feel a little more empowered. If you love each other then talk to each about it. AS use is a big life decision and a personal one at that. This is the lifestyle we choose to live and that is the biggest factor in determining who you are. The lifestyle you choose represents you and you represent the lifestyle. She needs to understand that she isn't just tampering with a subject as limited as AS use. She is tampering with a lifestyle that is as much a part of you as genetics. She is also questioning one of your decisions, that she apearantly does not understand or have any knowledge of why you made that decision. She needs to at least respect that, maybe not understand it, but respect who you are. We learned how to talk for a reason. Use that reasoning ability called comunication to help this girl that you love understand who you are and why you do it.

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Fender

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posted November 16, 2000 12:12 AM

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Tell her you will stop and do it naturally. Then do it anyway and credit creatin for the results.

Her denial will amaze you, even when you gain 20 pounds in 2 months.


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Daeo

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posted November 16, 2000 01:23 AM

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I don't know why but when I hear this I get angry. Does your girlfriend have any reasoning behind her anger towards you about AS. What are her points? Obviously you two share different interests and if I were you I'd start finding a more understanding, compatible girlfriend. Be a man and stand up for yourself. Don't let anyone control you like that.


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