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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1661) |
posted August 14, 2000 10:49 AM
 
The girl I have been seeing quite often over the past few weeks is 25 and has a 2 year old boy. I am 24 and have had no experience with kids or with dating girls with kids. The boys father walked out on them one day and left her to raise him by herlself. Luckily, her mother ans sister help her. Anyway, I really like her and want to continue to see her, mainly because I actually enjoy talking to her and she enjoys giving me head. I am a little unsure how to handle her kid and what to expect. She doesn't play games with me, which I like. Any experiences, pointers, and especially smart ass comments will be greatly appreciated. IP: Logged |
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Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 466) |
posted August 14, 2000 10:53 AM
have yall done anything involving the kid yet? IP: Logged |
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Slopain Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1376) |
posted August 14, 2000 10:54 AM
I have been with girlsthat have had kids, but I don't think it counts because in one instance I saw the kid like once and the grandma tok care of him mostly, so it was more like she had a baby brother that I saw once in a while. The others were just girls that had kids that I'd f around with - and I don't think they count b/c I really didn't care about them (the girls not the kids) much. Takes a big man to accept the kid thing, how she had some other dudes kid and now your to take care of him/her for him b/c he was the jackass and took off. Slopains not that big yet. But if its love whatayagonnado, eh? Slopain (sans the smartass comments) IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1661) |
posted August 14, 2000 10:57 AM
Yes, last night she brought him over and we watched him play and then watched a movie. He is quite character, he likes to destroy things. I am really looking forward to corrupting him. I suggested that we take him to the zoo next weekend and she told me it was the nicest thing anyone hasever said to her. She told her friends and now they all want to join us. The only thing that sucks is now I won't be able to put ht emoves on the animals. LoL IP: Logged |
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Gilbyag Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 466) |
posted August 14, 2000 11:03 AM
sounds like you like the kid and dont mind that she has one. shit, sounds like you like her too. I guess go for it. I only dated one girl who got married at 19, now divorced she ended up w/2 kids. but the thing was she kept trying to shove them at me, thats what it seemed like. I was trying to get to know her first but it seemd like she was moving in fast forward. she wanted a relationship to badly to quickly. I told about how I felt so then we agreed to just have sex. that was cool for a while. hey bro, everything sounds cool on your end, just go with it. IP: Logged |
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havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 746) |
posted August 14, 2000 11:19 AM
I will bang girls with kids but taking the little bastards to the zoo(I would worry about the jealousy of the llamas)and to watch the Care Bears meet Barney is just not havoc's steelo. Wait till the kid wants to hold your hand and pretend he is superman in the middle of the mall and everyone looks at you like he is such a nice Daddy, dont think so, bang the girl until you get tired of the nappy dugout, serious relations with women who have kids is a dead issue with me, I want a women without a kid so I can share that experience with her. IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1661) |
posted August 14, 2000 11:25 AM
I am with you Havoc on that one, I was thinking the same thing at first. But after hanging out with her a bunch of times I am thinking of giving it a shot. Once ina blue moon do I find a girl that I like talking to and who is hot as hell to boot. I'm going ot play along and see what happens. I figure I'll sacrifice 1 day a week to hang out with the little tot for 4-5 nights of banging mommy. IP: Logged |
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havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 746) |
posted August 14, 2000 11:31 AM
Sounds like an even swap to me, 5 sessions of banging with mommy for an hour or two of Barney songs, I would be a purple dino loving mofo my damn self, excellent choice THICK DOG. IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1661) |
posted August 14, 2000 11:38 AM
Did I mention that mommy likes to toke it up(only when her kid isn't around), go to strip joints with her hottie friends and critique the strippers, and bet on football games? IP: Logged |
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Romeo Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 865) |
posted August 14, 2000 01:10 PM
well i was banging a mommy for a few months ..then she caught on to my game....she turned to me one day and said ...how come you only call ,me at 5am when you get home from a bar..i didnt know what to say..so i was like ummm..i do not we hang out all the time..she said yeah at 5am...well to make a long story short ..she said .ahe wanted to see me more cause she didnt like it ...so i said sorry cant happen...my life is too busy for you ..felt bad but hey fuck it
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supersizeme Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 103) |
posted August 14, 2000 02:34 PM
TD she sounds cool - give it a shot but don't let it get to the point where she's completely hooked on you and starts seeing how you could be a great daddy. Make sure if you ever go to a titty bar with her and critique strippers that you give us a full report on how it goes. And please leave the llamas out of it. IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1661) |
posted August 14, 2000 02:44 PM
Supersize, the first time we went to the Strip joint we were all fucked up at 3 in the morning. It was me, her, and about 5 of her friends and one of their husbands. The strippers at this place were'nt all that impressive. They say that next time they will take me to a better one. Overall, I'd have to give the experience about an 8 1/2 on a scale of 1 to 10. I would have given it a 7 1/2, but the Blowjob I got at the end of the night bumped it up a full point. More experience to come.... IP: Logged |
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supersizeme Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 103) |
posted August 14, 2000 02:54 PM
That's cool TD. I hear you on the baggage thing though. I met a girl this past Friday night at this bar who was pretty cool and we exchanged numbers and then went out Saturday night. I didn't really know too much about her so when we were out Saturday night I was interested to see how much baggage this girl was gonna have brought along. Turns out she's 25 (I'm 25 too) and had gotten married at like 21 and just got her divorce finalized in April. Didn't really bother me at all cuz she's a cool chick but it just makes you realize that you were smart not to get married young and have kids and whatnot. Come to think of it I didn't ask her if she had any kids because I just assumed she didn't because she lives by herself and there was no sign of any kids in her apartment. Maybe more hidden baggage that I just didn't ask about. Oh well. Good luck with yours bro and keep getting blown. IP: Logged |
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supersizeme Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 103) |
posted August 14, 2000 02:54 PM
That's cool TD. I hear you on the baggage thing though. I met a girl this past Friday night at this bar who was pretty cool and we exchanged numbers and then went out Saturday night. I didn't really know too much about her so when we were out Saturday night I was interested to see how much baggage this girl was gonna have brought along. Turns out she's 25 (I'm 25 too) and had gotten married at like 21 and just got her divorce finalized in April. Didn't really bother me at all cuz she's a cool chick but it just makes you realize that you were smart not to get married young and have kids and whatnot. Come to think of it I didn't ask her if she had any kids because I just assumed she didn't because she lives by herself and there was no sign of any kids in her apartment. Maybe more hidden baggage that I just didn't ask about. Oh well. Good luck with yours bro and keep getting blown. Hey I'm pro now. Go me. IP: Logged |
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Dexter Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 792) |
posted August 14, 2000 03:31 PM
Thick dog, I've enjoyed reading this thread; there have been some pretty good comments. Without (hopefully) sounding like an old geezer, when I was 25 the idea of dating a lady who had a child was so frightening (good conversation, good head or not) as to not warrant any consideration at all. It was the "baggage" thing: someone else's kid, additional responsibilities and time, etc. Kids always scared the shit out of me. Simply not worth it. Now, at 42 (still no kids) I'm dating a lady the same age as me. And she has two teenagers, one guy ready to go off to college, the other a very bright, vivacious, pretty 11-year-old girl who really likes me and whom I like. I've been rethinking this whole "baggage" thing. What she has is not baggage at all, but some great kids who can really enrich my life. I think I'm ready for the next step. Good luck to you. Dexter ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1661) |
posted August 14, 2000 03:44 PM
Thanks Dexter, it's good to hear other's experiences with kids of all ages. Slopain/Curry- I hear Curry eats the offspring whenever he moves in on female with some youngsters. lol IP: Logged |
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rancid Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 63) |
posted August 14, 2000 03:48 PM
one thing is for sure her son will become a part of your life if you become serious about her, so if you like this girl more than for her sexual persuasion you should get to know her son and hopefully accept and start loving him as you would her, becuz he should be first in her life, as any mother will tell you. IP: Logged |
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ralphe Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 225) |
posted August 14, 2000 05:23 PM
Just be sure that you wish to continue the relationship......the child will become very attached to you very quickly...that is great if you can handle it....the problem comes when you dump mommy and the child looses yet another significant person from their lives......think of the child also.... Later, IP: Logged |
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Checkmatebloated Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 881) |
posted August 14, 2000 05:34 PM
You said she like giving head. SOLD!!!! IP: Logged |
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YellowD98 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 519) |
posted August 14, 2000 05:53 PM
Is the kid too big to fit down the toilet? Ok, bad joke. Anyhow, the guys are right, kids will get attatched to you if you seem like a father type figure. Then if you ever want to end the relationship, you're worried about the darn kid as much as the woman whose giving you head. Just act yourself, and take it easy... buy him some toys or something to let him know you're not just interested in stealing his mom. IP: Logged |
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HackN2it Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 164) |
posted August 14, 2000 05:58 PM
Don't go overboard to fast! Make sure the chick really digs you for you and not for how you treat her kid, Don't shoplift the pootie! If you two click that's great! Treat her and her kid right and I wish you all the best... Hack ------------------ IP: Logged |
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MattTheSkywalker Moderator (Total posts: 1327) |
posted August 14, 2000 06:46 PM
Thick, First of all, single moms can be awesome girlfriends because they are usually a little more mature and a little less "me-oriented". I think kids are great so I don't really see it as baggage at all. Don't make a decision on the relationship just because she has a kid. I say go for it - I don't think you'll be disappointed. Matt IP: Logged |
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Stillhere Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 55) |
posted August 14, 2000 06:52 PM
Well be prepared for the father of those kids showing up one day. Kick his ass for leaving those kids! Anyways, she might become something special, so keep it to yourself if she gives you good head. ENJOY YOUR LIFE NOW, I HAVE'NT "STILLHERE AFTER ALL THE SHIT" IP: Logged |
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Future One Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 183) |
posted August 14, 2000 08:30 PM
Hmm...no women have answered this post yet... ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Siryn Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 7) |
posted August 14, 2000 09:01 PM
Kay, I guess I'm the first girl to post. Hey dudes chill out...if you've had little experience with girlz and their kidz, then you need to at least test the waters. If you like the girl, get to know the kid(s) too. Kids can be a blast. Heck, if you're bored or the kid gets outta hand, just tie him to a tree..my bro always loved that shit. But seriously, if you like the girl, at least give the kid a chance. Good luck bro. ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1296) |
posted August 14, 2000 09:45 PM
OKAY TD, I AM HERE AT NIGHT FOR YOU! I HAVE TO SAY THAT ME PERSONALLY HAVE NO KIDS, NEVER WANT ANY EITHER, BUT EVERYONE OF MY GIRL FRIENDS HAVE THEM, AND YES THEY CAN BE FUN AND A PAIN IN THE ASS AT TIMES. HOW NICE WAS THAT NOW? NO SEX TALK! LOL :p IP: Logged |
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DarkAngel Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 12) |
posted August 14, 2000 09:59 PM
Im a single mom with a 2 year old, and I know it took my boyfriend and I 4 months before we got serious. It was not just him, it was me too..its alot on both people. But now, after a year, all 3 of us grew and developed a very close bond. they are right, kids get attached very quickly, so if you are just in it for a good bj every once and a while...don't mess with the kid. Kids nowadays get hurt enough. But..if you think its going somewhere farther than sexually, that kid has to be involved. Just don't teach him any nasty habits...although I bet you want to, huh?? (my son can sweet talk the ladies at the park like you wouldnt believe now!! lol) DarkAngel IP: Logged |
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picasso Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 116) |
posted August 15, 2000 04:21 AM
I agree with MattSkywalker.I'm a single dad,I could give my views but it's different than what a chick goes thru. All I can say is being a parent is an awesome responsibilty and if she's a good mother.......well if you're gonna become involved in the childs' life too then you have to step up and remember how vulnerable kids are.If you think you're just gonna fuck around for a few weeks and split then stay away from the kid or just split now. IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1661) |
posted August 15, 2000 08:55 AM
Thanks everyone for all the advice and experiences. I am going to take things as they come and not make any rules, just kind of go with the flow. Of course, I'll always keep the door open for DLADY..... IP: Logged |
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