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 A little off topic, but please read...advice required
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Cool Novice 
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OK bro's sorry to bother you with this shit, but I'm in a bit of a delema.... I just found out that my girl has cheated on me and I'm MIGHTY PISSED OFF!!! I'm going to get the guy who got busy with my girlfriend, and when I find him I'm a bit worried about what I'm going to do to this prick. You see, I'm half way through my dbol cycle which means I get pissed when my train is 1 minute late, so when I find this cock I think a little 'roid rage is gonna kick in and I might harm him to the point where he'll get the cops involved, and I don't want that. Any advice to get this guy bro's????? PS What other Aussies are out there?     | ||
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Freak 
Posts: 1508 |
Fuck her friend. Dont fuck him up unless your going to get away with it, or if you can get him to come over your place do that, then after you beat the beejesus out of him you tell the popo's that he was acting all crazy and wanted to fight you so you defended yourself. Just make sure you dont have any illegal crap at your pad. Slopain [This message has been edited by Slopain (edited August 21, 2000).] | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder 
Posts: 326 |
Sorry to hear about your situation bro. I know that you're pissed and you want some release, but consider this. She cheated on you -- she's the one that betrayed your trust. She cheated on you, he didn't. All the other shit doesn't matter. Violence against ANYONE will just make the situation worse and could land you in a lot of trouble if you're not careful. Just walk away. UNLESS he's really provoking you and/or really deserves it. Fuk a bitch that'll go behind your back anyway. Aint' worth the hassle. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder 
Posts: 220 |
Listen to BigTruck, youngdeltman. Yep, the bro is telling it to ya straight as an arrow. Nice words, BigTruck. Bjaarki ------------------ BECOME SOMEONE'S HERO! | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 22 |
Sorry to hear this, man. I'm in the camp that unless you know for a fact that this guy had full knowledge that he was messing in someone else's bed and did it to spite you, it isn't worth pummeling him. Consider that she may not have even told the guy that you exist. The big problem is with her -- she betrayed your trust. If you kill the guy, it makes her cheating look almost justified -- see, she'll say, he's freakin' crazy. You know secrets about her. You know how to push her buttons and really piss her off. Use them my friend. Her reaction will, in the end, be much more satisfying. | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 240 |
I say whip his ass. ------------------ | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder 
Posts: 990 |
Whatever you do don't mess him up, a criminal record ain't worth it. However, if you think you got the nads for it, go find a girl, her friend, and ride that ho till she screams for mercy. Then take her over to meet your girl and start in again right in front of her. I think she will get the point. Just makes sure she did actually cheat on you or your gonna have egg on your face. Or, just walk away and know it was not meant to be. ------------------ | ||
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Freak
Posts: 1508 |
Bump Chesty's rational. Its a hard thing to do but if you can be a man and just leave that ho, you do look like the better person. But my demons say fuck her friend and maybe her sister if shes of age. Slopain | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 41 |
Thanks for the quick responses bro's but I left out a few details: She admited it to me, so I know it happened. This guy knows I exist, I've met him before. But keep posting bro's, I'm listening... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 990 |
That is right slopain, I got dumped, after pouring everything into a relationship and actually experienced real love. In short I could not leave it alone, and I ended up pissing her off so much, that her doubts about dumping me were taken away and I lost her for forever. So, I say, walk away and don't be bitter. It is gonna hurt big time. It has been almost two years and I can still feel her lips and smell her skin and everytime I just wanna give up. So, hang in there, as you see we all get hosed, we there for ya bro. chesty ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 220 |
Youngdeltman: Try this on: Put yourself in his shoes, in the situation he was in when your girl started coming on to him, or responded to his advances. Just sit on that for a few minutes. Now, what would you have done? If you had zipped it up and walked out on a hot lay, then you're a better man than him, and a lot better than your girl, so you should just walk away from them both. If you had not zipped up, but had gone for it like he did, then you can identify with him, and, again, you've got no justification to kick his ass. I know all this shit seems superimportant and all when you're 20 years old and think you're immortal but, really man, it ain't worth shit. Forget about it. Walk away. You're a man, not a hump. Bjaarki ------------------ BECOME SOMEONE'S HERO! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 558 |
If the guy as met you before he deserves a kick ass beating... I recommend you don't touch but I would kick his ass big time... | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 22 |
I know how you're feeling, bro. I was 20 once myself. But even if you kick the living shit out of this guy in front of his friends, ex-gfriends, and so on, it'll make you feel good for about 2 hours. Then the adrenaline wears off, your knuckles are bloody, and it still hurts because your woman did this to you. I think you might be looking for a qucik way to feel better. Take it to the gym and post some personal bests. Think about how pissed you are and push more weight than ever before. It'll wear you out and take the edge off. Oh, and keep you out of prison. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 990 |
How old are you? Why did she say she did it? Be honest! and tell us, we are not going to make light of it. I am 35 and all of my girl problems were my fault. So, ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 387 |
Let me tell about a �friend� of mine who did the same thing, He was 18 years old went out to a bar in the Hampton's, Long Island,NY with the intent of finding a his girl friend with the man she was cheating on him with. Well he found him. Starts a fight breaks a chair over his back, knocks the guy out and the guy dies 2 days later in the hospital. Prosecutor say it�s pre-meditated pushed for murder 2, 2 weeks later jury finds him guilty of voluntary manslaughter, judge says 12 years in Sing Sing, got out last year after serving 8. NO BITCH IS WORTH IT. ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 124 |
Life's too short to get all mad about sh*t that you couldn't have controlled anyway. Be thankful it happened now, and not a year after your wedding or some sh*t like that! Move on, bro, move on. Forget her, she's got no dignity, and neither does the guy! Don't risk messin' your life up out of rage! ------------------  | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 207 |
These guys are right dude, it's the girl that screwed you, just dump her and forget the whole thing, you'll end up in jail and if they find out you're gearing, they'll have reason to tell everyone gear is bad and you proved them right... ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 233 |
happened to me once, when I was in high school, I played it cool and told the guy I could identify with what he did and that I didn't blame him, then we were both at the same party, I earned the nickname that i'm using on this board, (from the guy who took my pussy, well I guess it was her pussy, but he took it) then I beat his ass like there was no tomarrow, and nobody fucked with me for the rest of high school, I had a pretty bad temper then, it was only a year ago too, but if your not a hardass in high school, what r u? ------------------ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 55 |
yeah delta, grow man grow!! make her wish she had kept you! seriously, I have had this happen to me too. man there are SO many chicks out there who are looking for good guys, you just have to find them (which is tough to do). Anyways, I find all kinds of good chicks, but I always over-do it and I end up running them off. I have always been the "best friend" type guy, be thankful you arent that! LOL Find another woman bro, there are MANY out there that will make you forget this one. Nick | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 51 |
I really don't think any girl is worth potential jail time or fines. I'd say you either forgive her or forget about her and go on with your life. And who's to say he doesn't whoop your ass instead. You don't know what's gonna happen so don't take any chances. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 13 |
Hey man Ive had a girl screw me over like that too, sucks bad. But I say F*&k the hell out of her one last time, I mean just Hate f*&k her and then tell her to hit the road. Its always easy to say walk away from a fight tell your the one in it, but what it all comes down to is that a man is gotta do what a man has gotta do. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 448 |
Kicking the shit out of him will make you feel better, but its not worth the jail time. Hire OJ to do it for you, he'll get away with it, and I bet he needs the money. | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 682 |
Ok here is my advice. May not be the best advice, but it is indeed advice. Go to a local dept store and purchase yourself a ski mask and metal baseball bat. Follow him from somewhere one nite and hide in a bush. Wait for that fucker to come round and BAM one good shot to the knee should shatter that cap. Run like a bitch. Make sure you have good friends who will vouch for ya. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 31 |
I know exactly how you feel...same sorta thing happened to me a few years ago. I began plotting the guy's murder, but then realized that 1)it wasn't his fault because had I been in the same situation, I would have went for the punany too. 2)she voluntarily gave it up to him so she was more to blame 3)it wasn't worth the time, trouble or effort...its not like I would get paid for this 4)as a man, we should never be controlled by our emotions because they will get us in trouble...whether its promiscuity, anger, sadness...these things can destroy our lives...You must live by principles & not by emotions that bring us out of the right frame of mind. I figured out that the best way to get back was to get back at her emotionally, not physically. Women are emotional creatures, so this would be easily done with spoken words. I dumped her & got married to someone else...man was she pissed! Then the guy she was fuckin with dumped her too! So don't worry, cause she will eventually get whats coming to her. But your situation is different because at least she confessed to you. Stick with her, but now you have an excuse to seek pleasure elsewhere. Things will never be the same unless you both truly want to be together. BTW: I got seperated and I still hit it once in a while...hehehe. | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 314 |
CHECK YOUR MAIL | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 82 |
I say that we all have freinds who can take care of this problem for us. People don't talk when their afraid of the repercussions. Have him delt with. ------------------ | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 41 |
A bit more info I forgot: I'm 19 and we've been together for 2 years. The guy who got with my girl doesn't want to fight me, but I still want to thump the cunt. What's the best way to beat the crap out of somone, have them in immediate pain but leave no long term scars (should I say EVIDENCE!)? Just crack him one? | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 387 |
I think what you hot heads out here need is about a 6 month stay in your states pen the showers there will really cool you off. I don't know how it is Down Under but if you commit Assault and blab to your buddies about it before hand, thats pre-meditation and throw in some conspiracy (for whatever)and your lookin at doing some time.
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 168 |
do not kick his ass unless you are prepared to go to jail as hard as this sounds just tell your girlfriend that you'd rather not date a whore and walk away i wish i could have done this when my ex-wife decided she wanted to be the biggest cock sucking whore that ever lived | ||
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Moderator 
Posts: 565 |
Brotha Deltman - I feel your pain. When I was in college my bf (who I thought the sun set and rose upon - NOT!!! - LOSER!!!) cheated on me and brought back a dreaded disease!...I had my suspicions, but the trip to the doc confirmed his activity. Needless to say, it was not one of "the biggies" THANK GOD!, it was nothing that a little tetracycline couldn't fix...but if I exhibited no symptoms (as is often the case) I would not have the handle I do today - because I would have been rendered INFERTILE because of this thoughtless, yellow-bellied, scum-sucking low-life. Anyway, the point that I am trying to make here is that because of this jerk's selfish and thoughtless behaviour A LOT MORE could have been affected than just my ego and my heart!...get it?! Regardless of how angry, hurt, betrayed I felt being smaller and weaker than him - the only thing I could do was WALK AWAY!!! Having said this - I realize that you must be some 200+lb brotha who is seeing red because the sheets don't feel "just right" as you have earlier confessed, HOWEVER, this argument just isn't going to fly in a court of law. I'm not saying that many would disagree with your thoughts - BUT THEY ARE MUCH DIFFERENT THAN ACTIONS! Listen to all the brothas who are warning AGAINST VIOLENCE!! It solves nothing and you will most likely end up making an already miserable situation MUCH WORSE for no one but YOURSELF - heck, the girl in question might actually GET OFF that two guys are "dooking it out" (so to speak) over her tired, cheating behind (no disrespect to you, brotha - we all make bad choices). The girl is lower than low. If she didn't want to be in a relationship w/you why didn't she have the balls to break it off?...Why?...because she's a LOSER!!!..and why would you want to be in the company of such a loser? So, my advice: Feel your hurt, figure out why you would have been attracted to a girl who would treat you so badly to begin with - rectify the problem - and move on. Life is too wonderful to be wasting it on a girl who doesn't even deserve a second thought. Love or no love - nobody deserves to be treated like this and if she loved you she certainly would not have done so....if she can not return the same genuine affection that you feel for her, aren't you wasting your affection? There are plenty of girls out there who would not behave in such a fashion...don't waste another minute of your life! My mama always sez, "You should value the cleanliness of your hands - why would you want to sully them by touching $h*t?" | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 59 |
It took two to cheat. He's an a-hole, however your GF shares the blame. As hard as it may be dump her ASAP and forget getting the guy. It sounds like they deserve each other..... | ||
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 720 |
I posted my story a while back - and all I gotta say is just one guy. Sorry just messin with yah. It gets worse, much worse. Dump the whore and move on. Nothing you do will change the past. Big thing now is to rise above it and move on. Just like your better than that shit and your are. It time to find a honey that realy cares about you! New start my friend - new start. If you want my story do a search - I believe it was hardball post or e-mail me. No need for more board space on trash. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 16 |
Listen to BIG TRUCK,she ain't worth it,dump her!!!!!!!!& get another,hey body builders are magnets..........easy to get girls bro... why bother on that shit of a girl.......you messed him up you'll get messed up by the law I know I'm a cop....don't be stupid. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 20 |
You're 19 so you get a GO directly to jail card if you beat his ass. Just crab your girl fuck the shit out of here real good, as in sport fucking, and then dump her ass right after your done. ------------------ | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 535 |
dude... fuck that. unless the guy who nailed your girl KNEW she was dating you and didnt care, then he did nothing wrong. if she neglected to tell him, then thats her fault. tell ya what, if a hot chick wanted to fuck you, would you??? what if she had a boyfriend and YOU didnt know it? that wouldnt change your mind now, would it? her fault, not his. just dump her and be done... why must people try to get revenge? what happens if you beat the piss out of him and he turns around and smokes your ass with a glock? your fault for not having a level head. dump the bitch and be done. | ||
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Cool Novice
Posts: 41 |
Thanks for the help guys. It's going to be interesting to see how this one pans out... | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 104 |
Move on with your life. If you do something stupid you might go to jail for a long time. NO GEAR NO OTHER WOMEN NO FUN NO SUNSETS NO GYM NO NOTHING
You dont know what it is unless you have had it taken from you.
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Elite Bodybuilder
Posts: 818 |
TWO WORDS: DIRTY SANCHEZ | ||
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Amateur Bodybuilder
Posts: 138 |
you are stupid and imature period!!! | ||
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Pro Bodybuilder
Posts: 435 |
I can somewhat relate to Chesty The Girl of my dreams and the one I still wish I had, broke my heart, she was cheating on me but with someone online...pretty fucked up shit....The emotional as well as physical is all the same...It doesn't make it any easier....It Really screwed with my head, but that was in Late Jan-Early Feb and I still haven't found anyone that I can talk to and confide in like I could with her....Well I have my Bro's and sisters here but I can't fall asleep with them everynight the way we could...It sucks cause I was only 19 and the time and she was 22...Grant it I have met a Good number of women since then that would say she was the fool, but I don't think it really means much, cause matters of the heart leaves everyone a loser.....
As For me I'm in a New Town, at a new school...Lonely at this time since I haven't met many people and I can't get into a Gym, but hey School starts next Tuesday and it's all GOOD then... Don't hurt the guy as much as you want to...Jail time isn't worth it, and your head will be that much more screwed up by her after Guilt sits in....Walk away, and cut away all communication with her.... |
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