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homewrecker
Pro Bodybuilder
(Total posts: 107)
posted August 08, 2000 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for homewrecker     Edit/Delete Message
Ive been with the same chick for two years now, and she is a very beautiful girl, great shape too! The problem is that she wont make the moves on me unless I try to fuck her first, and then she complains that its because I "Need to be nicer to her" This is such a crock of shit. I am a Fairly hardcore bodybuilder and my sex drive is usually insane. This chick just does not understand that I want it all the time. I am starting to fantasize about other broads now, although I really do love this girl, which is weird, I dont know what to do....Any Help

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MattTheSkywalker
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posted August 09, 2000 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MattTheSkywalker   Click Here to Email MattTheSkywalker     Edit/Delete Message
Even after two years, it seems as though she is not comfortabkle inher sexuality.

Weird, but then again most women are.

If you love her, you need to talk to her about it......if she's worht staying with, it's worth being up front with her.

If she evades it, she's a loser. Drop her.

Matt

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The Dude
Pro Bodybuilder
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posted August 09, 2000 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Dude   Click Here to Email The Dude     Edit/Delete Message
Bingo, communication is the key. If she is a rare breed that doesn't want to talk things out...wow, I honestly don't know what I'd do there.

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missgalaxy
Pro Bodybuilder
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posted August 09, 2000 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missgalaxy   Click Here to Email missgalaxy     Edit/Delete Message
Have you tried not making any advances on her for a while to she if she will??

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seeseerider
Pro Bodybuilder
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posted August 09, 2000 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeseerider     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 70537912
boy you have a lot of things to learn about women!! first,your attitude about sex is wrong to begin with,secondly woman dont want to fuck they want to make love..unless you change your way toward her...you wont get anything..i am 35 i was just like you at your age..grow up kid;-) its guy like you who gives man a bad reputation!!!!

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missgalaxy
Pro Bodybuilder
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posted August 09, 2000 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missgalaxy   Click Here to Email missgalaxy     Edit/Delete Message
Seeseerider sounds like a smart man

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seeseerider
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posted August 09, 2000 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeseerider     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 70537912
thanks;-)

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Checkmatebloated
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posted August 09, 2000 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Checkmatebloated   Click Here to Email Checkmatebloated     Edit/Delete Message
Get a girl that likes to phuk and make love. she will know the difference. A drunks play night you phuk. A nice night out with candle light, wine, and a carriage ride, you make love.

I want a lady in public and a whore in bed!!!!!

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Slopain
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posted August 09, 2000 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Slopain   Click Here to Email Slopain     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 71360584
Well Ill be on the flipside of the making love nonsense but at this point in the relationship I suppose its too late to do anything about it without breaking up with her. Let me tell you a short story:

Slopain plays many girls in college years treats them badly --> These girls treat Slopain like a god. Why? Because Slopain first treated these girls like pooh and if they wanted to hook up they had to make the effort - they like the fact that Slopain played around (oddly) and they wanted soemthing that they new was in demand.

Fast foward a couple years - Slopain meets a girl he has known for 9 years, had a thing for off and on for a while - they had stopped talking for 3 years, she gives him a heartwarming letter on his birthday of his last year in college. They meet and that is that, Slopain likes the girl alot and b/c he is so busy with work and "real life" he stays fairly true to her and stops juggling so many females. End result: girl gets spoiled and used to all the attention Slopain wanted to afford. Slopain now has a problem with a girl (who is the hottest damn latina this side of salma h/jenifer l) who is just too damned demanding. Love her, but damn if it aint high maintenance (not $ wise, shes good with that but time/energy wise)

Moral: Treat them a little worse than you want to when you first meat them, they wont expect as much so if you do ever end up hooking up with them for good you can constantly amaze them with you good you have been treating them (b/c their comparing to when you first met)

I'll let all you make lovers and romantics start the flames.....now.

Slopain (telling you how it is, not how it should be)

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missgalaxy
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posted August 09, 2000 08:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missgalaxy   Click Here to Email missgalaxy     Edit/Delete Message
No flames Slo

sounds like you've played the game a few times & sounds likeyou think ya got things figured out.

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sandiegomike
Amateur Bodybuilder
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posted August 09, 2000 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sandiegomike   Click Here to Email sandiegomike     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 70005435
sounds like you need a girl more like yourself. i have gone out with girls who never wanted sex, all the way up to a girl that was hornier than any GUY i ever new. it is important to find someone you are sexually compatable with, i have gone through this myself.

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special_bill
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posted August 09, 2000 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for special_bill   Click Here to Email special_bill     Edit/Delete Message
roll your slo, player....hahaha....sounds like you got a handful...

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Future One
Pro Bodybuilder
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posted August 09, 2000 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Future One     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 5410509
Never had a girlfriend, and probably never will, all that matters to me if to be a damn 200lbs RIPPED!!! maybe even 215-220lbs! If I'm gonna die lonely, them at least I'll be built dammit!!

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missgalaxy
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posted August 09, 2000 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missgalaxy   Click Here to Email missgalaxy     Edit/Delete Message
never had a girlfriend, yeah right.

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Romeo
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posted August 09, 2000 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Romeo   Click Here to Email Romeo     Edit/Delete Message
galaxy i have never had a girl either ..i have in the words of blackhaus..had fuck buddies..but never a girlfriend..


peace romeo

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MattTheSkywalker
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posted August 09, 2000 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MattTheSkywalker   Click Here to Email MattTheSkywalker     Edit/Delete Message
Romeo,

Blackhaus was your fuck buddy?

Oops....

Matt


looks like I started shit again

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Kaisersosay
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posted August 09, 2000 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kaisersosay   Click Here to Email Kaisersosay     Edit/Delete Message
Not to be a dick,but maybe shes getting elsewere.

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Portugese Man-O-War
Amateur Bodybuilder
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posted August 10, 2000 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Portugese Man-O-War   Click Here to Email Portugese Man-O-War     Edit/Delete Message
The monster jellyfish had a woman pull that on him once. He quickly grabbed her by the ears, placed his nuts on her chin, got some much needed release, then told her to hit the bricks. Sounds like it may be time to move on.

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Vanguard
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posted August 10, 2000 08:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vanguard   Click Here to Email Vanguard     Edit/Delete Message
Theres no shame on cheating on her. heres the way out, dont tell her. Problem solved!

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havoc
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posted August 10, 2000 08:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for havoc   Click Here to Email havoc     Edit/Delete Message
I kind of agree what Vanguard said, if you were married(marriage is a pact, 100% obligation)if would be another story and I would say hell no, but if you do cheat then just keep it to yourself.

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rancid
Amateur Bodybuilder
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posted August 10, 2000 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rancid     Edit/Delete Message
well it seems as if she's wanting something that your not giving her either respect or more of the things that she wants ( what that is I hope you know?) anyway if you really love her, your thinking of other broads is just a trivial passing phase. grow up be a man and treat her right and make her happy, you'll be the one that wins in the end.

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Kwai-Chang Caine
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posted August 10, 2000 11:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kwai-Chang Caine     Edit/Delete Message
Hey Slo!
If you don't want your Salma Hyack look alike, I'll take her.
I'll trade you a 1993 topps Tony Gwynn card for her straight up!

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Slopain
Pro Bodybuilder
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posted August 10, 2000 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Slopain   Click Here to Email Slopain     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 71360584
hmm I can't do that maybe a Ken Grifeey Jr. Upper Deck Rookie Card though.

j/k wouldn't trade her for the world, hmm maybe to be 250 ripped.. nah j/k

Slopain

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Thick dog
Pro Bodybuilder
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posted August 10, 2000 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thick dog     Edit/Delete Message
I like the Man-O-War's idea. A nice evenly distributed facial can ease the tension in many a relationship, well, your tension at least.

Slopain- I have an OJ Simpson rookie autographed in blood if your interested.

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Your_Moms_Kneepads
Pro Bodybuilder
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posted August 16, 2000 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Your_Moms_Kneepads   Click Here to Email Your_Moms_Kneepads     Edit/Delete Message
Matt is right.Talk to her. When people are in love there is a time for making love and down and nasty fucking-you need to mix it up.
I hate to say "dump her" because she doesn't want sex the same way as you do but you said it yourself-you are starting to desire other women. Infidelity will destroy everything and crush feelings of partners.
Sex is a huge issue-especially in younger years. If it doesnt work out find someone who is JUST LIKE YOU!

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