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Cool Novice 
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Ok, i work as a bouncer at a local night club, and last saturday night i met this incredible girl. I've seen her quite a few times this week, i believe she's a very "good" girl, not i tramp i mean. I stayed there last night(fully clothed). I haven't really dated anyone in a long time that i really wanted to be with, but i really want to be with this girl. Something about her just makes me want to do anything for her. I put shelves up in her apartment the other day, and i just enjoyed doing it for her(whooped already huh) Anyways, i just don't know how i should go about this, do think i should try and lay the sweetness on her and sweat her heavy, should i like not call her everyday, should i call her everyday? I don't want to scare this girl away in anyway. So what do you girls suggest i do? Thanks     | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 1175 |
Play it cool...dont call her everyday..but call..its ok to sweat her..but dont let her know your sweating her.. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 274 |
I KNOW YOU ARE ASKING FOR A CHICKS ADVICE HERE, BUT IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE GIRL AND WHAT SHE WANTS...THERE IS NO SURE FIRE ANSWER. JUST LET HER KNOW YOU LIKE HER, AND DON'T GET CAUGHT KISSING OR FLIRTING HEAVILY WITH OTHER BABES AT THE BAR... HER OR HER FRIENDS MIGHT BE WATCHING. DAMN BRO, IF YOU WERE AT HER HOUSE ALREADY.... YOU ARE A SHOE IN. JUST CLOSE THE DEAL.... ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 347 |
Dont fuck around, or play games, or try to plan things out. It wont work! Just wait till a quiet moment, and speak your heart. Tell her how you feel, and even tell her how you didnt know how to go about saying this to her. Tell her what you told us about something about her wanting to make you do anything for her... dont b.s. her about how fine she is or anything like that, it makes you sound insincere at this point. Say something like "Y'know, Ive been trying to figure out how to say this, but I dont even know where to begin. So I'll just say it and face the consequences. You know I think youre great, and I love being around you. Something about you makes me want to just do ANYTHING for you. I didnt want to say this, because Im afraid that I might scare you off. But Im just asking if you think youd give me a chance to get to know you better? Just dinner or something, so we can talk and relax and get to know each other... if you dont want to, I understand but I know I wouldnt be happy till I asked." Thats all you need. But be careful, thats patented Monster Game, and it can be hazardous to the untrained! But Im in a good mood, so I thought Id let a little bit out... its against my basic beliefs, because the game is to be sold, not told. But I finally found the woman who can tame me, so I need to pass it on to the next generation before it fades away... ------------------ [This message has been edited by Monster (edited October 07, 2000).] [This message has been edited by Monster (edited October 07, 2000).] | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 274 |
DUDE... MOSNTER IS RIGHT. I USED TO WORK AT A BAR. I MET A GIRL THAT WAS A DREAM....WELL... THERE WERE A LOT OF EM. BUT THIS ONE I AM TALKING ABOUT I REALLY LIKED....REALLY REALLY LIKED WITH MY HEART AND MIND... AND ANACONDA. ANYWAY, SHE SEEMED LIKE SHE WANTED TO GET SERIOUS, THEN SHE UP AND TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS NOT LOOKING FOR ANYTHING SERIOUS...I SORT OF STUTTERED... WAS DISAPPOINTED BUT WOULD TAKE ANY COMPANY FROM HER I COULD GET HOPING IT COULD GROW, SO I TOLD HER SHE HAD ME ALL WRONG AND I DIDN'T WANT ANYTHING SERIOUS EITHER. I NEVER SAW HER AGAIN, IT TURNS OUT IT WAS A TEST (FOUND OUT FROM HER FRIEND) AND SHE WAS WORRIED I WAS A PLAYER CUZ I WORKED AT THE BAR, SO SHE WANTED TO SEE WHAT I WOULD SAY. WELL, IT SUCKS THAT SHE DID THAT, BUT SHE WAS TRYING TO PROTECT HERSELF SO I DO NOT BLAME HER...I STIL WOULD LIKE TO HAVE SOMEONE WITH AS MUCH CLASS AS HER.... SHE REALLY WAS A LOSS. BUT DAMN.... SPEAK THE TRUTH......HEY, AND IF YOU READ THIS ZOE..... I STILL WANT YOU..... I BET SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN A HELLCAT IN THE SACK TOO! ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 40 |
Thats what im afraid of, the "i don't want anything serious" statement. Not meaning i want something serious right now, but i just like the thought that something serious might grow between us if you know what i mean. Guys, i just wish you could meet this girl, she's incredible. Anyways, i don't know if i'll see her tonight, but she's supposed to go with me to a bar tomorrow night. I may try some monster game on her!! This is just so damn hard, i mean i have incredible game when i comes to getting a girl in bed or getting her to come home with me, but it's just been so long and im so used to two or three day relationships. Well thanks for the above help and any more replies, you guys are the best | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 166 |
See my post: "What You Can Do When The Women Break Your Heart". Ill bump it for you. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 347 |
Thats why Im telling you what to say. Dont tell her you dont want anything serious, and dont tell her you do! How the fuck DO you know what you want from her yet? You dont! Women are more sensible than men, she'll understand that, so dont insult her intelligance. Be real and see where it goes. Ive met loads of pretty girls and when I got to know them, they were VERY ugly people inside. So just tell her you want a chance to get to know her... take it from there... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 108 |
holy shit, MONSTER -IS- a MONSTER, you're HUUUUUUGE (6 Us) ... wow, what were we talking about? oh the bouncer guy... screw that, it doesn't matter MONSTER IS HUUUUUUGE. ------------------ "how much can you really know about yourself if you've never been in a fight?" Tyler Durden | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 794 |
Yet more of our breathern bite the bullit and fall ill fatedly for the wiles and scent of the cochita! Just pray that it lacks GOLD DUST when you reach the promised land! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 347 |
Wodin: I was about to make a smart-alecky comment, then I remembered, I have NO room to talk...  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 155 |
I AGREE WITH MONSTER. JUST GET TO KNOW HER BEFORE YOU GO POURING YOUR HEART OUT TO HER. TAKE HER OUT. IF YOU FEEL LIKE CALLING HER THEN CALL HER. BUT YOU SHOULD REALLY GET TO KNOW HER BEFORE YOU DECIDE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER. AND IF YOU REALLY DO CARE FOR HER DONT LET YOUR PECKER DO THE DRIVING(YET)!! ------------------ "PAIN IS TEMPORARY, PRIDE LASTS FOREVER" | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 867 |
Brotha - all that have given advice b4 me have been right on. No girl who has half a brain in her head is gonna want ANYONE calling EVERDAY. I would think, "Man this guy was sweet, but her must be a fucking psycopath or insanely jealous or a wierdo or something like that." Just be real. Develop a friendship, because after the dust settles, and the lust has faded you either like each other or you don't. TRUST ME. If you just want to tap that, then by all means wear a raincoat and be done with it. HOWEVER, if you think you might want a relationship, then develop a FRIENDSHIP FIRST. How cool would it be to actually END UP WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND? ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 794 |
Yeah monster U are now amongst the fallen, U have been wraped in the essence of the cochita and are lost to the alpha pissing contest for all time! Lets all bow our heads for our fallen breathern! |
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