posted August 07, 2000 10:34 AM         

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Just thought I might give a helpful hint to all you guys out there that really love your girl and don't show it as often as you would like....I must be the luckiest girl in the world!! I came home from a business trip last night to find that my sexy, gorgeous, wonderful, thoughtful (I could go on forever)man was at my apartment waiting for me....with candles lit, beautiful flowers in a vase that he got for me on the table and to top it all off...underneath that a big box full of Victoria's Secret "stuff"....It was so nice to come home from a long trip knowing that the someone specail in my life missed me as much as I missed him and took the added effort to show me how much he cares and thought about me while I was gone.....and this is just one of the many things he does to show me how much he cares...I'm truly blessed to have him in my life....and I wanted to share this with you just incase you might want to show the someone special in your life just how special they are....I know when he does this for me...even if it's just a sweet note in the middle of the day or a phone call or a smile or word of encouragement when I need it....it goes a long way and makes me feel truly loved...I hope all you ladies are as blessed as I am :-)

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posted August 07, 2000 12:18 PM            

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hey girl good for you love is something special i hope i find it some .day.just not now cause im too young ...but good for you

peace romeo

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posted August 07, 2000 12:30 PM            

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Tell your man nice work, and keep it up.

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posted August 07, 2000 12:56 PM         

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Rotten: Believe me I did...and do!!!

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posted August 07, 2000 12:59 PM         

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Sounds like you found yourself a keeper. Try not to let him get away. Best wishes.

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posted August 07, 2000 01:02 PM         

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Thick dog: I think you're right....believe me I won't!!!!

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posted August 07, 2000 01:12 PM            

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Fitnessbarbie, I have a man like that, too! I think it's great when we can find that SPECIAL MAN! I like being treated like a lady & not a piece of meat. Also, I hate to hear the phrase, "My old lady....." Well, I don't look old nor feel old; therefore, my husband doesn't ever say that about me. We respect each other and don't take each other for granted. I think it's important to have that in a relationship now. Glad to hear you have a SPECIAL one, too!

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posted August 07, 2000 01:36 PM            

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My wife turned 44 last week. We've been married 23 years. She'll never be my "old lady". I work out-she doesn't. I don't care. She's the sexiest woman I know--and ever want to know. Love's a lifetime.

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posted August 07, 2000 01:51 PM         

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"Who let the dogs out!"

...just kidding. Sounds like a great night there FitnessBarbie. You must have gave him quite a rompin'. I don't mean that in a bad way but its just that I really did to my girl last night after I did something nice for her too.

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posted August 07, 2000 01:55 PM         

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arcboss: I'm glad to hear that....I hope my husband loves me like that some day.

BigPappa: Be careful, I think your soft side is coming out...I'm glad to hear you treat your girl well too!!!

Ain't love grand!!!!!!

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posted August 07, 2000 03:22 PM            

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let us know when the two week anniversary rolls around..j/k...if ya'll have been going out awhile and he still goes the extra mile, you must be doing something right...dont forget to return the favor...

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posted August 07, 2000 03:32 PM            

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The thing is if you do that for some broads they wont like it and they will think your a pussy. You call them fat and they like you.

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posted August 07, 2000 03:38 PM            

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i hear ya vangaurd....its like ya leave one dead cat on the hood of their car and they never want to hear from you again...whats up wit dat?

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posted August 07, 2000 04:18 PM         

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special_bill: We've been together for almost a year now....I agree some girls don't appreciate a good man....but I for one can say that I very much appreciate what I have!!

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posted August 07, 2000 05:33 PM            

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Good for You girl! I have to say though with all the kids running around it's a little difficult for us to do things like that anymore. (They won't be living in my house FOREVER though, so I'll bide my time.) ....wait a minute, just how do you think WE GOT ALL THOSE KIDS?! Get out while you can , RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!! j/k

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posted August 07, 2000 05:58 PM            

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good luck in the future

kram-mark
just do'in my best...

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posted August 07, 2000 06:07 PM            

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Now remember. You need to take 20mins out of your day everyonce and a while and meet him for lunch and give him a BJ in the car. That his how I would like you to show me your love and appreciation for me.

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posted August 07, 2000 09:37 PM            

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Bump (in case my boyfriend is checking this board today)

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posted August 07, 2000 10:03 PM            

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It's possible that your boyfriend could just be feeling guilty for cheating on you. Or he is so self-concious that he felt that while you were away you were looking at other men and considering other options.... and he wanted to nip that in the butt before it gets ot of hand. ***Just playing the devils-advocate. ***

We'll see what happens....................

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posted August 08, 2000 09:01 AM         

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lorenzo: I'm sorry that you have to go to the negative side of this...maybe you are speaking from experience...there are some guys out there that do nice things for their girls because they really love them...not because they feel guilty for something they did....I guess I'm just one of the lucky ones...I found a good man!

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