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 I'm dying without him!
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Cool Novice 
Posts: 35 |
I haven't seen my boyfriend in almost 5 months and it is tearing me apart! He's in the Navy and hasn't been able to get a leave yet and he leaves for the middle east at the end of next month for 6 months. I don't know what to do. I need to see him before he leaves. I'm considering just driving down there to see him.....it's a 24 hour drive...and my parents would never let me go.....WHAT SHOULD I DO!? ------------------ -"I want action tonite, satisfaction tonite" Poison     | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 161 |
can u call him at least? ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 35 |
No...I can't call him when he's out in the field....and he's always out in the field. They're out there for up to 6 weeks at a time. We really only have contact through email. It's terrible. He's out in the field right now actually for 2 more weeks. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 59 |
I'll satisfy you baby!! Hehe | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 53 |
That's a bad thing being away that long. Trust is a great thing in a relationship. 11months and you may only see him once. That is very hard. Hope you don't break his heart while he in Bangkok(sp?). | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 397 |
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but then there's overkill. The classic "off to sea" thriller. I wish you the best of luck, if you two can make it through this it will be a good foundation for something further. If not........wasn't meant to be. Life is a continuous and neverending lesson. (that was deep wasn't it?) delts ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 384 |
i would sya just let him go i was recently in a long distance relationship and it doesnt work at all,i hurt from it at first i know she did but it had to be done ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 53 |
The Canadian is wise and he has opened his heart. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 912 |
Where is he stationed? ------------------ Bros before Hos SIG EP 4 LIFE! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 56 |
yeah he is out in the feild alright. If you have the best ***** in the world he may wait 5 months. If fireworks didnt come out of his ass then you prob. dont. Just keep your head about you and watch for "the signs". I didnt make this game just playing in it. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 115 |
Yeah, drop him... it hurts, but these things never work out. Ive seen it over and over, and it always ends ugly. Its no way to build (or maintain) a relationship. Im sorry, and I know it will hurt, but in the long run, dont you deserve someone who will be there with you? To me its not fair of him to leave you like this and put you in this situation. I dont want to cast dispersions on him, because Im sure hes a good guy, but the only guy that can go with out a woman for 5 months is a gay guy... The pain fades, and time will heal all, Ive been there. I didnt believe it either, but it does. It helps having friends to talk to, so rely on them and get on with the real life you know you deserve... ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 145 |
exactly...long distance relationships do not work | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 115 |
another quote: "No good deed goes unpunished." | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 145 |
For every action, there is a consequence | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 125 |
I guarantee the drive to Houston is shorter. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 380 |
Sailor_Girl - If all else fails, could you take a girlfriend to ride along the long journey w/ you? Maybe you're parents wouldn't mind so much if you weren't alone. I've heard these long distance relationships don't work, but sometimes they do. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 176 |
That must be so hard for you...I know how much I miss my boyfriend when I don't see him for a day...I would have a VERY difficult time if it were for five months...but I'm sure when you see him it must be incredible....my father was in the military and my mom went for a year once without seeing my dad....they are still together and happily married so things do workout....does he have access to a computer can you email him or Instant Message him....If I were you I would think of exciting things to send him each month to keep him going...I'm sure he's missing you just as much...Good Luck to you both!!! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 153 |
vodka,,, go to the Dr and get some anti depressents, might help | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 541 |
I would break things off. If you are having trouble after 5 months, imagine going another 6 months, then there is no quarantee you will see him then either. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 148 |
I don't think someone is gay for leaving his/her gf/bf for a long time ! BUT, as some people stated, it kills a relationship when you don't see your gf/bf for a long time like that. I guess it depends on people's patience... 24h drive ? Huu... don'T know what to tell you ... Maybe the train or bus ? Sorry for you Sailor girl, | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 27 |
Sailor Girl. I've been in the Navy 24 years. Where is he stationed and is he on a ship? Normally right before a ship deploys they allow as many people as possible to take leave. He either doesn't have enough leave saved up, doesn't have the money, or he's seeing someone else. Confront him. If you have any questions ask. Like I said I've been around while. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 24 |
sailor you should get a freakin life!! You cant be over 23 yrs of age and you act like its your damn husband. listen to your topic, "im dying without him". give me a break. Live life a little. Im not saying that you should start whoring around, but try and be independant for once.....geez! ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 35 |
Thanks for all your support and advice guys *excluding mr. peanutbutter*. It's greatly appreciated! To answer some of the questions...he's in Camp Lejeune in North Carolina.....and we have a lot of trust in our relationship....and i guarantee you he's not gay!  ------------------ -"I want action tonite, satisfaction tonite" Poison | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 115 |
Fuck, how can all of you guys be so thinkheaded? Im not saying he's GAY! Im saying the only guy that would go 6 months without pussy is gay, in otherwords any man is gonna want to get some in that long of time. A man cant "save himself" for months and months and months like some women may be able to. I didnt want to be crass and say "Hes probobly fucking around on you", because she wouldnt believe it, and no one in her position would. You see what I mean now, a gay man wouldnt need to get pussy... (its like talking to myself sometimes) ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 16 |
Trust is great baby but when some ho'(ever been around a military base?) puts it in front of him, guarentee he'll take it, LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALWAYS ONE SIDED! | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 60 |
Sailor girl, I'll introduce you to some of my favorite se(a)men if you're lonely.  ------------------ | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 805 |
yeah... you don't need him.. you wanna lollipop little girl??? hehe  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 60 |
I'll help you with the little man in the boat... heh. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 35 |
you guys are too much! I can't handle this....I feel like i should be pissed.....but i'm laughing my ass of at you! lol! ------------------ -"I want action tonite, satisfaction tonite" Poison | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 152 |
SailorGirl: If you LOVE him, screw everything else, drive/fly up to see him. Even if its for 20 minutes, who cares right! Seriously, dont worry about your parents, school, and life. Follow your heart. You won't regret it!
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 145 |
Monster: forget it....she do'nt understand | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 550 |
Sailor, You are a young girl. And you are both not in a position that either one of you can see each other with any kind of regularity. If you love him a fraction as much as you think you do you will let him go. He has a life to live and so do you. There is nothing saying you cannot see him ever again. If either one of you meets someone else then thats destiny. If you are going to be with him you will want to be with him 5 or 10 years from now no matter whom either of you are partnered with. You have to test something that you think is invinceble. Its like a bridge over raging river. Do you want to THINK its strong? Or do you want to KNOW its strong? The only way to test it is to be apart. Live and learn. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 52 |
TOUGH SITUATION SAILOR GIRL. U REALLY NEED TO MAKE SURE U CAN HANDLE BEING AWAY FROM HIS FOR THIS LONG AMOUNT OF TIME. MAYBE U WOULD BE BETTER JUST MOVING ON AND FINDING SOMEONE WHO YOU COULD ACTUALLY SEE. BUT GOD BLESS YA IF YOU MAKE IT THROUGH ALL THE LONG DISTANCE TROUBLES. THERE ARE A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO LIVE 5 MINUTES FROM EACH OTHER WHO CANT EVEN MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK, SO U HAVE MY RESPECT FOR GOING MONTHS AND NOT SEEING HIM. HES A LUCKY GUY, ESPECIALLY IF U ARE FAITHFUL. Z | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 233 |
GOOD LUCK SAILOR GIRL.... BUT DON'T PUT YOUR WHOLE LIFE ON HOLD JUST IN CASE IT DON'T WORK OUT. JUST LOOKING AT THE STATS... JUST KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN... HAVE FUN AND FOLLOW YOUR HEART... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 224 |
I think all of these guys (myself included) remembers you saying something about having provocative pictures that you would share with us if you didn't have a boyfriend. It would be very therapeutic to go ahead and post those pics!!! ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 35 |
LOL! I didn't say I have some provacative pictures......I said my boyfriend has them. Sorry to disappoint you ------------------ -"I want action tonite, satisfaction tonite" Poison | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 224 |
Sailor Girl, I'm very disappointed!!! Tell him to mail the pictures back!! On a more serious note, you are a very pretty girl and I hope everything works out for you. Long distance relationships can work, but they are very hard. Good Luck. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 90 |
go and drive there. if not drop me a line and i will help you out. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 35 |
Thanks for the compliment big gunz. you brightened my day! ------------------ -"I want action tonite, satisfaction tonite" Poison | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 73 |
why dont you give me a call |
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