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Asian Muscle Machine

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posted August 31, 2000 03:02 AM

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Can't believe it happened.
I got to grow.
But I am desparately depressed.


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MUSTANG_18

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posted August 31, 2000 04:45 AM

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SORRY TO HEAR THAT BRO
HOW LONG WERE YOU GOING WITH HER FOR ?
ME AND MY LAST GF WERE GOING FOR ALMOST A YEAR BUT THEN SHE MOVED TO GO TO A COLLAGE CLOSER TO HER MOTHER. IT TOOK A WHILE BUT I GOT OVER HER AND NOW I AM HAVING THE BEST TIME OF MY LIFE!! THERE ARE SO MANY HOT WOMEN! HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER SOON.

M18


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Asian Muscle Machine

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posted August 31, 2000 07:44 AM

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Thank you very much.
I was with her for almost 1 year.
I was out of town for 1 month and came bck today.
When we met each other tonight, it happened.
I can't believe we were talking about marrage.
The women are always like that?
It is hurting me so badly.


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BigGuns2

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posted August 31, 2000 10:32 AM

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Sorry to hear that bro. Just remember that time heals all wounds. Just keep going to the gym. That's a great place to get your mind off of all your troubles.

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skydancer

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posted August 31, 2000 10:54 AM

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Hang in there AMM!!

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Patience is a bitter plant, but it has sweet fruit.


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Rotten

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posted August 31, 2000 11:20 AM

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Can I have her phone number?

Just kidding you kid, I'm sorry to hear that.

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special_bill

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posted August 31, 2000 12:18 PM

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time and the sporadic banging of many choice honeys will heal all wounds....

tip: go to a bar, order a drink, don't drink it, start to cry...

you will get laid...


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Thick dawg

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posted August 31, 2000 12:21 PM

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I feel your pain bro. Good idea going to the gym to work of frustrations. There's other bearded clams in the sea.


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Asian Muscle Machine

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posted August 31, 2000 12:23 PM

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Thanks bro.
Thank you very much.
I couldn't sleep last night.
Hope time heals my wound soon.


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Dark Stalker

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posted August 31, 2000 12:34 PM

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Sorry Bro.. That's sad news, don't get stuck in your house, got to clubs, cheer up with your friends ! Depression HAVE to be avoided.

Personally, when I meet other women,it helps me a lot... maybe you should try the same...



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akbar

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posted September 01, 2000 08:45 AM

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AMM,it's true time will heal,but in the mean time try not to be alone,this will cause more harm,find a pair of good ears. Cry ,don't be embarrassed,crying will get you over your sadness & bitterness.
you can e-mail me if you need any help.


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Asian Muscle Machine

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posted September 01, 2000 09:21 AM

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Thabk you very much.
I feel a little better, but I still can't sleep well.
A lot of stress, very terrible depression, low self esteem, suicidal thought........
But I am trying to survive now.
akbar, I may email you.
Thank you very much.


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akbar

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posted September 01, 2000 10:09 AM

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Listen up,AMM,you're still young there's more
life than to waste on one girl,she is the loser here not you,do your best in your studies & build a better body for women to gawk at & men to envy! when you've you've made it in your career & sports,she will sit up & regret what she's been missing.Never ever give up,you work your butt out & still you preservere,you're strong you hear.I'll be here if you need me & remain awake,so just
write up your message.


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BadAssZ28

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posted September 01, 2000 10:23 AM

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Go to the gym and work us ass off. U will be amazed how it will just drain that stress away.


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akbar

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posted September 01, 2000 10:43 AM

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Sorry AMM,thought you still a college kid,ok that does'nt change anything,you're a doctor
& I'm sure you've made it,only thing this girl just don't see it!so I suggest you keep yourself occupied with your hobby,& there're many young girls out there waiting for you,& all they need is for you to make your move.
Hit them iron & channel your anger when working out.Don't waste your life you hear.


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miles

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posted September 01, 2000 04:22 PM

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AMM,

Same thing happened to me about six months ago. We were living together in this nice house and talking about getting married. But then she fucking dumped me because I didn't play golf and didn't have enough social class or something. Hurt so bad I cried for like two months straight. Good time to start a cycle. Anyway, go for it, you are free now! Do all that shit that you couldn't do when she was around. Get all dressed up and go to a church (ha ha - joke to myself). Get every phone number you possibly can, there are lots and lots of horny women out there, you just gotta go and find them. Hit the gym with your anger and grow stronger for it. Women just do what they feel like, no regrets, no commitments, so why shouldn't we?


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Hindustan

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posted September 01, 2000 05:20 PM

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Asian Muscle Machine:

Hey man... Sorry to hear about that man. Remember dude breaking up, going out, breaking up its all part of the dating game. Dont worry about those sad feelings my friend, you will find someone better. In the mean time, lift hard, eat right and wait for opportunity to come knocking on ya door.

Hindustan


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mac sloan

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posted September 02, 2000 12:10 AM

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I know your pain bro.
Keep your head up,lifes a biatch and so are woman.


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Asian Muscle Machine

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posted September 02, 2000 12:39 PM

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I really appreciate all of your kindness.
I am still suffering, but I started feeling like going to a gym again.
And off cource eat right.
Thank you so much.
I am an iron warrier.


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akbar

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posted September 03, 2000 12:08 AM

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Thats the spirit 'AMM' a warrior never give up!your health is more important than any women.


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aky

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posted September 03, 2000 08:59 AM

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suck it up bro.. women are a waste of time and $$$... now think of it this way.. you can use your $$$ for juice!


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Krusher

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posted September 03, 2000 09:47 AM

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Congradulations.


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madbomber31

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posted September 03, 2000 10:05 AM

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man, your a doctor. all the gear you could want!!!! and your depressed?

we all go through it, i went through it last week myself. then again i caved and moved back. what the fuck do i know. if i ever were to give advice about women i would suggest NOBODY listen.


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gottobebig

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posted September 03, 2000 03:50 PM

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AMM,
I'm real sorry to hear that bro. About 2 weeks ago i broke up with my girl over some shiat that has really nothing to do with us personally. it really hurt and still does. I find myself getting depressed a lot too and I really dont feel like going out or going to the gym and I still loose sleep over it. It just plain sucks! the best advice I can give is just keep yourself very busy with your boys. thats about all that has helped me. Well good take care and your not alone.


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Asian Muscle Machine

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posted September 03, 2000 10:49 PM

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First of all, thank you very much for all your encouragements.
It helps me a lot.
I finally made myself go to a gym.
I lost about 15lbs since then.
I really need to get back to normal life.
Thank you very much, bro.


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JustinM

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posted September 04, 2000 12:39 AM

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i feel yer pain..go to gym..eat food..get new girl...good luck!!!''

peace

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N-V-R-2BIG

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posted September 04, 2000 02:24 AM

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asian m.m.

i can relate bro. i was with a girl for 5 years. we broke up in may of 99. i was so heartbroken it was un bellievable. she was so beautiful it was outrageous. she was so good to me also. i fucked it up by not treating her like i should have. i'm still not completely over her yet but i have moved on. i am having fun with my life but if she wanted me back i would take her back in a minute. (even if she did gain a little weight) life goes on bro. just try to have fun cuz you only live once dogg.


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BammBamm

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posted September 04, 2000 02:39 AM

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I finally grew some balls to call a separation from my wife and then after a while I felt bad...but then I felt good again...but then I felt bad...but now I'm good again...at least for a little while.

You gotta learn to be happy by yourself first...time WILL heal your sadness.
Don't get back with her because of pity, thats the biggest mistake you could make.

If it was meant to be, it will be.


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Asian Muscle Machine

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posted September 06, 2000 01:48 AM

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If I didn't know this board, I would be more desparate.
Thank you for all of bro sharing your experiences.
I really apreciate your kindness.
Thank you very much.


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Pokemon

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posted September 06, 2000 03:27 AM

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con cu con, du ma; di me may. J/K uncle Ho Chi Minh

If you truely love her, you would do almost anything to make her happy, even if it ment you can't be with her.

[This message has been edited by Pokemon (edited September 06, 2000).]


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metanoia

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posted September 06, 2000 05:04 AM

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Hey bro,

Im really sorry for what you're going through. I had a really bad experience with my girfriend a few years back. She broke up with me because her father didn't like me cause I wasn't Korean. I loved her and we talked about getting engaged. So much pain and sadness...but I got through it, and hardly think about her at all now.

If you can, surround yourself with good people/good friends. People who understand and support you ; people who help you with your weaknesses and focus on your strengths.

You don't know me but if you want to email me feel free. I dont always check this board, since Im on different bb boards, but Ill check it regularly for the next week or so. Stay strong and never be afraid to be weak with those you trust and love!!

-Meta


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Asian Muscle Machine

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posted September 06, 2000 11:16 AM

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quote:
Originally posted by metanoia:
Hey bro,

You don't know me but if you want to email me feel free.


Thank you very much.
What is your email address?


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metanoia

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posted September 07, 2000 01:19 AM

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Annyong Haseyo,

Just sent you an email ; let me know if you don't get it


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