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 Whats your defenition of TRUE LOVE?
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Freak 
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First I am accepting serious and ridiculous(TD, Special Bill)answers. Now I am not talking about love, I am talking about TRUE LOVE, there is a difference. In my opinion TRUE LOVE is an unbreakable bond where one is so into another that they dont lust one iota for someone else, that through no matter what they will exist together until there time is up, this means no cheating, lusting(already mentioned), no negativity or doubts about each other, no jealousy, no agreeing on we can see others but still be together or bang others. With this criteria and defenition TRUE LOVE to me is actually a miracle because the ones who fall into the category of TRUE LOVE have defenitely beat the odds and are an extreme minority. Regular Love is different, hell if I had a penny for every naive women who said they love me I would be living on my own island in the South Pacific with 20 acres of perfect soil with 20 different strains of marijuana. Love isnt shit, it is misused and too common now a days. TRUE LOVE is where its at, nothing can compare, its a miracle if you actually find it, remember if your married for 20 years and then divorce that isnt TRUE LOVE, if you met that certain someone and had a great weekend or fling that just swept you off your feet and you cant stop thinking about it and you know if you just could be with that person etc etc that isnt TRUE LOVE, TRUE LOVE has no boundaries, it is unstoppable,infinite and eternal, I say around 10-15% of the population have ever experienced it if that, again TRUE LOVE is a miracle in my opinion, if you find it your a blessed individual. Peace. ------------------     | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 408 |
Havoc - gosh man, you made me cry. No really, I hope you don't mind, but I had to print off what you wrote. That's so sweet but so true. I can't even add anything to it!  ------------------ | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1545 |
I think the best way True Love is described is in that movie "What Dreams May Come" with Robin Williams. I don't think any of us really know that it is true love until we reach heaven and there we are with the same person and then they are our soul mate, one true love. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 304 |
True love.....Princess Bride? I think the problem today, is people want true love sooo bad, they mistake become obssessed with a person not because of the person but because they want "true love".. I just want someone who make me smile 24-7 whereever I am  | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1754 |
Good answer Shagwell, Princess Bride is a great example of what I speak of, it defenitely relates to my defenition. Great Movie as well. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 917 |
I want True love. | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 570 |
Forget true love. Just listen to lots of Nine Inch Nails ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 15 |
I must say that was one fine definition. Great job. Along the same lines. Soul Mates, is there such a thing? Or can a variety of people fullfill you in different ways. Each brings something that completes you. ps, I am a former believer of soulmates. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 304 |
Havoc......"Stop that rhyming now I mean it...anybody want a peanut".....its INCONCEVIABLE baby | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 152 |
I think we experience "True love" in a different experience. It happens later when we complete our work in this dimension. Look around, 50% divorce rate here in america alone. This is only the human experience, we will experience alot more than that in the future. | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1754 |
SHAGWELL- "you keep using that word, I dont think it means what you think it means" ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 406 |
the "true love" you describe would be impossible to attain while still being human. we have millions of years of evolutionary principles inscribed into our dna. lust and jealousy are two of them. monogamy is not. while it would be nice in theory to attain such a love, in reality it is an impossibility. period. if a human could cease to feel sexual attraction for others and not experience jealousy or negative thoughts or doubts about his/her partner, then that person would have a pathological condition. "deep love" perhaps, but "true love" - na,ah. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 304 |
hey havoc....."you killed my father...prepare to die" | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 768 |
I know there is such a thing as true love and soul mates. But its something that you can never describe no matter how much you tried. I do think a prerequisite is that you have to be in love and be best friends. Still though, there are no words that have been invented to describe the feeling of true love or soul mates. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 128 |
HAVOC YOU HIT IT ON THE HEAD BRO.... TRUE LOVE ..WHEN THAT SPECIAL PERSON IS NOT AROUND AND YOU FEEL LIKE YOU CANT BREATH.. PEACE KB ------------------ "modus operandi" "hesitation is the mother of all regret" | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2687 |
True love is something that not only gives you that queezy feeling inside everytime you think about the person, but you also get that sick feeling inside of losing them to someone else or if they were to die or disappear. I don't think it can really be explained in any words, other that to say you just know it. I believe we all have a soulmate, that one being who is for us for all enternity. I believe I have met that person, I don't know why but I felt, no I knew I had know her in the past and know that in a future life we will meet again. Who knows, I may be talking to her already. It will cause you to sacrifice all for it, you will always have that person on your thoughts, day after day, night after night, you feel as though your whole existence is just to make them happy and be there for them. Like I said though, no words can really describe it. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 238 |
decibel i'm sure diana of dallas could have shown you the meaning of true love had you not stood her up. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 406 |
yeah, i need to pay her a visit - he, he. i'm sure she has LOTS of things to show me about love! i want to buy one of her videos first, though. i want to see her in action first, that way when i meet her it'll be much more "meaningful". | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 64 |
True love = Swallowing | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 406 |
no it doesn't. true love = pissing all over you while calling you a dirty bitch. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1015 |
havoc - do you think true love as you defined it exists? I've yet to see it. Or experience it. We are all just too damn human. But even as I say that I have this sense of wishful thinking in my heart that it DOES exist. What do you think? ------------------ | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1754 |
Skydancer- I think it does for a few folks like I could probably count them on my fingers type few. It is wishful thinking though, I wish a woman could have that hold and grasp on me but no one yet comes close. Shagwell- "Hello Lady" ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1015 |
I hear you havoc...I'd be stunned and amazed if it ever happened to me...I'm very loyal to whoever I'm with but have yet to feel like I'm in a blissful relationship. Not to say I don't "love", I just haven't met anyone that I don't think I could live without. Don't forget the ROUS's.... ------------------ | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 791 |
"True Love"....what is it? Everyone seems to want it, yet no one can really give a clear definition. Yes, there are many romantic notions conjured up in people's minds, some may have even lived these "fantasy-like" moments. As for me, I don't spend much time thinking about it. Perhaps I am too cynical, perhaps my heart has been irrepairably broken, perhaps I just don't get "it". I just want to spend my life with someone who likes me just the way I am. Someone who will be my friend no matter what my situation in life - physical, mental or emotional. Someone who wants to call me FIRST whether they have wonerful news or one of life's great tragedies has befallen them and they need ME to console them as only I can. Someone who will not hesitate to knock me back down to planet earth when I NEED IT MOST. Someone who would be my personal cheering section even when the entire rest of the world is laughing and doubting and nay-saying. I'm not asking for "true love" - just eternal friendship and loyalty. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 917 |
Havoc - Have you found "True Love" ??? | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 414 |
I agree with Bikinimom, that's the closest to a happy marriage any one of us can hope to get. I think "true love" is one concept, and applies to anyone you can say you care about, not necessarily the opposite gender. I am NOT talking about homosexuallity either. I am talking about friendship. If my best friend needed me to save his life by risking mine, I would do it. The same applies to a female love, except that with a female, true love (or deep friendship) comes with a sexual attraction as well. You have to learn how to separate the two. Every marriage (or relationship) will run out of that passion that was there (those are just hormones stimulating emotional states in us) but if you and your partner bonded in deep friendship, then you can expect a happy life. Which is why when you truly care about someone you will not give a rat's ass what they look like. Of course, for sexual attraction, it does matter what you look like, so I'm not saying we shouldn't do our best to become fit. It takes a while to form a bond with someone, be it a friend, or your spouse, but once it's there, it's almost unbreakable. This is what's missing out of most marriages/relationships. The two parties are only looking out for their best interests, and when they can't get what they want, they break apart. It's ok to look out for your best interests, but don't ignore the other person. If the other person thinks the same way, boom, you have a happy marriage, a happy bond. Man my head hurts... BTW- Why am I always !@%#$%$ last to post to these! dang it! DANG IT! ------------------ "Don't eat me! eat Dredd! he works out!" - From Judge Dredd. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 43 |
Short and simple - it can also be outside a relationship. Its when you care for someone so much you would give your life for them without a thought. I realized one day (before we were married -dated 12years first)that my wife placed me first in everything and I know she would give her life for me. Its a scary thing and will change your outlook on life forever. [This message has been edited by Cleaner (edited September 28, 2000).] | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1754 |
Slickassbiatch, I havent come close but to me it would be the ultimate accomplishment and blessing. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 20 |
I think TRUE LOVE is a myth. How else can you justify that it has not yet happened to you? I have to see/feel it to believe it. It is just about in our reach yet seems unobtainable. SEEKING, SEEKING, SEEKING!!!!! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 64 |
True love for me is simple: Loving someone else more than you love yourself. |
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