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 to do a co-worker or not, that is the question????
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Cool Novice 
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WHATS EVERYONES TAKE ON DOING A CO-WORKER, DO IT OR NOT?     | ||
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Freak 
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Don't dip your pen in the company ink well. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 786 |
The bad thing is that if you do this and it doesn't work out, then you've got to see this person every day that you're at work. The good thing is that if you're interested in this person, it could be the start of a beautiful relationship. ------------------ | ||
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Guru 
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Do it, but live with the consequences of seeing that person every day and being able to handle the gossip involved. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
SHE HAS A MAN AND A KID, NO STRING ATTACHED, SHE JUST WANTS TO DO ME. ANON | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2467 |
Is she married? If so, dont do it, actually dont do it at all, thats disrespectful to the other guy, do unto others as you would like done unto you. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
NO SHES NOT MARRIED, BUT SHE HAS A MAN. I HAVE A LADY TOO, BUT I KNOW I'M NEVER GOING TO MARRY HER, SO I FIGURED WHAT THE FUCK YA KNOW, SHES FINE AS HELL. WELL I'M SUPPOSE TO DO THIS TONIGHT, BUT NOW THAT THE DAY HAS COME, I'M THINKING, SHOULD I?? ANON | ||
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Freak
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Rule one: When having an affair make sure all things are equal. That way you both have just as much to lose. In this case you have the advantage since she has the kid and guy. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 221 |
I think this must be Captain Insano's twin brother.... | ||
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Cool Novice
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NO THIS ISN'T CAPTIAN INSANOS BROTHE, HAHAHA, BUT I DO POST HERE FROM TIME TO TIME, THATS WHY I'M ANONYMOUS, AND I KNOW ALL YOU SICK ASS FUCKER ON HERE HAVE SOME MORE ANSWERES THAN I HAVE HEARD. I DON'T EVEN WANT TO SEE WHAT CAPTIAN INSON WOULD SAY, I GUESS IT WOULD BE USE THE "FLYING CAMEL" AND IF SHE STILL WANTS MORE THEN GIVE HER THE BLOODY WHEEL BARROW OR SOME CRAZY HILARIOUS SHIT LIKE THAT. ANON | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
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Do like Fit1 says, avoid, because when you dump her, you still have to see her everyday. I once worked at place that about 75% of the employees were screwing around with one another and they even had partners/spouses at home. It lead to bitter in house feuds and shit like that. Moral went down the toilet. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
THE THING THATS GOT ME WONDERING IS, HOWS IT GOING TO BE AFTERWARD, I MEAN WHEN WE GO BACK TO WORK, YA KNOW. ANON | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1557 |
ALL CAPS! IS THAT YOU STEEL BEAST!? ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
nope | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 221 |
ITs probably MadBomber because he hasnt given an opinion yet | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
actually your both wrong and noone would ever guess, because i don't post allot. anon | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
no ladies can give their opinion??? anon | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
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I WOULD SAY DONT DO IT. ONCE THE SEX IS OVER WITH AND YOU TWO DONT TALK ANYMORE ALL IT IS WILL BE GRIEF...ZEUS13 | ||
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Freak
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quote: I fully agree...not a good idea, strickly buisness...unless that is your buisness I gues... [This message has been edited by AGENT SHAGWELL (edited November 10, 2000).] | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 25 |
Just do it. Especially if you both understand it is just for the sex. What I want to know is how the whole thing got started and how it progressed to the discussion of sex for the sake of sex. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1695 |
How does it make you feel that I am Phuking your girl and you know nothing about it. I'm just laughing at you, because you don't even know I'm doing your girl. If the bitch does it she should be shot and you need an ass beating for phuking another bro over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | ||
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Cool Novice
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I CAN'T REALLY REMEMBER HOW IT ALL GOT STARTED, AT FIRST IT WAS A JOKE. LIKE I'LL BE HERE WORKING THIS WEEKEND, YOU SHOULD COME BUY, AND WE CAN HAVE SOME FUN. AND WHEN ONE WAS HERE THE OTHER WASN'T, FOR ONE REASON OR ANOTHER. WELL WE TALK ALLOT THROUGH EMAILS, SO NO ONE HAS ANY IDEA WHATS GOING ON, AND EVENTUALLY SHE WANTED ME TO GO OUT WHEN A BUNCH OF PEOPLE WENT OUT AFTER WORK, BUT I DIDN'T WANT TO. LIFTIN WEIGHTS IS MORE IMPORTANT TO ME THAN GETTING DRUNK. WELL AFTER THAT WEEKEND THE NEXT WEEK SHE WAS LIKE MAN I WAS SO DRUNK, I WISH YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN THERE. I WAS LIKE WHY'S THAT, SHE SAID TO FUCK. WELL EVER SINCE THEN ITS ESCALLATED, AND NOW WE HAVE THE PLACE PICKED OUT, AND TONIGHTS THE NIGHT. ANON | ||
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Cool Novice
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Checkmatebloated, thats kinda what i was thinking, i even asked her that yeterday, i was like, if i fuck you i'm a huge asshole, you have a man. so i asked her why she wanted to do this, but she was to she to tell me. she said she would tell me today, i guess after i do her. she said we'll i don't think your an asshole. anon | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 503 |
Don't do it unless her partner is OK with it and your partner is OK with it. No matter how you try to rationalize it, it effects way more than the two involved. You say nobody will find out, but what if they do? What if you're responsible for breaking her family up? For her 'man' leaving town and abandoning her kid... What would your lady say if she found out. How would you like to find out that your lady cheated on you? How would that make you feel? Cheating is despicable behavior. It is the lowest of lows in human behavior. Cheaters rationalize their behavior, but the bottom line is that there is no decent and honorable way to cheat on somebody. You know on some level that it's wrong, why else would you post here AND under an anonymous name? No, I don't think you should do it. There's too many variables (aside from the morality) involved. You're "committed", she's "committed", she has a kid, you two work together. You say it's supposed to be just sex, but women ofter aren't able to live under those conditions once something has happened. What are you going to do if after the deed that she says she loves you and is going to tell everybody what happened. What happens if you discover that you end up feeling more for her than just lust. What happens, if, OOOPS, she get's pregnant? It's not so far outside the realm of possibility you know... If you don't want to be in your current relationship, get out of it and then pursue other single people. Don't try to kid yourself and say it's just sex. It's a hell of a lot more than that. You could potentially ruin a few INNOCENT people's lives and destroy yourself and her in the process. Don't be a piece of shit. Be a man that thinks clearly. Not just a cock that can't control himself. Don't fuck around. Be a better person. I've lived through the pain of being cheated on and I wouldn't wish it on anybody. If you do this, you're just being a selfish and greedy prick. And I think you're better than that -- othewise you wouldn't be here right? If you want to talk privately, e-mail me. Don't make your life more complicated, trust me bro it's REALLY not worth a piece of meaningless tail to nut on. | ||
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Cool Novice
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i hear you big truck, i new i had a good post coming from you, as i have seen your recent troubles. the only reason i consider doing it is because i feel she must not be happy with what she has, and if not with me most likely someone else. i know i'm not marrying my girl, i know thats kinda dumb shit, but i guess i shouldn't have a girl if i feel like that towward her. anyone else have a suggestion? anon (oh and i'm anon, because my girl knows i post on here, so why use my own handle) | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 503 |
It doesn't matter if she's happy or if she would do it with somebody else. Neither of those things magically excuses the behavior or makes it right. Neither of those things truly effect you. Those are rationalizations -- and not very good ones -- to excuse your behavior. It still doesn't answer any of the what if's either... Usually affairs DO come out. You willing to risk that? You willing to tell your girl and explain that you violated her trust because this chick was going to screw somebody and it might as well be you... You willing to effect her 'man' and her child that way? And it DOES CAUSE DAMAGE... Think you'll feel good about yourself. Is it something you'd want to tell your mom about, would it make you proud to act that way? There's nothing glamourous or exciting about it, no matter how acceptable hollywood has made it. Once the initial excitement wears off, you're going to really regret it if you have an ounce of character in you. Good luck. | ||
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Cool Novice
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THANKS FOR THE ADVICE BIG TRUCK, IT WAS GREAT. ANYONE ELSE??? ANON | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2085 |
I don't know about this. Doesn't sound like you care if you lose your current relationship. Are you willing to take on another mans anger if and when he finds out? What will you do if she likes it and want to keep it going? Are you willing to take her and her kid on if the other guy leaves them? Do you realy think this will be a one time shot? Is she really that hot - or are you getting played into the flirt? Were do you want this go? And does it match up with your other goals? Shit man this is the oldest catch22 in the world. Can I have my pussy and all the other without causing myself trouble. Answer is NO! Sorry man. Ask he for a head job - Billy Clinton rewrote the rule book, thats not sexual interourse. HAHAHHHH | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
i can't belive none of you ladies have an opinion? especially shagwell. anon | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 70 |
Maybe you should ask Dlady's advice on this one. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 15 |
haha, i know what she would say, "do her on your lunch break". hahahah anon | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 211 |
A bit of advice...Never get you meat where you get your bread  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 169 |
Here's a woman's opinion: Keep your damned dick in your pants until you get home!! | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1130 |
I like to fuck co-workers in the boardroom. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 14 |
It sounds like you are looking for someone to talk you out of it? Don't do it. Cheating is totally ridiculous. If you don't want to be with your girlfriend or don't respect her you need to tell her that. Even if it is only sex, word gets around. You don't want that reputation. It will come back to bite you at the most unexpected time. Don't make life more difficult than it already is. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 154 |
DON'T BE A PIECE OF SHIT!!!!! I hate cheaters, dump your girl, have her dump her man and THEN fuck the hell outa her! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 79 |
The only solution is the "Cyrano de Bergerac" method. Posing as Anonymous I show up at the hotel and screw her. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 144 |
I had a gal at a job I worked for a while. She wanted BAD, BAD, BAD... I wish I had done it now. She was married to a guy in a wheel chair and his equipment could not work, not ever. This is why I should have done it. She was pretty hot too. Oh well, if I ever have the chance again, I will have to weigh the issue and the consequences before I do it. |
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posted November 10, 2000 01:22 PM
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