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 what if your girlfriend or boyfriend wanted you to change???
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Freak 
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no, this has nothing to do with me, i am just bored and curious... would you change? what if it was the way you treated that person? not just something physical like hair style or clothing... what if it was the way you treated your significant other? would you do it? or would you think "why the fuck should i?" and if i treat you bad then you should get out on your own.     | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 3990 |
I did once, she told me she missed me and wished she could see me more often. So, I resigned from the Sheriff's dept. (it scared her when I would go on patrol) I gave up body building and everything else that defined me. She fucked me every which way from Sunday. Never change for them. They either like you for who you are or tough. Deal with it or get out. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 436 |
I second chesty. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 443 |
I third chesty. Never give up who you are...ever. I did this...I felt like I sold my soul to the devil. I was miserable and ended up getting very depresed. I want who I was back. Slowly I'm finding it but I don't have a flashlight and it's a pretty dark situation. You are who you are for a reason. You do what you do for a reason. Only you can understand this, maybe not conciously, but you do it for a reason. If the other person in the relashionship dosn't accept you for being YOU, then this is the wrong person to be with. If you do decide to sell your soul and give up your true meaning it will start a never ending battle with yourself. And if you are fighting yourself only one person can loose. ------------------ | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 7 |
Damn I hate that shit!!! This one time my former girlfriend and I were invited to a dinner party at her bosses house, I was wearin' like jeans and a T-shirt,she told me "you can't wear that you better change" I said change? change? I ain't gonna fuckin' change! hope this helps peace, ILLmatic | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 531 |
I agree with the rest! If you change the way you are you loose yourself! Alot of women make this mistake to please a man! I think that's the reason alot of women become bitches! They change, and the longer they are in the relationship the more they | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 829 |
Dont change for a woman,and dont try and change her either. ------------------ | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1564 |
Just be who you are. If they love you they'll stay. The paradox, men marry women who change from the woman they married, men don't want women to change but they do. women marry men hoping to change them into the men they want them to be, men never change! ------------------ |
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posted November 11, 2000 06:27 PM
AACK!!!