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 love and life
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 49 |
I am wondering what some of you have to say about the following. I am dating a girl for the past 7 months and I love her but I do not think about her all the time and am not obsessed with her. I know that she wants to marry me but I am not sure that she would be the one. I catch myself wanting to date other girls. The girl I am dating is great but I just do not seem overly excited. She is older and well should I just carry on and see where this is going or what. I am 23 and she is 26. Just wanted some input.     | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1238 |
First of all... I like your handle, it's funny. Second thing you have to consider whether or not you are the type of guy who wants to get married and do the 2.5 kids, dog, house, thing. ------------------ | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 2231 |
Speaking from my personal experience I would move on for the simple fact that the person for you will give you no reason to doubt, doubt wont be involved, you wont be questioning yourself or have to post a quesion like this, you will know in your heart, soul and mind when that person enters your life. Let her go gently. ------------------ "SHINE SO VIBRANTLY THAT YOU MUST SQUINT TO CATCH A GLIMPSE" | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 39 |
if you already know shes not the one, then she definately isnt. Dont encourage her "nesting" tendencies. you're too damn young to be settling down anyway. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 288 |
well, the fact that you see yourself with other women and that you arent sure if shes the one..i would say move on and when you find the one you will know it...zeus | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1040 |
I'm in the same boat Driveby with my current GF of 4 months, I'm in the process of trying to break up with her now. Let me know if you come up with any ideas. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 534 |
When you are dating you always think there is plenty of ass just waiting for you, truth is when you are single it seems to disappear. When it rains it pours. At 7 months you should not be worrying about marriage yet, ride it out and see what happens. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1095 |
Romantic love...its like a drug that fades (and it always does) so we think something is wrong with the other person. Ain't love grand?? Time to look for a more meaningful connection. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 49 |
Thank you all for the advice. I think that I will do a combination of them all. I will ride it out. I am not looking for marriage at this point in my life. I totally agree with MP5 because when I think girls like meit is the very time that I have someone, but when I am single then I do not get anything. I admitt I do not want to be lonely again and I do love this girl. I think that I will wait and see how things develop at least for awhile. I have been avoiding conversations about marriage just to let her know that she will not persuade me. I will marry the one that God wants for me so I can have a happy life and look forward to coming home. I do not want to be one of those miserable married couples who fuss and fight about everything and cannot get along. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 659 |
kat said it best. Believe me, it won't be long before she figures you out anyhow. Thick Dawg, you should just go ahead and leave that girl. You know you are intensifying the pain she is going through by sticking around. |
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