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madbomber31 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 459) |
posted August 01, 2000 05:35 PM
  ok folks... heres the quick of it. i took a job in Tn. i am from MI. i moved 5 months ago and have been dating a girl ever since. i actually love her and thats odd for me to even date someone let alone fall for them. anyway, my job fell through, and i am in a shitty situation... i may have to move back home, but i want to stay here with her. moving back home may be the best for me, but i dont want to hurt this girl. any feedback IP: Logged |
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HackN2it Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 59) |
posted August 01, 2000 05:40 PM
Why can't you find a job that is good there? It's a tough call, relationships come and go...If you really think you can get a great job back home, than go. If you really love this chick, stay where you are and bust your ass to find a good job there. It's not like you talking about being a computer genuious, and going from NY to work in PA. Or are you? Good Luck Bro! Hack IP: Logged |
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Hotblood Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 140) |
posted August 01, 2000 05:48 PM
Stay with her and look for other work there. IP: Logged |
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madbomber31 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 459) |
posted August 01, 2000 05:50 PM
ive looked and looked... sent out endless resumes... its getting to me now. i have 2 more possibilities, that might work out... my pad is fuckin smooth.... eagles shit everywhere IP: Logged |
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moe dank Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1320) |
posted August 01, 2000 06:22 PM
well bro that is a tough situation for sure. TN isnt the place to be looking for a job. One she could move back with you. of course moving in together so soon could kill everything. two she could come out after you get set up out there. Three..........that is about it. Long distance romance just doenst work. Life is a bitch sometimes, but everything happens for a reason. IP: Logged |
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madbomber31 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 459) |
posted August 01, 2000 06:25 PM
after my previous post, i noticed i had 444 posts... i just decided, my 666th post will be the last one..... i retire then. IP: Logged |
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madbomber31 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 459) |
posted August 01, 2000 11:17 PM
bumpitty bump. IP: Logged |
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Superstar2b Amateur Bodybuilder (Total posts: 21) |
posted August 02, 2000 12:34 AM
Tough situation, I've been there before. I was living in Austin and seeing a guy for 2 years when I got a job offer in San Francisco. We didn't know what was going to happen & decided to do the long distance thing. Neither of us thought it ws going to work and after 8 months of separation he moved out here. Just go with your gut and do what is the best thing for you. For me the job opportunity was something I could not pass up..everything else will just fall into place. Good luck! IP: Logged |
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kram696969 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 458) |
posted August 02, 2000 12:56 AM
stay with the broad man kram-mark IP: Logged |
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ripp Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 229) |
posted August 02, 2000 01:27 AM
lose the broad and move to California IP: Logged |
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madbomber31 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 459) |
posted August 02, 2000 04:30 AM
hahahaha, california??? thats a year away actually. if i do the whole move with the buddies thing. the trick came over with this framed poem that made my ass cry like a little bitch... shitty situation... i need something to make my decision for me (AND NOT A PREGNANCY) oh ya, i also just got her on the pill... so i gotta have my fun with that shit. IP: Logged |
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havoc Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 560) |
posted August 02, 2000 07:48 AM
Money before women, if she loves you and you love her then you guys will end up with each other no matter what, there are no boundaries with true love but for now go where the cash is. IP: Logged |
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Natymike Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 375) |
posted August 02, 2000 08:09 AM
Stay with her, you can watch Andre together.....hehe ------------------ IP: Logged |
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Dlady27 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1120) |
posted August 02, 2000 09:43 AM
DID YOU NOT LEAVE HOME TO BEGIN WITH CUZ THERE WASNT ANYTHING THERE FOR YOU? IF SO, THEN WHY GO BACK. PUT THE SHOE ON THE OTHER FOOT, WHAT WOULD SHE DO IF IT WERE HER, WOULD SHE LEAVE YOU? ASK HER! FIND A JOB FIRST, IF NOT YOU WILL BE ADDING STRESS TO THE RELATIONSHIP. IP: Logged |
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Thick dog Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 1312) |
posted August 02, 2000 09:48 AM
Unless you are positive that this is the girl you want to marry, I'd put your career first. You definitely need to make some money if you are planning on moving to California in a year. Was she planning on going with you to Cali? IP: Logged |
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The Whole F/N Show Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 375) |
posted August 02, 2000 10:01 AM
Why not move down to Atlanta? It's not too from far TN and has one the best job markets in the country. You would literally have to be retarded to not be able to land a good job down here. IP: Logged |
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madbomber31 Pro Bodybuilder (Total posts: 459) |
posted August 02, 2000 01:59 PM
what i find funny about not being able to find a job is the fact that i have more education then most of these hillbillies. i actually have began to think that some people are just put off by the yankee accent... as for the andre crack...hahahahahahaha, dude andre fuckin rocked. IP: Logged |
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