My BF works with a guy who is gay...the gay guy is under 21, is a virgin, but has told my BF he's gay. This in itself does not bother me..in fact, when I realized this guy had a crush on my BF I found it highly amusing.
Now my BF is "straight", but "experimented" when he was young and unsure. This also does not bother me.

What DOES bother me, is that I found out this guy HATES women. I mean HATE might not even be a strong enough word.
THAT bothers me.

Now, I havent known many homosexuals, but I always assumed that they just didnt like women sexually. (I mean, hey, I can't blame them ) I mean, I dont want to have sex with women, and as a species Im not overly fond of them, but I don't HATE them.

Usually in the clubs I frequent there are a certain percentage of girls, either lesbians or straight girls coming with friends.

The only place I saw misogyny rampant is in the leather / sm circles, and as a young guy chances are he's not into that.