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superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 521) |
posted August 10, 2000 11:26 PM
  
I have a theory I wanted to throw out to see what you bros have to say about it. As of late Im getting a little confused: Girls say they want a guy that isnt rushing into sex, which makes some sense since it shows concern to get to know each other first. What Ive seen is sometimes when I actually act this way and dont act interested in sex, I sense that the girl thinks Im whipped by her or I dont be a man and go get what I really want from her. Sometimes its not an act I put on just to win them over so they cant say they saw right through me or some shit. On the other hand, whenever Ive had sex with a girl pretty soon, we had a relationship of some sort that lasted some amount of time. I guess my conclusion from what I see is women say one thing but respond to another and when I try to do the good thing, they dont recognize that, so in order to actually get girls to respond will I have to get them in bed? Or is there something Im missing? Yes, I know getting them in bed will make them form an attachent more often than not, but its getting old and I wanted to actually try a more positive method with the girls. Sorry for the long post, just wanted some feedback bros. IP: Logged |
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kram696969 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 534) |
posted August 11, 2000 12:05 AM
well, as according to me. nothing lasts anywayz. not any relationships..not happily anywayz...it all comes to a crashing hault some day...but thats just me...others will have a different story. i say find'em, fuck'em, and flee'em..heh. from eazy e. but right now i dont even bother with them. call me gay, but at least i have more time to myself and do what "I" want to do..  kram-mark IP: Logged |
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NYJuicer Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 101) |
posted August 11, 2000 01:10 AM
Kram.. you've just described every essence of what I feel about girls... I've just had a horrible breakup with my live-in girlfriend of 2 1/2 years.. and believe me.. it was a major crash... major complications and major depression/drugs afterwards... IP: Logged |
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mystic_hormones Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 260) |
posted August 11, 2000 01:40 AM
I was thinking too and I came up with this. this was today at the gym. I actually love the gym more than I would want to be with any girl. they are a nuisance somewhat and I say this, to hell with girls. right now it is about turning into a monster. and remember "men tell the most lies, women say the biggest lies" -chris rock ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Frackal Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 736) |
posted August 11, 2000 02:34 AM
RIGHT ON MYSTIC HORMONES. THOSE ARE MY SENTIMENTS EXACLTLY. IP: Logged |
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rimmer Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 8) |
posted August 11, 2000 05:48 AM
From my few experiences I would say that girls like to have sex very soon, but what most girls don't like is obscene talk (maybe later but not in the beginning of a relationship). So I would say that go for sex, but don't talk about it. Just do it =) I agree with you guys, many times I would rather go training than to go to visit my girlfriend IP: Logged |
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~~~SlickassBiatch~~~ Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 24) |
posted August 11, 2000 06:29 AM
Well i am a woman  and i think, once you have sex the more complicated the whole situation gets. And if it happens too soon, then ya definately got problems. and when you say youve tried this(acting non-interested in the sex)the girl thinks your whipped, just how long where you acting that way? From my point of view i'd say 95% of men bum rush the whole sex thing . I personally like it if a guy acted uninterested in it,not TOTALLY uninterested, but maybe just act like its not the MOST important thing. You always remember how someone treats you in the beginning of a relationship, or at least i think women do. So it definately should start out on the right path..........good luck. IP: Logged |
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havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 730) |
posted August 11, 2000 06:59 AM
Come on Superdave , every girl is different and react differently to whatever situation they may be in. No one person is the same, judge a person by that person only, dont stereotype others because of an experience with another. I think you theory holds truth to that specific girl you are speaking of. IP: Logged |
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Fitnes1 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 202) |
posted August 11, 2000 09:27 AM
- how about a female's point of view? Take havoc's advice. No two girls are the same. Also, always be honest & treat them like you'd like to be treated. Don't compare them to a previous relationship (unless your having fun w/ it). This always turned me off when a guy told me, i.e. "Your not like the girl I just broke up with...." ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1616) |
posted August 11, 2000 09:48 AM
It's kind of a turn off if you have sex too soon, I think, in terms of relationships that is. Believe me, I am all for taking a girl home from a bar and using her as a human fuckdoll for a few hours then never speaking to her again. But when it comes to relationships, I like girls who give it up after 2-3 dates. If there is no challenge and it happens too soon, like the 1st date or 1st or 2nd meeting, then it can get boring quick. I don't know what the hell I'm trying to say....just stick to the one night stands. IP: Logged |
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superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 521) |
posted August 11, 2000 03:51 PM
Damn, weve already been out 4 times, so according to thickdog it's time to kick it up a notch! hehe IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1616) |
posted August 11, 2000 03:54 PM
Time to give her the full-court press, Dave. HeHe IP: Logged |
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Superstar2b Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 41) |
posted August 11, 2000 04:50 PM
Havoc's right - don't judge girls from one to the next. What turns one on turns the next one off. When I met my boyfriend he did not act interested in sex..he even stopped me when I was ready to move on up a notch. This drove me crazy and I wanted him even more. Eventually I got my way - and keep getting it every night! I guess its based on what you're looking for - a one night stand or a longer relationship? Best way a I found to be with someone for longer then a few nights is to be friends with them for awhile first - that you know if you really want to be with this person or not. Good luck! IP: Logged |
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madbomber31 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 483) |
posted August 11, 2000 05:13 PM
hey thick dog, way to be patient man... my girl wanted to wait "a long time" before anything happened.... it didnt last LONG at all they may say it, but when it comes down to it, they like sex every bit as much as we do. they just like the emotional shit too. IP: Logged |
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superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 521) |
posted August 11, 2000 05:22 PM
Yea bomber, thats the same thing about this girl im seeing now, she wants to wait for sex, but she spends the night at my place and we dry hump and she has orgasms and stuff! what the fuck? It might be time to dust off the ol' Player's Manual.... IP: Logged |
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superdave Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 521) |
posted August 11, 2000 08:55 PM
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