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Vanguard
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posted August 04, 2000 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vanguard   Click Here to Email Vanguard     Edit/Delete Message
What do you think of a woman who has cheated on her husband?

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The Dude
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posted August 04, 2000 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Dude   Click Here to Email The Dude     Edit/Delete Message
I don't know if I can really answer your question. Call me naive or idealistic, but I've just never understood cheating. I have a terrible time grasping it, but that's my perspective. With that said, I guess I can say that it's a big deal, a big problem. It doesn't have to be the end, but...

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pizza man
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posted August 04, 2000 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pizza man     Edit/Delete Message
vanguard, i was going to take kids to mall, and i saw your post pop up, i couldnt resist it. i actualy think it depends on the relationship, and if any kids and years invested and if you can forgive her, ME i would divorce her in a minute, i,m very lucky though i,m in such an open relationship (swinging) If i wasn,t in this type of lifestlye i would for sure walk out on her.

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special_bill
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posted August 04, 2000 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for special_bill   Click Here to Email special_bill     Edit/Delete Message
i dont know...i heard you can ask OJ on line...

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pizza man
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posted August 04, 2000 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pizza man     Edit/Delete Message
vanguard, please dont tell me that the reason for this post is something happened between you and your wife?

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special_bill
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posted August 04, 2000 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for special_bill   Click Here to Email special_bill     Edit/Delete Message
yeah- sorry to be so flippant...hope nothings up....i would lose my mind if my wife cheated on me...if i was married..

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Latimer
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posted August 04, 2000 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Latimer     Edit/Delete Message
Listen to the song Kim by Eminem. That's what I'd do.

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Romeo
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posted August 04, 2000 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Romeo   Click Here to Email Romeo     Edit/Delete Message
FUCK THAT SCANK HOE ...SHE IS USELESS ..THROW HER ASS TO THE CURB..AFTER YOU FUCKING MAKE SURE SHE HAS NOTHING

PEACE ROMEO

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ryry
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posted August 04, 2000 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ryry   Click Here to Email ryry     Edit/Delete Message
BITCH!! plain and simple, ain't no excuse for that shit...

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"The race is long... and in the end, it's only with yourself."

"The greatest risk is not taking one."


[This message has been edited by ryry (edited August 04, 2000).]

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Slopain
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posted August 04, 2000 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Slopain   Click Here to Email Slopain     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 71360584
What kind of question is that??!

thats like:
what do you think of men you rape boys?

or

what do you think of moms who smoke crack when they are pregnant.

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madbomber31
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posted August 04, 2000 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for madbomber31     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 6776073
well, you could go the way of pizza man and just chalk it up to swinging...

or you could be a man and send her packing... no bitch is worth that.

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pizza man
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posted August 04, 2000 10:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pizza man     Edit/Delete Message
a , good point go fuck the other mans wife. yea but mad bomber that is totoly against swinging, in swinging you have permission from your mate, w/o permission it is adultry and yes cheating.

[This message has been edited by pizza man (edited August 04, 2000).]

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Vanguard
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posted August 05, 2000 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vanguard   Click Here to Email Vanguard     Edit/Delete Message
What Im saying is Ive been with some married woman and I never thought of them as whores, evil or whatever. Maybe I can rationalize, but I still think a great deal of them . . . Now if it was my wife. (Im not married)

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Hotblood
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posted August 05, 2000 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hotblood   Click Here to Email Hotblood     Edit/Delete Message
This happened to me. I was never at home, I was always working. The bitch cheated on me, without a doubt she is a slut!! She could of talked to me about how she was feeling and I would of changed something I was doing.

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HackN2it
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posted August 05, 2000 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HackN2it     Edit/Delete Message
I'm not married yet but I think I'm going to right in the "Chipper Clause", If you want to be a cheat then you can leave! Through the chipper and into the fucking river you go!!! Take care!


Hack

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bikinimom
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posted August 05, 2000 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bikinimom   Click Here to Email bikinimom     Edit/Delete Message
...and I am sure none of you guys has ever cheated?

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Hindustan
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posted August 05, 2000 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hindustan   Click Here to Email Hindustan     Edit/Delete Message
I would BEAT the ever living FUCK out the dude she is sleeping with. I don't care if he is twice my size and can benchpress 200 % of his weight! I will bring bats, chains etc. He will know that I was there! I would then drag that lifeless excuse of a man over to my wife and blame her for the entire predament. i would then leave (divorce)!


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HackN2it
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posted August 05, 2000 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HackN2it     Edit/Delete Message
bikinimom, I would never have the heart to cheat. I have hooked up with lots of girls but, I have only had two girlfriends for a combined 7 years. I had plenty of opurtunities too but, I would never do it, not even a kiss.

Hack

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bikinimom
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posted August 05, 2000 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bikinimom   Click Here to Email bikinimom     Edit/Delete Message
...Unless the woman in question is receiving $ in exchange for her services, did the thought ever occur to any of you He-man that the reasons for cheating are a little more complicated than just beating the shit out of everyone involved and then walking away?

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Rexie317
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posted August 05, 2000 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rexie317   Click Here to Email Rexie317     Edit/Delete Message
I'd find out what happened, then the ass kickin would ensue. I'm not sure what I'd do if I walked in on them, though.
BM: What ya get at the store?

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bikinimom
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posted August 05, 2000 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bikinimom   Click Here to Email bikinimom     Edit/Delete Message
Brotha Rexie, you talkin' about "Adult entertianment" or grocery shopping?

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Rexie317
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posted August 05, 2000 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rexie317   Click Here to Email Rexie317     Edit/Delete Message
Well I was talkin bout groceries...but since you mentioned adult entertainment lets hear that too.

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bikinimom
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posted August 05, 2000 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bikinimom   Click Here to Email bikinimom     Edit/Delete Message
Well, it's like this....What's make you think that I was the one who went to the grocery store? ....Just because I got the rack it does not automatically mean that I go to buy the groceries ...Although my hubby's got a rack too (harder than mine, but a rack nonetheless!)

He hasn't come back yet, so I don't know. But sugarfree icepops and tofutti pops - sounds gross but they are a treat while I can still have them!

And as for the videos ...it's been a while. All this talk about them has made me think that perhaps I should take one of the recommendations and surprize the old man!

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Rexie317
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posted August 05, 2000 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rexie317   Click Here to Email Rexie317     Edit/Delete Message
And a nice rack it is.
What the hell is a tofutti?
Wish I could help ya with a video selection but I jst download whatever I can find on the net.

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bikinimom
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posted August 05, 2000 10:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bikinimom   Click Here to Email bikinimom     Edit/Delete Message
Tofutti is like Manna from heaven!

Is Tofu ice cream. Before you vomit, I'm eight weeks out from my next comp - it's dairy free, sugar free and only 30 cals per fudgecicle (sp? - hell, i'm too tired to look it up) So to me - it's pretty freaking yummy!

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thefantom1
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posted August 06, 2000 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thefantom1   Click Here to Email thefantom1     Edit/Delete Message
Whether it was the wife or the husband..it is wrong. It is a total betrayal of trust. I have been on both sides of the issue (never married though) when I was younger. One I never got over and it was my fault. I am older now (a whoppin 32) and wiser. It's funny though that now that I have been single it seems that if I go to a bar or somewhere I am a magnet for married women out with the girls. It really pisses me off cuz I can sit there have a great conversation with them and then I always ask if they are married. If they tell me they are I tell them it was nice meeting you and move away...no matter how hot they are. If they want to cheat on their husbands than they can do it without me. Besides..if she ended up getting divorced and you guys hooked up...Do you not think she would pull the same crap on you??? (or vice versa...him pulling crap on her) Ok.. Im done ranting and will shut my mouth now. :-)

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Rotten
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posted August 07, 2000 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rotten   Click Here to Email Rotten     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 42393758
If its true and you love her than I'm sorry. I've been there and it hurts like hell. There's only one thing you can do...

Go on with your life. Oh yeah, wait til she falls asleep and jerk off in her face so when she wakes up the next morning her eyes will be glued shut. Worked for me. I felt alot better that next morning. Oh yeah, turn off all the water in your house so she can't wash it off. Or maybe this, put Nair in her shampoo bottle. Just a few ideas. But unless you have a few mil lying around, don't kill her. Johny Cockran isn't cheap. Ask OJ

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Thick dog
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posted August 07, 2000 09:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thick dog     Edit/Delete Message
I would be happy if I was the one she was cheating with. Otherwise, I'd find it disgraceful. What a great set of morals I have,eh?

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Formula
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posted August 07, 2000 09:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Formula   Click Here to Email Formula     Edit/Delete Message
What do you consider cheating? A tap kiss, a light tongue, the Lewinski, or just intercourse?

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XdawgX
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posted August 07, 2000 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for XdawgX     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 2473175
i've said it once and i'll say it again:

people who cheat on their s.o. = garbage wrapped in skin

maybe that's a bit harsh, but i think you get an idea about how i feel on the matter.

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Slopain
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posted August 07, 2000 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Slopain   Click Here to Email Slopain     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 71360584
Anything sexual, with another person is cheating period. I don't give a shit if you touch the person in a certain way, or flirt too much, or gaze upon someone, or even if you never do shit with that person but tell all your girlfriends what youd do to him if you weren't married. All disrespectfull, and all cheating. No excuses, if your not happy then communicate with your hubby/bf or get out. Bikinimom, it sounds as though your are a little defensive on this topic...have you cheated on your hubby?

Slopain

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PimpAssMoFo
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posted August 07, 2000 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PimpAssMoFo   Click Here to Email PimpAssMoFo     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 69696969
"You can't make a Ho into a housewife"

"Without trust, there can't be love"

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bikinimom
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posted August 07, 2000 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bikinimom   Click Here to Email bikinimom     Edit/Delete Message
Brotha Slo - I'm very surprized that no one has asked me that question sooner!

Whether I have ever cheated on my husband or not is irrelevant. What is relevant, however, is the prevalence of the "I'll kill the bitch dead first and ask questions later!" attitude. I can not believe that there are THAT MANY of you who do not realize that when a wife (or husband for that matter) cheats on her spouse it is so much more complicated than - she was bored and had nothing better to do. In those particular cases, however, I'd like to know how smart the guy who married her was to begin with!

I have never promised my husband that I would never cheat on him - I have, however, promised that BEFORE I would go outside the confines of our relationship REGARDLESS of the circumstances I would try to resolve whatever problems we were having TOGETHER!

I am not "pro-infidelity" - quite the contrary. I just get REALLY PISSED OFF by the notion that a man is genetically predisposed to be incapable of keeping his pants zipped while a woman should be horse-whipped, drawn and quartered and then burned at the stake if she even LOOKED in another man's direction.

I also do not believe that infidelity alone is a reason to end a marriage.

Has my husband ever been unfaithful to me (there are such things, I believe, as emotional infidelity)? I can say with a great deal of certainty, "No."

Now the one million dollar question, Have I ever been unfaithful to my husband? Like I have said before I do not believe this bears any relevance, however, if it will make some feel better to know.........................

I have been faithful to my husband since our relationship began all those years ago. Not even in my dreams or my most private thoughts have I been untrue. In my dreams, if I am not "with" my husband - he is a man without a face - in other words NO ONE. I have always and still say, "God has yet to make the man that could persuade me to be untrue to myself or my husband, period!" (Not to mention my children. Perhaps my husband could forgive me if I ever were to stray - perhaps I could even forgive myself - BUT THEY WOULD NEVER FORGIVE ME!)

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ryry
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posted August 07, 2000 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ryry   Click Here to Email ryry     Edit/Delete Message

hell yeah bikinimom, now thats what i call a wife...

well this again proves my theory that all good women are taken...

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Superstar2b
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posted August 07, 2000 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Superstar2b   Click Here to Email Superstar2b     Edit/Delete Message
The same thing that I think of husbands that cheat on their wives - there has been something wrong with the relationship and this was the action that finally made it visible. Men/women (for the most part) don't just wake up in the morning & decide to cheat on their partner that day. This is something that has been building up and in their sub-conscience, if not conscientiously making the decision, that they would 'show them' - whether they feel they are being neglected b/c the other works too much, or they pay more attention to their buddies or to their kids, or what ever their reasoning is to have to get even with the other. Its deeper then just "I thought they were good looking" or the old "I got drunk". the root is much deeper then this and needs to be discovered before they can begin to work on healing their relationship.
PS..Why did you state it "what do you think of a woman who cheated on her husband" instead of just saying what do you think of couples that cheat on each other?

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Slopain
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posted August 07, 2000 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Slopain   Click Here to Email Slopain     Edit/Delete Message UIN: 71360584
Well you suprised me on that one Bikinimom, I thought for sure the way you were posting it was going to be a "he wasn't paying enough attention to me/working too much and my BF (man) and I well you know.."

It makes me happy to hear when someone is faithfull - Its getting rarer and rarer by the day it seems huh? and look at me, I am a hypocrite reguarding this topic - well any way good for you bikinimom!

Slopain

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Checkmatebloated
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posted August 07, 2000 08:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Checkmatebloated   Click Here to Email Checkmatebloated     Edit/Delete Message
Divorce. I also see her with broken legs down the road for some reason.

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MattTheSkywalker
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posted August 07, 2000 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MattTheSkywalker   Click Here to Email MattTheSkywalker     Edit/Delete Message
If this is you:

Try to catch her in the act, and kill her. No jury will convict. You'll get probation.

Cheaters are scum - married cheaters don't deserve the air I breathe.

(Pizza, swingers make a conscious choice. Cheaters don't. Call off the dogs.)

Matt

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pizza man
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posted August 07, 2000 10:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pizza man     Edit/Delete Message
i 100% agree swingers are not cheaters.

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CalKid
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posted August 07, 2000 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CalKid   Click Here to Email CalKid     Edit/Delete Message
MattTheSkyWalker -- Actually, if you kill your wife in the act, no jury will convict on murder 1. However, there is a good probability you'll get convicted on voluntary manslaughter. The D.A. won't even bring murder charges because of this reason. (It's called a killing in the heat of passion).

Just my .02cents from my legal experience -- definitely not legal advice though.

I know I wouldn't want to catch my significant other in the "act." I'd rather just find out about it some other way and leave it at that. I mean, it'd really break my heart to walk in the bedroom and see my significant other doing the serious bump 'n grind with some other dude! Just thinking about this shit pisses me off...

[This message has been edited by CalKid (edited August 07, 2000).]

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pizza man
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posted August 07, 2000 10:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pizza man     Edit/Delete Message
You mean you wouldnt join in for 3 some. then kill her.

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pizza man
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posted August 07, 2000 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pizza man     Edit/Delete Message
Call of the dogs???????????????????????????

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