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cj Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 10) |
posted August 15, 2000 02:42 PM
  
I would like a little input from all you guys out there pleez!!! Last night my husband was mad at me and we had an argument..well he decides hes gonna sleep on the couch. After about 20 minutes i got up to go to the kitchen and there he is sitting on the couch beatin his meat watching some naked girl on tv!(by the way there was cum all over the covers!) UUUGGGHHH!!! Needless to say i was sick to my stomach! Now let me also tell you that since i have met him 4 years ago we have had sex at least once a day and i know that all guys do that but, it hurt me sooo much to think that he would do that when i have never even had one dirty thought about another man, let alone, masturbate looking at one! What do yall think? I have not spoken to him (other than telling him he was a pervert and i was totally SICKened last night when i caught him) I really want some honest opinions IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1726) |
posted August 15, 2000 02:47 PM
Sometimes when ya gotta bust a nut, ya gotta bust a nut. I'd cut him a little slack. It's not like he cheated on you or anything. I can see how it bothered you, so you may want to ask him if he could try and limit the chicken choking sessions to times when you are not at home. IP: Logged |
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big dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 228) |
posted August 15, 2000 02:50 PM
No big deal. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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cj Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 10) |
posted August 15, 2000 02:50 PM
Im not new to the board, I registered under a new identity ( didnt want those of you who know me to know this) I think this is personal so i didnt want to actually "tell" anyone, but i do want some opinions! IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1412) |
posted August 15, 2000 02:52 PM
ahhh romeo didnt I tell ya to watch out for blackhaus - I knew shed blow you up like this in a minute haha j/k guys Slopain IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1726) |
posted August 15, 2000 02:55 PM
HaHA- What would Curry do if he walked in on one of his bitches getting herself off? IP: Logged |
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PT101 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 91) |
posted August 15, 2000 02:55 PM
Well if this is a valid post/question here is my take on it. First - sex a least once a day every day for 4 years, WOW, i find that hard to believe...but let us not worry about what may or may not be. Question: Has he ever maturbated in front of you before? Right now I would say if anything he is embarassed and would prefer if you just forgot the whole thing. He is not a pervert, just a guy. Whatever girl he was jacking off to is just a form of excitement for him. It means nothing and no women should take ANY offence by it. My recommendation would be to either forget what happened, or expand on it via mutual masterbation. Solve the issue that caused the fight to begin with and then have make-up sex. However if this is a bogus post (Fuck You!!, did your mommy catch you). If not, no offence meant, it is just hard to tell these days. IP: Logged |
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cj Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 10) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:01 PM
I swear this is a real, serious post!! And yes we have had sex nearly everyday for 4 years..2-3 times a day for at least the first year.. About the masturbating - he has done it in front of me about 3 or 4 times while i also participated but never have i caught him like this.. he obviously lies b/c he said he has "never done this since he's met me" ooohhh and about the cum, when i caught him, i didnt know he had came( he was saying "i didnt cum, i was just rubbing on it) and i grabbed the covers and wham !the bleach smell liked to hit me in the cheek! IP: Logged |
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PT101 Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 91) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:07 PM
Bleach Smell Uh  .Look, resolve the issue that made the fight to begin with and get on with it. Every guy does it and every guy denies it.(except on this board). It seems that you are still pissed over whatever caused the fight and are looking for extra fuel for the fire, never ever ever use something like this. It will ruin what seems to be a great relationship you have. Drop it, hard !! IP: Logged |
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ryry Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 809) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:10 PM
all guys masturbate. so what if he was masturbating to a different woman. having dirty thoughts run in your head don't mean nothing... as long as you don't act it out. hell i've never cheated on a girl before. but i've sure whacked off a lot of times thinking about other girls. only difference between me and your husband is that i don't get caught... ------------------ "The greatest risk is not taking one." IP: Logged |
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special_bill Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 410) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:18 PM
here's a tip for the fellas...next time your girl wont do you, just start wailing on yourself right next to her....save yourself the embarassement of getting caught....plus it really, really creeps them out....they just might think twice about saying "nuh-uh"... IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1726) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:21 PM
That's a fine idea Bill. But the last time I tried that, we both got kicked out of the restaurant. IP: Logged |
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Fitnes1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 225) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:24 PM
Thick dog - restaurant, hugh? Oh, were you & your date the two in the Sliver movie?  haha, just kidding. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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special_bill Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 410) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:32 PM
yeah, last time i tried it, my parents threw me out of the backseat....and we were in a funeral procession...i aint right... IP: Logged |
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Cleaner Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 641) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:32 PM
You gotta sperate the two items here or you'll go nuts. The fight is one item the spanking another. Resolve the fight issue outside the other item. I've been caught before so what - It took a while for my wife to understand that something guys do that. As far as the TV that was just something to get it going. Guys have and will use prono to for this. The first time ( I don't normally get on this subject the way the others here do ) she caught me it was the end of the world. We talk she didn't realy like it but knew more of what was up. Normally I would wake up with a woody and couldn't get her into it. I would just go in the other room. One time she came in and asked why I started without her! It's normal unless you realy believe he was doing it just to make some kinda fuk up statement to you! Just let this one go - work on the other issue. [This message has been edited by Cleaner (edited August 15, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 694) |
posted August 15, 2000 03:57 PM
cj - whats the real issue? That you caught him, that you were in a fight or that he's tried to tell you he "never does it". (Big lie..all men do) I don't personally think its a big deal other than you walked in on him doing it...thats embarrassing most likely. You should have joined him. How often you have sex doesn't have much to do with the guy getting himself off. It doesn't mean you aren't satisfying him or anything. Do you two talk openly about fantasy, porn etc? It might help...looking at pictures doesn't have anything to do with loyalty to you btw. Men are visual creatures and they like to look at those things...I do too sometimes. Maybe if you talked openly about it it would help matters. Even add some spice to your already active sex life. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Fitnes1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 225) |
posted August 15, 2000 04:06 PM
ditto to what Skydancer says... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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cj Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 10) |
posted August 15, 2000 04:53 PM
Ok so i guess what it boils down to is solving the spat that started all of this.. He was pissed off at me b/c my 19 yr.old brother came over with 2 of his friends and when my husband walked outside i was showing them my "new" bicep muscles that im so proud of! That is how it all got started..stupid! But then we got into all that name calling and childish bullshit.. im sure you all know how that goes... and that is where it led too Thanks guys and girls!IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1726) |
posted August 15, 2000 05:00 PM
I think he overreacted a little if he got pissed because you were showing off your biceps to your brother and his friends. I don't get that one at all. Now if you were showing off your new breast implants...... IP: Logged |
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cj Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 10) |
posted August 15, 2000 05:05 PM
I know EXACTLY...he gets totally jealous all the time and then takes it out on me! Then turns around to whack off to some whory looking girl on TV! Thats the problem..he was also mad b/c he went to Baskin and Robbins and bought some ice cream and i wouldnt eat any..he hates all this working out, eating right, blah, blah..I get so jealous when i read this board and here the guys saying "man i wish i had a woman who worked out like that, " or whatever b/c my husband does and he doesnt appreciate it!! Thats the problem! IP: Logged |
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MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1764) |
posted August 15, 2000 05:09 PM
yeah..i dont get it..why do men always look a gifthore in the mouth..not that you are a horse or anything...but why do they complain if they have a woman that LIKES to keep in shape..hell i want one of those to ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray "IT DOESN'T MATTER" - The Rock IP: Logged |
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NYyankee Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 113) |
posted August 15, 2000 05:10 PM
No Biggie, I tell my girlfriend I jerk off every other day and she doesn't mind one bit, and we have sex just about every other day too. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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MrMuscle Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1764) |
posted August 15, 2000 05:13 PM
Yeah..jerking of to us males is as normal as not picking up our dirty underwear from the floor ------------------ "...damn you for not giving my TEST" - Metallica "After this show i'll be fat and happy again.....If i make it to the show...." - Lee Priest "Lets put some weight on the bar.." - Shawn Ray "IT DOESN'T MATTER" - The Rock IP: Logged |
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Rexie317 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 605) |
posted August 15, 2000 05:32 PM
MM: You mean to tell me that everybody here has more than 1 pair of underwear? jk. CJ: Its no big deal that he was whackin it to another chick on tv. Would you rather walk in on him jackin himself off or havin someone else jack him off? Put the argument behind you and have some make up sex. From what I hear its better than regular sex....lousy virginity...pisses me off. IP: Logged |
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Dough White Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 7) |
posted August 15, 2000 06:12 PM
No matter how good my sex life, or how in love I am with a woman, I beat it while alone. It's not perverted. Men will fantasise. As long as he don't cheat on you with a real woman, you're gold. IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 694) |
posted August 15, 2000 06:22 PM
agg - cj I can SO relate...email me girl..we need to talk!! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1412) |
posted August 15, 2000 06:24 PM
Curry has no sex drive left for his hand, he is all womened out. I thought you knew that TD?!! Slopain IP: Logged |
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special_bill Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 410) |
posted August 15, 2000 06:30 PM
yo slopain- curry and supergreg are in those buddy lee commercials...i just saw the one with curry.....they rock... cj- i dont want to bash your husband without meeting him, but i hope he is real young, cause it sounds like he has some growing up to do.....i bet hes just a touch insecure, you are looking hot like szechuan chicken and he's basically worried....he needs to get his ass into a gym and learn to appreciate what he's got before someone else does..... IP: Logged |
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Romeo Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 904) |
posted August 15, 2000 06:40 PM
masturbating is what guys do..just because he was looking at a picture doesnt mean anything ...just that he needed a little inspiration...every guy plays the fiddle when there alone ...dont worry so much!!!
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cj Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 10) |
posted August 15, 2000 06:52 PM
Bill- he's not real young (31)! Sky - check your email! Thanks for all the great reply's! I havent got shit done today, but i feel alot better now that ive gotten this off my chest! I need to go masturbate! J/K! IP: Logged |
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Future One Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 190) |
posted August 15, 2000 08:35 PM
Ok, I can tell you guys know shit about psychology. Just my take on this. If you had a fight, then that means the guy was frustrated, sometimes guys will beat it when they're frustrated in the hopes of aleviating the pain. Doesn't necessarily mean he's lusting another woman. On the other hand, who gives a flying fuck??? ------------------ IP: Logged |
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havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 779) |
posted August 15, 2000 08:48 PM
As long as he wasnt doing it to the Rosie Odonnel show, its OK. IP: Logged |
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Stillhere Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 72) |
posted August 15, 2000 08:51 PM
Hey CJ Not a big deal. Sometimes men do this because it is necesary. The testes produce alot of that stuff, some gets recycled into the system again some is excreted and some is taken out by the MALE. research yourself. IP: Logged |
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moe dank Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1471) |
posted August 15, 2000 08:55 PM
here is another shocker, sometimes when he is making love to you he is thinking of other women. just a man thing i guess. nothing wrong with fantacy! [This message has been edited by moe dank (edited August 15, 2000).] IP: Logged |
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~~~SlickassBiatch~~~ Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 56) |
posted August 15, 2000 10:49 PM
Moe: Tell me you guys don't really do this? ------------------ IP: Logged |
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moe dank Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1471) |
posted August 15, 2000 10:59 PM
sorry, I dont even think it is just the majority of men i think we all do it. IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 694) |
posted August 15, 2000 11:21 PM
Slick...you've never thought of another man while with your current one...doesn't even have to be a "real" person...no fantasies or anything while having sex? Just curious..because I know the guys do it...and I have too..so... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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JustinM Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 79) |
posted August 15, 2000 11:35 PM
hes just using the porno to get off...it doesnt mean he doesnt like you or he likes anyone else..all guys stare at other girls tits, breats etc but it is just for viewing not like he is in love with anyone else...get what im saying?? and i doubt this is the first time hes jerked off when you were married... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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tnheygirl Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 221) |
posted August 16, 2000 12:18 AM
cj- I also think it's no big deal. Hey my man keeps my rechargable batteries up to date and I buy him different oils! The way I feel is sometimes you don't want to please anyone else but yourself! No matter how much you love them. IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1726) |
posted August 16, 2000 09:10 AM
SKY, so just who might you be fantasizing about? IP: Logged |
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skydancer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 694) |
posted August 16, 2000 11:02 AM
Why the one and only Thick Dog and his favorite pet llama of course. (God did I really just bring up the stupid llama again!?) ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Vanguard Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 256) |
posted August 16, 2000 11:07 AM
Give the guy a break! Say your sorry and go down on him as a peace offering. IP: Logged |
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Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 472) |
posted August 16, 2000 03:54 PM
You know what, really, no big deal. lots of women feel like theyve been cheated on. Its nothing like that. sometimes we just gotta release, and yea, a little eye candy helps the imagination. my alpha female loves it that Im honest with her and tell her when I do, sometimes, not always. like when she leaves me hang'n or something due to time constraints. I dont think you should have called him a perv, there is nothing perverted about it all. its natural, all men do it and those that say they dont are freaking lying. I think you shoulda gone over and helped him out, woulda shocked the hell out of him and probably fixed your argument. IP: Logged |
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