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 Do you think long distant relationships work?
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Elite Bodybuilder 
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Long distance, I mean like about a 2-3 hour drive from your home. Reason I'm asking is because I just met this girl and she is about 2hrs. away, but we are crazy about each other. I hope like hell this one works out because I have not felt like this in a long time. Anybody else have a long distance romance that blossomed? Unfortunately, our days off are different too, but we have keys to each other's places and can hang out while one of us is at work. I told her the distance is an obstacle for us that we will kinda have to struggle against, but that struggle will make us stronger as a couple in the long run. Well, people, any comments will be appreciated, and I would like to forward your comments to her. Thanks bros and sistas.     | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 140 |
Yeah, they work, but not for me. However, my sister is getting married to a guy who she met and dated while she was in conn., and he was in Chicago, so...Good luck. | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 23 |
They work for a while until the trust issue is threatened. Then the cheating will begin, and continue. Get a lot of sex from one another, and stay on good terms. That way when one of you is in town near the other, you both will always be able to get a piece. Good Luck, though! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 278 |
AS LONG AS YOU TRUST EACH OTHER SHE COULD LIVE HALF WAY AROUND THE WORLD AND YOU COULD MAKE IT WORK. BEING ONLY A FEW HOURS AWAY, I WOULD SAY U HAVE A PRETTY GOOD CHANCE...ZEUS | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1380 |
I POSTED THIS A WHILE BACK AND IT WAS AN ASTOUNDING NO!!! BUT, MINE WOULD HAVE BEEN SEVERAL STATES AWAY. REGARDLESS I WASNT WILLING TO TAKE THE RISK SO I STAYED PUT. IT CANT WORK IF YOU DONT BOTHER TRYING... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 769 |
well, I went to Texas Tech my freshman year, and I had a fried who had been dating a girl in Austin for about a year, basically, they would take turns driving 7 hours every weekend. Well, its a year later and they are engaged, so yes they work, but you have to be up to driving alot. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1210 |
Only if you have a really long pecker. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 649 |
Yep they do. My girl was in London for a while before she came home, so over a year after meeting her, we would email, IM, talk on the phone and fly to see one another. Been six years, living together for 4 now. It works, but it is not the distance as much as it is the people and their chemistry. Jae | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 69 |
Bro, Im living the ultimate long distance relationship. Im working in Saudi Arabia and she lives in Ft Lauderdale FL. Ive been here 2 years and we have been together for 3. its alot of hard work, but we spend hours a day instant messaging on AOL and talk on the phone twice a month. i go home for 30 days each year and she and i meet one other time each year...met in Austrailia last year and in Paris this year. Things couldnt be better! I only have 42 days left in this HOT ASS country provided some terrorist doesnt bomb the shit out of me!!! we are getting married june 23, 2001....so yes...they can work out if your commited...i agree with everyone else though...YOU GOT TO HAVE TRUST!!!!! thats the key! good luck | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1218 |
No it won't work. Someone will cheat. You'll put in too much effort and get shit on in the end. End of story. | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 2716 |
Not usually they don't if its long term. Unless you able to function with both partners cheating on one another, and worse than that flirting with everything that dont smell bad. Easiest girl to pick up is one whos man/hubby is away or in the service. They crave attention AND sex. Give them both, and it usually isnt hard to crack. Im being realistic. Slopain | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 12 |
I been in a long distance relationship for well over two years now. I'm 20 and my girl is 18. We were together off and on for about two years and then we finally decided to take it to the next level. Unfortunately I been away from her for the last 2 and some change. Its been hard but we can't give each other up. Trust and honesty is the most important issues, along with communication. If you both want it bad enough it will work. I wish I was a few hours drive away. Shit, I went from being on the other side of the country to being on the other side of the world. Shits still hard but we'll make it. You never know what good might come out of this, and if you don't give it a try you'll always wonder. Sorry for the long post and good luck!!! ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 526 |
Been there, done that. It works better if the relationship is already established. Hard trying to build one long distance. BUT... remember every chick gets lonely and needs a man around to give her attention. Here is what usually happens: You are out of town, she and some friends are going out, they all have their men, your girl is alone. Next time one of her friends man decides to bring a friend and all 4 of them go out and have fun. Then you get the call of how confused she is, end of story. Good luck [This message has been edited by MP5 (edited October 25, 2000).] | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 5297 |
Fuck bro 2hrs away would be excellent!!! I'd love to have that, hell you can drive down and visit for a day anytime you like, the long distance relationship i had was 7000km away, that's not fun bro!!! 2 hours is nothing. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 331 |
2 to 3 hours is really nothing to worry about. My boyfriend is a good 24 hour drive away. That's 1100 miles. Hell, he was just in South America for a month and a half. I haven't seen him in over 6 months but we're doing ok. We still love eachother just as much, if not more. It just makes the times we do get to see eachother that much more special. You'll be alright! ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 526 |
Sailor girl, heard there are a lot of hot women in S. America! Just kidding... | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 4 |
I had a long distance relationship that was about 1200 miles. I met her by writing her a letter after I saw a picture. She was and still is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. We have been married for over 10 years now and it has gotten better everyday I have known her. Long distance relationships can work, if it fails then it was not the right one. If it works it may be the happiness your life will revolve around. GO FOR IT AND GOOD LUCK | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1380 |
WHOA... SAILOR GIRL??? ARENT YOU THE ONE ALWAYS GETTING LAID? I THOUGHT YOU WERE THE 17 YEAR OLD FUCK TOY FOR YOUR AREA... IF SO, THEN YOUR LONG DISTANCE SHIT ISNT WORKING..' IF I HAVE YOU CONFUSED, THEN .... MY BAD. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 331 |
Um......no. I've been with him for over 10 months and he's the only one I've been with in that time. I talk about sex, but trust me, I ain't gettin none. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1417 |
E2 you are going to have to translate the km for us dumb americans. hehehehe! It takes work and I was not willing to give it that much work. |
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