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MIKAI Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 181) |
posted August 06, 2000 05:35 AM
  
Hi, OK i need some advice here I have been seeing this girl for a while and we have been having sex for about a month but i dont really have any deep feelings for her yeh i like her and do care about her but i dont have that something special that i had with my last girlfriend. Well I was intrested in this other girl a while back but she disapeared and lo and behold she turned up again last night we where chatting for a while and i got her a couple of drinks like you do but anay way i could not lead her on as i knew she was intrested and so was i. I have not been intrested in a relationship for a long time or whanting to start one off but there is somthing about this girl and i can see it going quite far you know that feeling you get about someone and you end up loveing them with all you have well that's what i have got. But i think that the other girl im seeing has feelings for me and i dont want to hurt her but i dont want to keep it going if i do not love her and i dont think i do Shit i care about the girl and have shared myself with with her so I guess there are feeling there but not enough to keep me completly happy. I did not do anything with the other girl but i could have but it would not feel right when i was seeing someone else i cant cheat on somone it would kill me i did once and could not stand the guilt at all and all i did was kiss another girl but felt so bad about it it killed me and i guess lead to the relationship finishing. What do you think i should do Should i try finishing it...? If stay and let her get more attached I may find that im in a relationship where i dont love her and would only be cheating myself and ultamately would be unhappy. But i also know that the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. Im also jiuceing and work aout alot the one im with knows this and is ok but if the other girl found out she may not want to have anything to do with me but then again mybe if she finds im hideing stuff from her she will think i maybe have another one on the go..! Why is my life so complicated...! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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madbomber31 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 474) |
posted August 06, 2000 03:17 PM
first of all... why the hell do people only get out of a relationship to get into another??? why not be alone for the right reason??? anyway, tell her you want to see other people, but you would still see her... or just be honest and say you need to know if your doing the right thing by being with her. if she cant understand that then fuck her (literally one last time  )being single isnt that bad. i see so many people go from relationship to relationship cuz they are so dependant on other people... see other people, maybe still see her... then you can find out if the grass is greener and you can do whatever the hell you want. IP: Logged |
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MIKAI Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 181) |
posted August 07, 2000 05:02 AM
Hi, I have been single for about a year and a half and have been with this girl for about a month...! I just dont love her and dont want to continue a loveless realtionship as at the moment its just sex but i think she really likes me..! do you see now..! ------------------ IP: Logged |
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