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 Clubbing sucks: How many had this happen to you?
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Elite Bodybuilder 
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Met this real nice lady last night at the club. We really clicked. I asked her if she would like to go out sometime and she said "sure" enthusiasticaaly so we exchange phone#s. As we leave we're out there making out next to her truck so I thought I had this one in the bag, no need to rush things. Today I give her a call and ask if she would like to get together Tuesday and she said it wouldn't be right because she has a boyfriend! Someone explain this shit to me cuz I sure can't figure it out.     | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 939 |
This has just not been my day. First thing this morning bit by a dog and now this. FTW!!  | ||
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Guru 
Posts: 2640 |
She's a user, you don't want that. It is like fishing, you catch some keepers and the rest you throw back. It happens. Hey at least you got to make out, all I got to do is go to bed. No place in Everett, WA to do anything. chesty | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 939 |
What was she using me for? If she really wanted to get some use out of me wouldn't she just free willie? | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2640 |
Here is a sort of long answer. My ex-girlfriend told me that during her first marriage she wanted a divorce because he came and took a piss standing up while she was putting on makeup (6 months after being married and 2 years of living together) So she knew he wouldn't give it to her (Catholic) so she went and seduced her boss into having an affair with him and she dropped all the hints so her husband would find out and give her the divorce. Now it gets better, She had been living with her fiancee' (2nd marriage to be) when she decided to go out one night and he decided to stay home. While she was at the sports bar with her friends she saw one of the softball players on her team, so she walked over to him and asked if she could borrow his lips, well this was just a few weeks before her second wedding. She then moved out and tried to move in with this guy who convinced her that they had to be married (catholic as well). In short I think woman play games alot more than men, they have a saying at least she did, you get rid of one man by getting another. So, maybe that is what she was thinking and chickened out the next day. chesty | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 939 |
I see. Bitches do that. They always complain, "oh, they never call when they say they will." Well, the reason they never call is because women don't know what they want from one day to the next. | ||
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Guru
Posts: 2640 |
How true, they say I'll call you back in bit, shit, by the time you figure out they ain't gonna call back they're already going after some other dude. They just ain't got the balls (sorry ladies) to just tell you to your face, so they play these games and make us look like fools. chesty Now, that is not all women and certainly men do play that game as well. | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 1753 |
Hey I didnt read any of the previous answers but I will sum this whole thing up for you in an instant, ready: Dont worry about it and take the I dont give a fuck route to this situation. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 340 |
YEAH.. THAT SUCK BRO.... I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. AS A HOBBY I USED TO BOUNCE AT A PRETTY MEAN CLUB DOWNTOWN TO WORK OFF AGGRESSION AND HELP PAY FOR MY SUPPLEMENTS. SOME CHICKS WOULD GO PRETTY FAR IN THE CLUB.... IT SEEMS I WAS JUST THERE FOR THERE AMUSEMENT. LITTLE HOOCHES... JUST GOTTA CHANGE YOUR POINT OF VIEW. TAKE WHAT THEY GIVE, HAVE FUN AND LEAVE IT AT THAT. GIVES YA MORE TIME TO WORK OUT ANYWAY. | ||
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Moderator
Posts: 1513 |
Not a flame - unless you want it to be - but was that your first time ever going out? why does this shit surprise you? Matt | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 939 |
No, this happened before almost similar. Yes, I go out every so often. It surprises me because I don't see what she has to gain from this. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 92 |
Deal with it! Ignorance and apathy - | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 939 |
Thanks Julez, I feel a hell of a lot better now. Where do people come with these words of wisdom? | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 92 |
smirnoff.com | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 122 |
MD, next time it happens bro, ask her if she wants her boyfriend to join in. If she says no then say you got another girl that could make a big pile with? Better yet get pizza-man on the job... ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 194 |
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! dude, girls are nut cases. they have NO logic and just think using emotions. also, DO NOT TAKE GIRLS SERIOUSLY when they are drinking!!!! if you do, youre a fool. whenever theres alcahol and women, you really have to have a carefree attitude. girls just lose it with a few drinks, it can be pretty sad. really. all the numbers i have ever gotten while out drinking i have never called, because it isnt sincere. so better off asking a girl for her number when she is sober. thats just how i see it. but keep clubbing and have a good time. -Pops | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 524 |
ALL WOMEN CHEAT, ALL WOMEN ARE HOE'S THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS RELATIONSHIPS ANYMORE, THEY NEVER WORK............... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 939 |
Yes indeed, always come back with hope in the female gender, but end up confirming thats a waste of time. It must be so; after all, there have been no women on this thread to lead me to the contrary. | ||
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 17 |
Like "havoc" said: Deal with it. Guess you are just a guy with a good body and she wanted to see if "she still got it." Don't guys do this all the time as well? Even to their own girlfriends? VANITY IS THE PRIDE OF THE WEAK! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 84 |
MIGHTY, THE BEST ADVICE I CAN OFFER YOU IS "DONT TRY TO FIGURE WOMEN OUT." US GUYS HAVE BEEN TRYING TO DO IT FOR CENTURIES AND IT JUST AINT HAPPENING. WE JUST HAVE TO ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES AND MOVE ON. NOT TO MENTION THE CLUBS ARE DEFINITELY THE WRONG PLACE TO MEET WOMEN IF UR LOOKING FOR ONE THAT ISNT A NUT CASE. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 435 |
The bottom line is......you don't go looking for a serious mate in a club. End of story.......you walk into the bar knowing any relationship you strike up will disintegrate with the morning light! Perspectives. delts ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 1065 |
I'm with big bad buff on this one. she's a bitch | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 364 |
remember this advice, you go out on dates with girls you meet through friends, at the gym, at work....you fuck girls you meet at clubs. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 405 |
what did she get out of it? i don't know. maybe they just crave attention. they want to feel wanted to boost their self-esteem. check out this scenario, it's happened to me several times in dallas.. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 83 |
You need to close the deal that night!!!! There are always girls with boyfriends in clubs. They decide to go for a "girl's night out" and nothing good ever happens. Their friends convince them that it's ok to cheat and they won't tell on her. She has a couple of drinks and then it's party time. I have met many girls at club that first tell you they have a man then they are riding your root after the club!!! The problem you had was the same thing that happened to me!! I thought I was in and was making out with this cute little blonde. I got her number and called her on Sun night. She was all nervous on the phone and said she had a boyfriend and had to go!!?? You have to bang them that night. In the AM they realize things and realize what they had done. Next time pressure to close the deal that same night and if they don't want to talk to you after who cares!!! | ||
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Novice 
Posts: 9 |
Dahmer about summed up the whole f'in deal! I couldnt have said it better. But also, there could be that window of opportunity like in my case that you CAN meet your future wife in a club....but, if she bangs you the first night....then trust me...DONT MARRY THE BITCH !!!!! I am happily married to just about the most trusting woman you can find...the only reason why she was ever in the club to begin with was because she likes to dance. But, if your just looking to hit some tail that night, then like Dahmer said....CLOSE THE DEAL THAT NIGHT !!! peace, G | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 939 |
I guess the sexual revolution is still alive. Thanks guys, damn I'm a slow learning dumb ass! |
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